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Aninator
Flashtique


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Heartbreak...
#5893783 - 07/24/06 08:00 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sucks.
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Simisu
taken by gravity


Registered: 08/08/03
Posts: 5,435
Loc: Israeli in
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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5893789 - 07/24/06 08:05 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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InjectTruth
Wasting my Time,Waiting for theEnd


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Simisu]
#5893791 - 07/24/06 08:07 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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tell me about it. Im dealing with that garbage, too.
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carshissbymywinda

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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5893875 - 07/24/06 09:20 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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awwww feel better I know how you feel
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Simisu
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KaptKid
Spaced Pirate


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5893921 - 07/24/06 10:02 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rejection does to. Just not as long.
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Gillette
Jaded


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: KaptKid]
#5893949 - 07/24/06 10:18 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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CaptainHeadbang
Metal God


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: KaptKid]
#5893950 - 07/24/06 10:18 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Captain Headbang recommends large quantities of alcohol
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HarvestTheBrain
CultDeVader

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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894053 - 07/24/06 11:21 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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and somehow, life continues
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KingOftheThing
the cool fool


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Loc: USA
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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: KaptKid]
#5894124 - 07/24/06 11:46 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
KaptKid said: Rejection does to. Just not as long.
im not bugged by rejection as much as i thought i would be. i was always so worried by the thought of it. then when i actually got rejected, i was just kinda like "HA! , oh well"..... i wasnt phased. it actually makes me chuckle i even tried with the girl in the first place.
so my advice is if you're afraid of rejection, dont be. its not that bad at all. ya never know too, ya might not even get rejected...i guess ya dont know till ya put urself out there.
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TrippinTeddy
Lost Voyager


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Get out and meet someone else. Thats the fastest way to get over it. Trust me bro. Their are other people out there that you will find love with. Make take time but they are there.
Yeah and drink booze like Capitanhead bang says
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CaptainHeadbang
Metal God


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Quote:
TrippinTeddy said: Get out and meet someone else. Thats the fastest way to get over it. Trust me bro. Their are other people out there that you will find love with. Make take time but they are there.
Yeah and drink booze like Capitanhead bang says
thats the gayest thing ive ever heard.....
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Aninator
Flashtique


Registered: 01/03/06
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I dunno meeting someone else the day after a day of sobbing doesn't feel like it's gonna make me feel better. I dunno i always need time. Everytime i meet someone else after a heartbreak makes me just sad that i'm not with the person who broke my heart. Alchohol will just make me sloppy and probably more upset. Nothing heals a broken heart but time for me and i hate it...
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Acidic_Sloth
Acidic poly-Sided Di-slothamide


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894737 - 07/24/06 03:41 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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i'm the same way. yes, it fucking sucks. you will feel better eventually. just try to keep your mind off it. play countless hours of video games or something.
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


Registered: 12/26/98
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Loc: Ontario
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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894778 - 07/24/06 04:02 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh honey, I know EXACLY how you feel. It sucks and you feel shitty and empty and lonely. It hurts like a gentle, aching pain right in your soul.
Having a broken heart is one of the worst feelings in the entire world. Finding someone new defintely isn't on your 'to do' list. That's not going to help ya.... not if you really loved him. Only time.
I've actually come to the conclusion that time doesn't even heal your poor little heart so much as it just kind of goes numb. Everyone keeps telling me that it's going to be ok...they keep telling me that this too, shall pass. I don't beleive them, but I want to tell you the same thing.
Crying helps. Write in your journal. Do both at the same time. Call your best friend- no not him...your best girlfriend, and get drunk, get stoned. Read a book, take a class....for godsakes keep yourself busy because if you don't, you're going to keep being sad.
I should take my own advice. 
Hang in there sweetheart. You'll be ok one day.
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Yarry
Old Timer


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894795 - 07/24/06 04:10 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ani your a beautiful girl with a great head on your shoulders.. It sucks ass now that your heartbroken but i think with each such event you learn something... be it about yourself or others you do...
Take what you can from it, and next time you'll do much better.
In the meantime ill get drunk on your behalf (that way i have an excuse!)
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goliath_91710
King Dumpster


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894805 - 07/24/06 04:13 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I like how Perry Farrell puts it:
"I was made with a heart of stone to be broken with one hard blow I've seen the ocean break on the shore come together with no harm done...
it ain't easy living...
I want to be as deep as the ocean mother ocean"
-from Ocean Size
Oh yeah, and what my signature says...
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Silversoul
Rhizome


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894843 - 07/24/06 04:30 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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AniNator said: I dunno meeting someone else the day after a day of sobbing doesn't feel like it's gonna make me feel better. I dunno i always need time. Everytime i meet someone else after a heartbreak makes me just sad that i'm not with the person who broke my heart. Alchohol will just make me sloppy and probably more upset. Nothing heals a broken heart but time for me and i hate it...
I know exactly how you feel. I remember when my first girlfriend dumped me, some of my friends were saying I should hook up with some other girl to get my mind off of it. But I couldn't bring myself to do it. I went to a party that night, but all I could do was think of her. All the alcohol in the world couldn't get my mind off of her. I went back to my dorm that night and cried into a pillow the whole night, and couldn't get any sleep. It took me about 2 months of deep depression, self-loathing, and crying before I really started to get over her. And not too long after that, I did find someone else, and although that relationship didn't work out in the end either, it helped me grow as a person. I guess what I'm trying to say is, keep your head up. Things are going to work out.
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Cowgold
Bullshit


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Aninator]
#5894896 - 07/24/06 04:45 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Over time it gets easier and easier until you end up being embarrassed you were ever bothered by it.
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Aninator
Flashtique


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Re: Heartbreak... [Re: Cowgold]
#5896427 - 07/24/06 11:43 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cherryboom - Thanks for the advice. Yea i really need to get back in the sing of like being ANI for a change. I always feel better when i do that. It's so scary how much of yourself you can lose in another person.
Yarry- Thanks for the pick me up. Hope you get plastered! Someone should!
Goliath- is that a solo perry song? or is that a jane's addiction song? The lyrics really hit home.
Silversoul- "things are gonna work out" that's waht i really got to keep in mind.
Thanks so much guys it's been a real help coming back here and checking out these lines of motivation and support.
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