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E and marriage vs. friends
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So you a friend of a friend has these two friends. He's good friends with each, not like friends of a couple but he knows them each in a unique way. They are somewhere within very engaged to married. So anyhow one has a tendency to cheat on the other. Its pretty obvious to everyone except the significant other, though a drug-induced blackout is always feigned and there is actually a group oblivious vibe lots of denial. Anyhow, is that normal? Can he be friends with either?

It sucks I just want to tell the one, but I know it would destroy each of them. Its really a relationship they need, there is just, you know, that extra on the side.

And that extra, should I hit it? (j/k that last bit)

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: djfrog]
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They are gonna try an use you the same way parents use their kids during a divorce...let it be (it'll all fall apart on it's own eventually)

and you should definitely hit it while you still can  :wink: 


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Muppet]
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tell the other one about the cheating one... Thats just what I would do...

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: domite]
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Don't interfere.  What will happen will happen and if one is wont to cheat....the other will realize when they are ready to realize.

In the meantime, there isn't a whole lot you can do....expect tap that ass.  (j/k)  :lol:

Good luck.


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: CherryBom]
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you are good freinds with jim and bob. Jim steals money from Bob. would you "interfere"?

you are married to lisa. Michal is good friends with bolth you and lisa. Lisa is chaeting on you. Is it not Michal's responsiblity to tell you if he knew?

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: domite]
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No, it's really not anybody's business.

What is Micheal and Lisa had an 'arrangement'? Don't get up in other people's shit. You don't know what goes on between them when they are alone, it's thier business.



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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: djfrog]
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I would stay out of it altogether...no good can come from you telling anybody, and they will both end up resenting you. It's their business, let them sort it out. Just be a silent observer...


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Rono]
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indeed...


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Muppet]
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I say telling the truth isn't interfering, its stating the obvious. Nothing good ever comes from cheating on someone. In fact in my experience shit only gets worse when friends adn family choose to ignore whats going on right in front of their face.

I agree there is some shit you shouldn't get involved in, there are plenty of private things that are no ones business but I don't think this is one of them.

just my 2 cents.

g-dub

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: georgewash]
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i agree with what the former president says

Edited by oDin (11/04/03 10:04 PM)

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: oDin]
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well we sure are helpful, huh?

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: domite]
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pardon me i dont understand?

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: oDin]
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If the one getting cheated on is a good friend of yours I'd tell them. Don't get involved, tell them not to bring your name up (good people are trustworthy people.. but if you can't be assured your name won't come up i'd be wary of bringing anything up, because it would get real ugly).. but it sounds like one of them wants to believe the other is being faithful, very badly. In such a situation you can stand there and see it all happen and tell yourself you must be seeing it wrong, somehow.. don't know how, just.. somehow. has to be.

so.. if the one getting cheated on is a good friend of yours, save them the pain. be prepared to help cheer 'em up though. might go bad.

if they have some kind of arrangement worked out, there's no harm, no foul. "Oh, sorry dude, I didn't know, and it was just somethin I thought you should probably know about.. sorry to bring it up, more power to ya man" If someone's open-minded enough to let their partner sleep around, they better damned well be open minded enough not to get pissed off if someone comes up and tells them about it. It'd take a real jackass to pull that one off.


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: oDin]
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3 yes - 3 no

thats what I meant

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: domite]
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I assumed oDin was referring to the "Don't ask, don't tell" thing.

Anyhow, right now its officially not my problem. In fact I might have imagined it, I mean maybe they were just all groping in the corner and then snuck out to go buy ice cream or something. Nothing wrong with ice cream.

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: djfrog]
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denile...gotta love it  :grin:


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Muppet]
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just be there for your friends when the shit hits the fan, and try to just be a shoulder to cry on.


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Entelle]
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^ best advice ever


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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: Mushmonkey]
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heh i was agreeing with georgewash

oDin<---- poor cyber communication skills

if i was the one being cheated on i would want to know. i would not want to go throug life in foolish ignorance

my 2 cents

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Re: E and marriage vs. friends [Re: oDin]
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Damn right/

Being cheated on sucks, and if you know, tell the man.


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