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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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occollegeboi said:
Perhaps the fact that I'm gay and all MEN in general want sex all the time, it's just easier for us to get laid?

In the gay world, it's pretty straight forward. People are either looking for friends, friends with benefits, fuck buddies, or boyfriends.

Lesbian sex is a WHOLE other story though! Don't ask, I have no idea!

Yes, I care about personality as well. I didn't so much when I was younger, but I'm finding that as I get older, personality and looks go hand in hand.



How many circle jerks have you had?


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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occollegeboi said:
The Vapor said:
Hmmmmm, this didn't really go where I thought it would.

You didn't think that 14 was a bit early to come out? Most people wait til later when they are certain of things, but I guess whatever works for you.


It's different for everyone. I had a couple good friends who were gay at the time who helped me feel comfortable with my sexuality.

You didn't answer the question though. I want to hear about your sexual self discoveries! :smile:


I really enjoy it when I can relate with the person in terms of likes and shit like that, when we have something in common. When I feel that I can really relate with them and truly love them that is a huge part of things. I don't find people attractive based on looks alone, its almost the opposite. If someone is really insincere as who they are but they look really good its not a go for me.

And unam, pictures like that is what spoilers are for. I probably would have looked anyways but whatever.


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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Ive always been into kink. Ive known I was into kink since I was a teenager. Vanilla doesnt do too much for me unless it's the right person.

Though heterosexual I think I can relate to the whole coming out thing, in that I felt much shame about my kinks and kept them secret for a long time. Im just now starting to be more open and up front to people Im interested in about what it is that Im interested in.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: The Vapor]
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The Vapor said:
And unam, pictures like that is what spoilers are for. I probably would have looked anyways but whatever.


Sorry, dude. :shrug:

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: unam sanctum]
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unam sanctum said:
The Vapor said:
And unam, pictures like that is what spoilers are for. I probably would have looked anyways but whatever.


Sorry, dude. :shrug:


Nah its all fine, just saying.


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: The Vapor]
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Connor4050 said:
How many circle jerks have you had?


I haven't done ANY circle jerks. But one time, when I was 16, I had a 3 sum with 2 tops and they double fucked me. lol!
The Vapor said:
I really enjoy it when I can relate with the person in terms of likes and shit like that, when we have something in common. When I feel that I can really relate with them and truly love them that is a huge part of things. I don't find people attractive based on looks alone, its almost the opposite. If someone is really insincere as who they are but they look really good its not a go for me.

And unam, pictures like that is what spoilers are for. I probably would have looked anyways but whatever.


What sucks about a LOT of young gay men is that a lot of them are really egoic, superficial, and only care about looks, and spend a lot of time on THEIR OWN looks and a lot of time at the gym. I personally do not like 6 packs, and there's nothing more of the turn OFF than an egotistical guy.

Another thing is that a lot of gay guys will only be friends (even if sex will NEVER be involved) with guy they find physically attractive. I tried friending this one guy but he told me I was ugly. I was like, "WOw, that's fucking rude! Not that I care, you're not my type either, but that doesn't mean we can't be friends and have fun times together." I could care less that I wasn't his type but the fact that he had the balls to dismiss me just on my looks was just out of this world.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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Alot of women are like that too...I cant count how many didnt want to be friends just because they didnt find me attractive, even if I wasnt even into them in that way.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: The Vapor]
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Muscaria, I'm actually intensely intensely curious about how kinks and proper fetishes develop in people.

for a long time i've been meaning to interview people that can't get off without their fetish of choice. 

Its really mysterious to me.  I've talked to people that said they've been that way since they were sexually mature.  In my mind that implies some sort of neurological hardwiring.
Really fascinating stuff IMO.


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: drr]
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drr said:
:awewtf:


Not hating, but :awewtf: matched my facial expression perfectly as I was reading the OP.

Anyway, I never though I liked bigger chicks until earlier this year, it really widened my palette up of females I found attractive. When I was watching that episode of Weeds where the black girl fucks the gay indian I found out I also really like black girls too.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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occollegeboi said:
Connor4050 said:
How many circle jerks have you had?


I haven't done ANY circle jerks. But one time, when I was 16, I had a 3 sum with 2 tops and they double fucked me. lol!
The Vapor said:
I really enjoy it when I can relate with the person in terms of likes and shit like that, when we have something in common. When I feel that I can really relate with them and truly love them that is a huge part of things. I don't find people attractive based on looks alone, its almost the opposite. If someone is really insincere as who they are but they look really good its not a go for me.

And unam, pictures like that is what spoilers are for. I probably would have looked anyways but whatever.


What sucks about a LOT of young gay men is that a lot of them are really egoic, superficial, and only care about looks, and spend a lot of time on THEIR OWN looks and a lot of time at the gym. I personally do not like 6 packs, and there's nothing more of the turn OFF than an egotistical guy.

Another thing is that a lot of gay guys will only be friends (even if sex will NEVER be involved) with guy they find physically attractive. I tried friending this one guy but he told me I was ugly. I was like, "WOw, that's fucking rude! Not that I care, you're not my type either, but that doesn't mean we can't be friends and have fun times together." I could care less that I wasn't his type but the fact that he had the balls to dismiss me just on my looks was just out of this world.


wow, you really have no qualms about divulging information about yourself. When I was in High school there was like maybe 2 gay people, one was a super flamer and just in general a walking stereotype and the other had sucked dicks and had a boyfriend but then was dating a girl so idk what that was. I am sure there were more kids, but none of them were obvious about it.

I guess it really depends on where you live.


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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I like all kinds of sex

I'm not attracted to men at all, though

I can point out attributes that I think are attractive in men, but while being offered to be got off by men on a few occasions, I've had no desire

probably couldn't even get it up in such a situation

otherwise I'm a pretty open and unabashed freak


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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I have a soft spot for latin boys. When I say "boy" I mean from 18-about 24. I'm 25, and I like guys younger than me. As a bottom, I was always into older men. When I was 17, I was boyfriends with a 32 year old man. Him and I are still friends to this day.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: teamkiller]
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teamkiller said:
Muscaria, I'm actually intensely intensely curious about how kinks and proper fetishes develop in people.

for a long time i've been meaning to interview people that can't get off without their fetish of choice. 

Its really mysterious to me.  I've talked to people that said they've been that way since they were sexually mature.  In my mind that implies some sort of neurological hardwiring.
Really fascinating stuff IMO.


IMO it's just like how drugs change the reward system in the brain. After practicing a behavior over and over again it gets to be the "go to" high.

I CAN get off without the fetishes, but I think that's because it's such a laundry list for me I can substitute one for the other. Some of my interests are for certain body types, so if I find someone like that it really doesnt even have to be all that freaky since theyve got the ass, legs, face, etc that I may like.

i do remember having some of the fetishes since I was sexually mature. Some faded over time, or even went away completely. Other new ones developed seemingly out of nowhere.

Im just lucky enough to have 40 or so fetishes of choice.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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I'm also aiming to cross off every nationality and style from a "have fucked" list

it's going pretty swell

for some strange reason, I seem to fuck a lot of bilinguals and polyglots

I'll also love giving oral sex, and receiving, and I I put 69'ing on the same level as fucking for enjoyment


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: The Vapor]
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The Vapor said:
wow, you really have no qualms about divulging information about yourself. When I was in High school there was like maybe 2 gay people, one was a super flamer and just in general a walking stereotype and the other had sucked dicks and had a boyfriend but then was dating a girl so idk what that was. I am sure there were more kids, but none of them were obvious about it.

I guess it really depends on where you live.


I've always used the internet to find my sex partners and boyfriends. I used the gay.com chat room and adam4adam.com Other than my last boyfriend in 2009, who I met at my old work. He is the only one of my ex's who I am not friends with. He became VERY bitter.

Um, yah, I really don't give a shit about being open.

I don't know if it's because I don't live in california anymore, but it's a lot harder to find a sex partner now than it was back then.

I think the only person I DID NOT meet online was the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 14. He was actually STRAIGHT but we were drunk. I met him at an alcoholics anonymous meeting. We got drunk and he wanted me to suck his dick. THen he fucked me. I asked him the next what was up, he said he's straight but only did it because he was horny. I was like, "Woah, that's cool!"

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: CarnivalBarker]
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I also developed an interest in bigger girls earlier this year. I used to find them repulsive when I was younger. Im not talking obese or anything, but I like a little stomach pudge, muffin top, etc.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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occollegeboi said:
I have a soft spot for latin boys. When I say "boy" I mean from 18-about 24. I'm 25, and I like guys younger than me. As a bottom, I was always into older men. When I was 17, I was boyfriends with a 32 year old man. Him and I are still friends to this day.


occollegeboi said:
The Vapor said:
wow, you really have no qualms about divulging information about yourself. When I was in High school there was like maybe 2 gay people, one was a super flamer and just in general a walking stereotype and the other had sucked dicks and had a boyfriend but then was dating a girl so idk what that was. I am sure there were more kids, but none of them were obvious about it.

I guess it really depends on where you live.


I've always used the internet to find my sex partners and boyfriends. I used the gay.com chat room and adam4adam.com Other than my last boyfriend in 2009, who I met at my old work. He is the only one of my ex's who I am not friends with. He became VERY bitter.

Um, yah, I really don't give a shit about being open.

I don't know if it's because I don't live in california anymore, but it's a lot harder to find a sex partner now than it was back then.

I think the only person I DID NOT meet online was the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 14. He was actually STRAIGHT but we were drunk. I met him at an alcoholics anonymous meeting. We got drunk and he wanted me to suck his dick. THen he fucked me. I asked him the next what was up, he said he's straight but only did it because he was horny. I was like, "Woah, that's cool!"


I am sorry for continually pointing things like this out, but your life just gets more interesting the more you share.

As for sexual shit about myself, kind of animalistic stuff is cool. Not growling and shit or costumes or whatever, just really going at it.


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: occollegeboi]
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When I was a bottom, I wanted to get fucked by as many tops as possible and get as much dick as possible. Now, I'm not sure if it's because I'm older or what, but I would much rather prefer to have 1 or 2 friends with benefits or fuck buddies. A GOOD fuck buddy/friend with benefit is hard to find. Once you find a GOOD one, it's hard to find another GOOD one. One that turns you on just right, who teases you just right, who makes you beg for it just right, etc.

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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: DrMambo]
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DrMambo said:
I'm also aiming to cross off every nationality and style from a "have fucked" list

it's going pretty swell

for some strange reason, I seem to fuck a lot of bilinguals and polyglots

I'll also love giving oral sex, and receiving, and I I put 69'ing on the same level as fucking for enjoyment


Agreed, 69 is much better than giving or recieving. I find just the giving or recieving kind of boring/detached :shrug: .


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Re: Sexual self discovery... [Re: Enjoywho]
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I like to run trains with my home boys.

I'm trying to get my best friend to let me fuck his baby's momma with him.


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