Anonymous #23 said: Anyone here saying to let it go has probably snitched before.
Anonymous #8 said: I have a hard time with anyone that questions the legitimacy of vengeance in a case like this.
So the only reason a person wouldn't frame an innocent person who did them wrong is because they're a grass themselves?
Maybe it's because they realise that a burning desire to "equalise" any injustice will only be harmful for that person long-term.
If you can't come to terms with the fact that someone got the better of you, you'll spend your entire life needing to right every wrong that comes your way. Sooner or later, you're going to fail, and someone is going to get the better of you. If you've set yourself up as someone who can't be wronged, it will burn inside of you forever, a negative enegry which will be detrimental to your overall sense of peace.
I'm not trying to be all hippy about it, I just see vengence as a dark road to travel - if you have to do it, then do it - but don't take it lightly, because this kind of thinking can fuck you over badly in life (whether you end up in jail, or bitter about the one who got the better of you, or whatever). Is OP going to blame the snitch when his revenge plot goes wrong? Will it be the snitch's fault that OP's life is worse because of the revenge he "had" to take.
If OP were successful in his scheme, and the snitch ends up doing felony time, what will happen if OP matures and decides what he did was wrong? What then for OP? Go and admit it all to sooth his conscience? Carry his guilt with him? Every trip having to face the dark shadow of putting an innocent person in prison? Revenge is a one way street, and there's nothing that can undo it.
Learn from it and let it go, or carry it with you forever. Just don't think "fucking them over" will give you a sense of freedom - long term, it will do the opposite.
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