Wiccan_Seeker said:

chicksgrowtoo said:

Soooo... I invited some friends over yesterday just to be around when I went to talk to dude. It never happened. My friends were on their way and I saw some other neighbors outside so I went out to smoke, dude came out of his house and went back in a couple times while I was out there. Then stood on his screened in porch and watched. As soon as my friends pulled up I didn't wait on them to get out of the car and started to walk over to his house when he went inside really quick and slammed the door. This made me nervous so I signaled one of my friends to come over and we knocked on the door. He didn't answer so we went back to my house and they all stayed for a long time cooking and hanging out. I walked outside a few times and never saw him. I did use one of my friends phones to text him this morning and told him that I wasn't interested and he was being really rude and creeping me out. He sent a lot of texts back that I didn't bother reading because I'm just mentally exhausted from all this bs and I told my buddy to send him one text back before blocking him telling him basically to fuck off and that if he didn't police would be involved...

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Your lack of self reliance is saddening

Bringing friends in, then letting them text him a rude message, all the dude wanted, no offense, was get his dick wet and you really should have told him no, right from the start, in no uncertain terms.

This might not have become a thing if you had.

Now its a thing where he obsesses over your indecisiveness then you call in friends to potentially kick his ass and rile them up against him to the point of texting him to piss off under threat of the police.

You should've said no loud and clear from the start, politely but decisively.  The guy might be a supreme creep but a clear NO would have put down his hopes before they got raised.

I know its hard to say no but sometimes you just gotta. Now its gotten even more awkward with your friends involved.

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Blame the victim because she didn't explain what no meant to a retard.

Enlil said:

You might be charged as well, but that's far less likely because you have a vagina.

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Distorted Vision said:

Blame the victim because she didn't explain what no meant to a retard.

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Wiccan_Seeker said:

You'd better listen to this man, not only is he an expert on the legal system but he is also very good at assigning vaginas to the correct people.

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Distorted Vision said:

It's a shame this guy hasn't been beaten hard enough to learn his lesson. People that are too stupid to know what no means need beaten so they can understand.

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Yeah dude...violence is always the best way to breed understanding and prevent violence

Enlil said:

Distorted Vision said:

It's a shame this guy hasn't been beaten hard enough to learn his lesson. People that are too stupid to know what no means need beaten so they can understand.

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Yeah dude...violence is always the best way to breed understanding and prevent violence

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chicksgrowtoo said:

yeah thanks....all this is so helpful.

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Its the Pub. If it was OTD you could address him directly

If you are positive you want it closed, I'll close it. No disrespect was intended, at least not by me.