Anonymous #11 said:

OP, I suspect you fucked a few things up and/or seemed needy / desperate. You CAN be too nice, as in be overly nice and that reeks of neediness. We've all been there, sometimes this shit happens

The reason why this particular ho going away bothers you, is the fact that you don't have any options. If you had 4-5 other girls to date or fuck, you wouldn't give two shits about this one going away, or being busy for a few days. Since you don't, all your eggs are in her basket and she's got you by the balls. There's nothing that kills attraction so fast as when the girl has you by the balls, because you don't have options. Has nothing to do with her having abusive men or whatever in her past.

I suspect that's what took place over there. Of course we only have what's in this thread to go by, so only you know the details. In your heart of hearts you know if and where you fucked up, where you were too pushy or clingy when you should have been chilling and not giving a fuck.

I can only recommend you buy some massage oil and next chick you bring to your place to fuck, give her an amazing massage as well. Don't just do her back, do her feet as well. Women are complete suckers for that stuff, works every single time

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