blujay said:

If you guys know anything funny at all that I may not have seen, laughing might be a really good thing right now. I'm basically having a heartbreak over splitting with my high-school sweetheart of three years for like, the second or third time.... but I still miss her. My heart stays stay but my dick says go away, and I'm lost somewhere in the middle.

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I hear ya man....

It's been almost a year and a half since me and my lady split...I'm over her, i think, i've moved on and know we will never be back together...But damn do i still miss her....



We met SR year in high school and were together for almost 4 years....



Only thing that will help is time ...



Just sucks not having someone to share and experience life with ....






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blujay said:

If you guys know anything funny at all that I may not have seen, laughing might be a really good thing right now. I'm basically having a heartbreak over splitting with my high-school sweetheart of three years for like, the second or third time.... but I still miss her. My heart stays stay but my dick says go away, and I'm lost somewhere in the middle.

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openmind said:

blujay said:

If you guys know anything funny at all that I may not have seen, laughing might be a really good thing right now. I'm basically having a heartbreak over splitting with my high-school sweetheart of three years for like, the second or third time.... but I still miss her. My heart stays stay but my dick says go away, and I'm lost somewhere in the middle.

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I hear ya man....

It's been almost a year and a half since me and my lady split...I'm over her, i think, i've moved on and know we will never be back together...But damn do i still miss her....



We met SR year in high school and were together for almost 4 years....



Only thing that will help is time ...



Just sucks not having someone to share and experience life with ....






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probrem: she wants to be friends. In a town this small, during the school year, we're going to see eachother constantly. I can't do this anymore; we're headed in totally different directions. When we got together I didn't know what weed or booze was. We got to discover them together, and she would never make me choose, but I wanna take huge rips with my gal... and I've met a few great gals but I just can't seem to make a move. I think I might straight up ask someone to just go eat lunch with me tomorrow.

♪ and when it's over, can i still come over? ♪

all the damn songs I can't get out of my head. Somone save me, I'm spinning free and it's making my tipsy.

blissedout said:

Some mumbo jumbo about the chat not working. Something about a java script error if I am reading that right.

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Meat_hod said:

Blujay, You'll find someone better, trust!

It's better to be free, so that you can find that better someone!

In the mean time, watch Forgetting Sarah Marshall.

aaannd, sup everyone!!

Been a lazy day.. I booked a 7 day trip into the backcountry of Algonquin park. If you don't know where that is, it's in northern Ontario, in the middle of fuckin' nowhere. The only way to get in the park is canoe, or hike, but hiking you won't get very far in.

Anyhow, I'm pumped!! Me and my girlfriend are going (sorry Blujay), and we are just going to canoe, fish, and have tons of naked wilderness sex.

Then we are just going to relax bigtime at my cottage for another 7 days.

ooohh man, exciting.

Tomorrow, I have to make a camping gear list, buy a new backpack, and a new tent.. good times ahead!!

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Meat_hod said:

Also, just curious, how does a long term (3 or 4 years) relationship end?

Is it a gradual thing? or what? I seem to think that if you're with someone for that long, that you're pretty much with the right person...

do you grow apart or something? what changes?!

Im so curious...

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Meat_hod said:

Also, just curious, how does a long term (3 or 4 years) relationship end?

Is it a gradual thing? or what? I seem to think that if you're with someone for that long, that you're pretty much with the right person...

do you grow apart or something? what changes?!

Im so curious...

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In my situation, it's complicated ....



Now that i can look back and see, you know hindsight is always 20/20....



But many factors and variables came into place to cause us to slowly push away from each other...I think one of the biggest factors was her gold digger materialistic mother , other friends...My suspicion of her cheating, she would always swear that she wasn't, causing me to become rather overprotective...Things went into a vicious cycle that just spiraled downward...



We were together a lot and ultimately i think we just suffocated each other...Again, hindsight is always 20/20, but if we would have gave each other more time apart i think we would have still been together...





Even though i think i'm over her, there are still some things i want to talk to her about now that there's been some time for me to realize why we split. A lot of things are still eating at me...When we split, that was sorta it, never really talked about it, so there were many things for myself that were left unsaid. I think if i was able to get those things off my chest i would finally be able to completely move on...Though i will still always her, we went through far to many things in life in those short 4 years we were together for me to say i no longer love her....















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openmind said:

Meat_hod said:

Also, just curious, how does a long term (3 or 4 years) relationship end?

Is it a gradual thing? or what? I seem to think that if you're with someone for that long, that you're pretty much with the right person...

do you grow apart or something? what changes?!

Im so curious...

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In my situation, it's complicated ....



Now that i can look back and see, you know hindsight is always 20/20....



But many factors and variables came into place to cause us to slowly push away from each other...I think one of the biggest factors was her gold digger materialistic mother , other friends...My suspicion of her cheating, she would always swear that she wasn't, causing me to become rather overprotective...Things went into a vicious cycle that just spiraled downward...



We were together a lot and ultimately i think we just suffocated each other...Again, hindsight is always 20/20, but if we would have gave each other more time apart i think we would have still been together...





Even though i think i'm over her, there are still some things i want to talk to her about now that there's been some time for me to realize why we split. A lot of things are still eating at me...When we split, that was sorta it, never really talked about it, so there were many things for myself that were left unsaid. I think if i was able to get those things off my chest i would finally be able to completely move on...Though i will still always her, we went through far to many things in life in those short 4 years we were together for me to say i no longer love her....















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shadyy said:

i'm not digging the vibe in here

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