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Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ??
    #25034867 - 03/03/18 12:09 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

How can a person decide when or not to leave a friend behind?


I mean, if it's just sex, I'd say no, and be with the friend..
But what if that sex would lead to a soul mate.


How does a person choose between good friends and lovers?


This is all revisited territory for me.

I think unless I felt overwhelmingly from the soul, I would never abandon a friend... but then again, the power of the pussy is ever enchanting.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery] * 3
    #25034871 - 03/03/18 12:14 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Bros before hoes. Unless she's a virgin, he should understand.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery]
    #25034872 - 03/03/18 12:14 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

friends gotta understand. if they dont understand then your friend is someone who dont understand, is that the kind of friend you want?


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: trees]
    #25034877 - 03/03/18 12:19 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

dang I'm getting two conflicting opinions here, but yeah.

if a friend doesn't understand and appreciate that I am in love, then it is no friend of mine.

So you are more than right!

But also unless I made a pact with said friend ahead of time, all bets are off, because word is bond.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery] * 1
    #25034891 - 03/03/18 12:31 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Without context there's no way to answer this question


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: ModestMouse]
    #25034895 - 03/03/18 12:35 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

care to add any context beyond that I have given that would justify a more precise answer?

the whole point of my thread in fact was that it was straight forward choice, context or not.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery]
    #25034926 - 03/03/18 12:49 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

I think there should be a balance between the two. Hang with your bros and hang with your woman.
There’s benifets to both.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: MadHatter333]
    #25034934 - 03/03/18 12:55 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

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MadHatter333 said:
I think there should be a balance between the two. Hang with your bros and hang with your woman.
There’s benifets to both.




sure. but I've found that it's not a good idea to use the term "hang" so much because there's lots of people of all races that get uncomfortable .


But I get it, .




Chill with your bro, chill with your lady. :mushroom2:


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery]
    #25034949 - 03/03/18 01:05 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

SOAD, classic. Perfect example of waiting on your girl. I was just sitting in my car today waiting for my gal.
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Fiery said:
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MadHatter333 said:
I think there should be a balance between the two. Hang with your bros and hang with your woman.
There’s benifets to both.




sure. but I've found that it's not a good idea to use the term "hang" so much because there's lots of people of all races that get uncomfortable .


But I get it, .




Chill with your bro, chill with your lady. :mushroom2:





Rock out with your cock out. SOAD, classic.

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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: MadHatter333]
    #25035003 - 03/03/18 01:55 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Neither. You need to make time for friends and a lover. A girl doesn't usually want to be with a guy that doesn't have any friends. Your friends should be happy that you have a lover.

My lover is also my best friend and pretty much my only friend that lives near me. It works for me, but I know it isn't healthy.

Why would you need to pick? Is it an ultimatum or something like that?


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery] * 1
    #25035005 - 03/03/18 01:57 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Fiery said:
How can a person decide when or not to leave a friend behind?


I mean, if it's just sex, I'd say no, and be with the friend..
But what if that sex would lead to a soul mate.


How does a person choose between good friends and lovers?


This is all revisited territory for me.

I think unless I felt overwhelmingly from the soul, I would never abandon a friend... but then again, the power of the pussy is ever enchanting.




What do you mean "leave a friend behind" and "abandon a friend"? Can he never be alone? Is he 5 years old? Did you ditch him out in the middle of nowhere? I don't get it


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Apples in Mono]
    #25035112 - 03/03/18 05:09 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Have the chick bring her sister/cusion/brother/friend  what ever your homie is into real friends help get you laid and paid.
In your case id have urb send over mudy mike:bathtub40lol:


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: Fiery] * 1
    #25035566 - 03/03/18 11:18 AM (3 years, 10 months ago)

So, I've gotta change some of the language on this one since I'm a heterosexual woman but it's the same concept.



There's a big difference between a friend calling and saying, "I'm bored, come hang out with me" and a friend calling in a genuine need.


If one of my best friends called me and needed me, I would go regardless of what was happening even if I was currently out with a guy. If the guy didn't understand that type of priority in the moment than maybe they aren't the type of person that I need in my life. My "soul mate" or whatever you want to call it is someone I would want to understand the importance of showing up for friends when they need someone.

If the reverse situation happened to me and a guy had to leave to be with a friend in need, I would respect the decision. There's always another day, another time to see someone.


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Re: Would you give up having sex with a wonderful woman, to not leave a friend abandoned ?? [Re: keyohnah]
    #25035727 - 03/03/18 12:46 PM (3 years, 10 months ago)

Ive been in a similar situation.

It was senior prom night, and i danced with a girl that I knew beforehand. We were both single dates (we didnt have one) so we danced a lot of the night. She gave her number to my friend J (not to me, dont know why) so we could meet up at her hotel later.

Well, I arrived at the prom with my best friend J and after the prom, we were to hang out at his hotel. I also didnt bring my car at the time, so he was my ride. He took me close to the hotel and said "I have her number" but nothing came of it. I kinda wanted to go see my lady friend, but I wasnt like really wanting too. Semi-attracted to her only.

Anyway, spent the night with my friend J instead of drinking with that girl and her girl friends. Oh well, such is life. Sometimes u have to choose between one or the other. Its more of a time-issue than a betrayal issue in my opinion. Its just hard to have time for a friend AND for a soul mate partner. At least in my experience.


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