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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: adrug]
#7683317 - 11/26/07 08:09 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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adrug said: Not me, I had sex this morning!
Oh yeah, but I'm still a loser...
Saturday night and Sunday morning. Loser, I doubt it, for both of us.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7683882 - 11/26/07 11:00 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm asexual for the most part
I might 'fantasize' about women sometimes (playing with them an shit) but the act of sex, itself, only crosses my mind *maybe* once a month
I really could care less about getting my dick wet
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7684234 - 11/27/07 12:36 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Honestly, not too often. My sex drive has dropped off dramatically since puberty ended (around 18 or 19, I guess).
Back when I was a youngin, I'd masturbate at least once a day. Now it's more like once a week, if that.
It's strange really, because I have a new girl that I'm dating (same age) who says she will day dream in classes about having sex. I wish I still had that drive. Sure, I'll still get horny when the situation is appropriate. In fact, I've had sex 3 times today, but was I ever in the "damn I wanna get laid right now" mindset? Nope, not at all. We just ended up in bed and started kissing, one thing led to another... you get the picture.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: Gumby]
#7684616 - 11/27/07 05:24 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i barely feel like sex at all, if it were for me i would be fine with fucking once a month.
my currently relationship is breaking apart, because of that.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: ohmatic]
#7684641 - 11/27/07 05:51 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I always have an undercurrent of sexual desire, always have done. I used to be utterly obsessed, practically carnivourous, with sex, now I can keep it as a background hum.
It's somewhat seasonal, during the spring into the summer my libido leaps through the roof, and during the autumn/winter months it slows down a little.
My wife's quite happy about it 
I'm 31 now, so I hope this carries on for another good 30-40 years.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: theorganicdomino]
#7684657 - 11/27/07 06:07 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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mine isnt - shes about to leave me for it
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: ohmatic]
#7684901 - 11/27/07 08:11 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Damn man, that's so strange, to me it's completely impossible to imagine not wanting to fuck every day.
I'm a natural born fucker
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: ohmatic]
#7685381 - 11/27/07 10:29 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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ohmatic said: mine isnt - shes about to leave me for it
Your wife is about to leave you because you want to have lots of sex with her?
What the hell is wrong with her? Why the fuck did she get married? She will be kicking herself when she is old and crusty and she can't get any action aside from her vibrator.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7685410 - 11/27/07 10:37 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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MOTH said: sexuality...are you horny and think about getting it on a lot? Or do you wonder if you're celibate because you just don't care?
Just wondering where most people fall.
I am curious, and not in a perverted way, as to what your answer to your own question is and why you bring it up. I have gotten the impression that you have a very fluid sexuality and have a profound and complicated experience with your own sexuality. This is very interesting to me as I am currently head over heels in love with my gf who is bisexual and I have learned a lot from her. Or shall I say I have unlearned a lot from her.
I have a tendency to obsess with sex. Even when I am not turned on I like having sex, sometimes just to get the heart rate going and get all sweaty. It has always been an insatiable appettite for me. I am always ready to have sex and can go for hours on end. Yet I often have trouble having an orgasm. Maybe this is too much information, or sounds like I am bragging, but I am not. Sometimes I feel like I spend too much time in the sexual realm and would feel relieved if I could chill out and do other things without getting so distracted.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7685526 - 11/27/07 11:15 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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used to think about sex obsessively
then I got into a committed relationship
now I hardly ever think about it
I think I was just using lust/sexual gratification as a substitute for emotional companionship. Now that I have the emotional companionship, sex isn't nearly as important to me (much to the chagrin of my girlfriend).
basically the conclusion I've come to is if you want to have sex all the time, be a player, bang lots of chicks. Because once you settle down, your sex drive does too.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: gluke bastid]
#7685532 - 11/27/07 11:16 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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gluke bastid said:
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ohmatic said: mine isnt - shes about to leave me for it
Your wife is about to leave you because you want to have lots of sex with her?
you got me completely wrong, shes about to because i am NOT fucking her anymore.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: ohmatic]
#7685549 - 11/27/07 11:20 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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let me come live with you guys - I'll fix that problem ina minute
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7685664 - 11/27/07 11:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Lately, I feel hornier than I have ever been in my entire life up to this moment. I think about sex pretty fucking often. I'm a bit of a dog lately, and an absolutely shameless flirt. I am 24. Is that my sexual prime or something, according to biologists/anthropologists? Or is my rampant lust a result of the distance my girlfriend and I are willingly putting between ourselves for a little bit? Or is it a little bit from column A and a little bit from column B? Probably.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: OneMoreRobot3021]
#7685706 - 11/27/07 12:09 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Def column B
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7685708 - 11/27/07 12:09 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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D'oh
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: gluke bastid]
#7686785 - 11/27/07 04:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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gluke bastid said:
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MOTH said: sexuality...are you horny and think about getting it on a lot? Or do you wonder if you're celibate because you just don't care?
Just wondering where most people fall.
I am curious, and not in a perverted way, as to what your answer to your own question is and why you bring it up. I have gotten the impression that you have a very fluid sexuality and have a profound and complicated experience with your own sexuality. This is very interesting to me as I am currently head over heels in love with my gf who is bisexual and I have learned a lot from her. Or shall I say I have unlearned a lot from her.
I hardly ever get aroused anymore. If I do it happens randomly, and is more like a 2nd chakra awareness (a buzzing, tingling in the hip area) I never think about sex (if I do it's purely to play around or make a joke) and don't care. I never enjoyed it, except whenever I was ate out by my partner or masturbated by him, or myself. Even that is lost to me now. Masturbation seems like a chore. I am too separated from my body to engage myself like that. I simply don't see what the point is. The pleasure is so temporary if I can get myself into it at all. It's like eating. Or smoking pot. Or doing anything, really.
You do it, you consume it, you intake it...it gives you a "rush" and then you're back where you left off. Temporary pleasure. Consuming.
Desires of the flesh are not for me. It didn't always used to be this way...when I was a teen and early adult, I used to have a fetish that I RELIED upon to get off and was a SUPER-HORNY BITCH because of it. Plus I thought to be a good wife, I had to be super-horny and put out all the time. And I was for awhile; with my fetish I was constantly aroused. I've never been a sexual person (contrary to what people here might believe) and using my fetish (fixation) to help me get off was the only thing my partner could do. Then a few years ago, I lost connection with that too. It just stopped arousing me, and that was the ONLY THING my entire life that has worked. Without it, I am devoid of sexuality, seriously.
Some a-holes are making fun of me in the anonymous forum about these recent and ever-shifting "what the hell's up with my sexuality" posts of mine, but I'm posting about it because I am going through an incredible change right now in my personal life. This isn't something that has just "popped" out of nowhere, I've been struggling and trying to figure out my sexuality for years now, because it has been messing with my emotional states and affecting my marriage for a while. How many times can your partner experience unfulfilled sexual desire before they start to feel responsible for your lack of sex drive? Months? Years? It's been years for me. Like I said, this hasn't been easy for either my partner or I and it pisses me off that people are being such assholes about it. I'm trying to figure myself out and live life according to how I feel in my heart and soul, past all the social and religious conditioning I was brought up with. All my partner wants to do is please me, but I cannot be reached sexually. It just started to feel wrong for me to be touched that way. I am an emotional brick wall when it comes to sex. Nothing can penetrate.
Kinda lonely realizing that, but oh well.
I prefer the way I am now. More myself.
And that's my story. Probably got more then you bargained for in that response, ha.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: MOTH]
#7686915 - 11/27/07 04:57 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Not that I don't think you have every right to talk about these things here if you so choose, but if you do, you can't fault people for forming opinions about it.
One week you're moving to Texas, the next week you're moving to some other state, then you want to move to Europe, then you're gay, then you're asexual... I think we all understand you're trying to find yourself and who you really are, but if you don't want to be criticized for it, then you should probably think twice about airing it all out in a public place.
Just my 2c. Personally I still love ya and hope you figure it all out.
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: adrug]
#7686926 - 11/27/07 04:59 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am feeling too sexual for my clothes right about now...
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: adrug]
#7686969 - 11/27/07 05:06 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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adrug said: Not that I don't think you have every right to talk about these things here if you so choose, but if you do, you can't fault people for forming opinions about it.
One week you're moving to Texas, the next week you're moving to some other state, then you want to move to Europe, then you're gay, then you're asexual... I think we all understand you're trying to find yourself and who you really are, but if you don't want to be criticized for it, then you should probably think twice about airing it all out in a public place.
Just my 2c. Personally I still love ya and hope you figure it all out.
I agree; people have a right to form opinions over what I post. I tend to air it publically because the Shroomery has always been a place where I let it all hang out. I don't like to stifle myself here.
To my mind, posting opinions about me in the anonymous forum reeks of cowardice and that's what I object to. If people have opinions about the way I am, I like to know what planet they're coming from. I started wondering if someone of my online "friends" actually feel differently about me then they publically portray and that bothered me. Why not just have some balls and tell me what you need to say "face to face?" I'm pretty open to all sorts of topics, even sensitive ones.
Whatever, I'm done now.
Love you too, adrug!
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Re: How often do you feel sexual? (experience a desire for sex) [Re: adrug]
#7686979 - 11/27/07 05:07 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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adrug said: I think we all understand you're trying to find yourself and who you really are, but if you don't want to be criticized for it, then you should probably think twice about airing it all out in a public place.
It's amazing how long it took me to figure this out.
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