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Post deleted by Anonymous<p>Reason for deletion: fuck it

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Suggestions?

Growing up I was entirely straight, loved women, masturbated to women, loved tits and pussy...Started smoking pot, taking acid--both led me to question my sexulity and explore on the internet and now I don't even know

I don't want to be gay, it doesn't quite feel right, but its whats turning me on

what the fuck am i supposed to do about this?



Does it feel wrong because you believe it is wrong?
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The first time I had sex with a girl I couldn't cum because I was too nervous and I didn't want to blow it too early. Leary and those fellows learned that your first sexual imprint sets the tone for the rest of your life...In the sense that it caused my nervous system to imprint this need for tension and difficulty for arousal (i.e. going off the sexual mainstream)


Uh, plenty of people have crappy virgin breaking sex, and go on to healthy sex lives.

I feel like my sexual imprint, not my true desires, are leading me into homosexuality. I'm not at all what you would call a gay person either, I know masculinity is a social construction but i certaintly fall into the category.

homosexuality does not feel right but its turning me on. what should I do?

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I've read that the way to re-set your sexual imprint is wait three months and refrain from sex/orgasm and then once you do that, have sex with whatever turns you on.


what the fuck should I do?



I doubt that is correct, highly doubt to the point I would put a lot of money against it.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #2]
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IT feels wrong for a few reasons because I've been attracted to women and I know I'm attracted to women. My sexuality was part of my identity, it feels like I've just forgotten about it since I started getting high, but not like I've changed into my natural self, but rather that I'm getting away from who I am...


Pot just made me really fucking paranoid and it made me WORRY about all this stuff, not feel more relaxed about. It never felt natural, its always felt like this confusion has been the result of a reaction to paranoid.

I grew up with an alcoholic father and have some serious emotional insecurity issues which I'm learning to get over. Weed cut me off emotionally to a point of pure emotional denial due to the paranoia. Emotions, power, and sexuality are all intertwined from what I've read and it seems like if I become gay its just a way of denying my TRUE emotional and sexual state which is not gay.






Well, the sexual imprint thing is actually true.

My roommate went to a military school last year and he told me that you weren't allowed to jerk off or have sex for the first semster (about 3-4 months), the point of this is to entirely re-imprint you.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Suggestions?

Growing up I was entirely straight, loved women, masturbated to women, loved tits and pussy...Started smoking pot, taking acid--both led me to question my sexulity and explore on the internet and now I don't even know

I don't want to be gay, it doesn't quite feel right, but its whats turning me on

what the fuck am i supposed to do about this?


The first time I had sex with a girl I couldn't cum because I was too nervous and I didn't want to blow it too early. Leary and those fellows learned that your first sexual imprint sets the tone for the rest of your life...In the sense that it caused my nervous system to imprint this need for tension and difficulty for arousal (i.e. going off the sexual mainstream)

I feel like my sexual imprint, not my true desires, are leading me into homosexuality. I'm not at all what you would call a gay person either, I know masculinity is a social construction but i certaintly fall into the category.

homosexuality does not feel right but its turning me on. what should I do?

I've read that the way to re-set your sexual imprint is wait three months and refrain from sex/orgasm and then once you do that, have sex with whatever turns you on.


what the fuck should I do?


You're gay, brah. Possibly bi. If you fight it, you're just going to torment yourself for the rest of your life.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Sexual imprint? WTF is that all about.  I lost my virginity to a high school friend of mine when she came to visit me a couple months after graduation.  There was alcohol involved AND I was nervous so I had a difficult time getting an erection.  The next morning we had a bit more luck... but overall it was an awkward experience.

However, that one experience has absolutely positively no bearing on my sexuality today.  I prefer not to have casual sex even when I am single, but I'm in relationship now with a girlfriend I love to the ends of the earth.  I'll always be faithful.

I know what it's like to have gay fantasies though.  I think it's silly to have this black and white issue of being either GAY or NOT GAY.  I think there is a lot of gray area in there.  I think I may be about 20% gay (percentage based on how often I have gay fantasies compared to straight fantasies), but it isn't anything I feel like I can't fulfill with my girlfriend.

We just have very kinky sex.  She's aware of all my sexual thoughts and fantasies.  Sometimes she'll use a dildo on me and we've talked about getting a strap-on etc... it's no big deal really.  Don't get so worked up about it.  Just find someone who has an open mind and you care about and can be comfortable around and have fun.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #4]
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yeah dude i recently beat myself up about it.

look up kinsey scale.

also know that the social construct of masculinity excludes natural homosexual feelings, they could just all be burstng through now because of the dissolution of the construct.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
The first time I had sex with a girl I couldn't cum because I was too nervous and I didn't want to blow it too early.


Same thing happened to me but how the hell is that bad?! It's much better than the alternative. I still pretty much have to bang the fuck out of a girl to get off, but they love it. All that says is you care about pleasing your partner and only a frat boy neanderthal would think that's gay. In reality, being able to hold out means that if you hit it once, you'll hit it twice.

Now watching gay porn does sound kinda gay, but if you love pussy more than dick or hairy man-ass then I'd recommend fucking women...

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #6]
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i killed a man for looking at my penis in the bathroom once

with my bare hands

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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what exactly are the gay urges? are you finding yourself aroused by the male form, or by thinking about gay sex acts?

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Dude everyone is a little gay sometimes.

Women turn me on so much it's practically ridiculous, I started  liking girls when I was 6 years old.

But sometimes I want a dudes cock in my mouth.:shrug:

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
Dude everyone is a little gay sometimes.

Women turn me on so much it's practically ridiculous, I started  liking girls when I was 6 years old.

But sometimes I want a dudes cock in my mouth.:shrug:


i think this is pretty much true for most guys over a certain age. the ones that react violently to the idea, deny it profusely, then call you a faggot for even suggesting the idea are the ones that think of sucking dicks or getting a throbbing cock in their ass even more often than the rest of society.

the best "am i gay?" test to me is this-

do you want to snuggle, cuddle, spoon, and/or spend a romantic night wth a male? if yes to one of those you're probably gay.

occasionally jacking off to some gay or tranny porn, sticking something up your ass, ect isn't really gay or abnormal. maybe if you only watch gay porn to get off, and are constantly thinking of gay shit then you might want to reconsider your preferences though.

lastly, as long as the balls don't touch, it's not gay.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #10]
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Anonymous #10 said:
the best "am i gay?" test to me is this-

do you want to snuggle, cuddle, spoon, and/or spend a romantic night wth a male? if yes to one of those you're probably gay.



Yeah, I know what you mean by this... I can only fantasize about other men in a strictly sexual setting.  Somehow cuddling, spooning, etc. seem totally perverse.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Anonymous #4 said:
Anonymous #10 said:
the best "am i gay?" test to me is this-

do you want to snuggle, cuddle, spoon, and/or spend a romantic night wth a male? if yes to one of those you're probably gay.



Yeah, I know what you mean by this... I can only fantasize about other men in a strictly sexual setting.  Somehow cuddling, spooning, etc. seem totally perverse.


When you put it that way it sounds kinda fucked-up and closeted...

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #6]
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become a bisexual:awepuss:

so.... shrooms made you gay?:lol:

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #11]
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can't decide? then become bi, best of both worlds.:rofl2:

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #12]
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cant tell if this thread is a joke or not

but its not funny regardless.

many people are so repressed.

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Anonymous #5 said:
cant tell if this thread is a joke or not

but its not funny regardless.

many people are so repressed.


"Yeah brah I could fuck another man's face but I couldn't cuddle with him, then I'd be a fucking faggot"

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #5]
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i thought about being bi:shrug:
then again, doesn't every one?

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #12]
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Anonymous #12 said:
can't decide? then become bi, best of both worlds.:rofl2:


Yeah the quick and easy way is to be a Lucky Pierre and see which part you like better!

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Re: I Have Gay Urges But I Don't Want To Be Gay [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous #6 said:
Anonymous #5 said:
cant tell if this thread is a joke or not

but its not funny regardless.

many people are so repressed.


"Yeah brah I could fuck another man's face but I couldn't cuddle with him, then I'd be a fucking faggot"


u wouldnt be a faggor either way man.

jeeze.

to be a faggot u gotta get fucked in the ass and want more.

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