Anonymous #2 said:

it means she's unhappy.

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Anonymous #3 said:

my gf wants to find a second girl to bring home.

she seems to have become a bit disappointed however, she's been unsuccessful with hitting on other girls. 

i need to find the solution QUICK

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Anonymous #4 said:

Craigslist.

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Anonymous #5 said:

i like to put a finger in my girl's butt

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You sex beast!

Anonymous #6 said:

Call me close-minded, conservative and old-fashioned, but I'd be uncomfortable with another guy fucking my gf.

Then there's the issue of what you're supposed to do while he's doing it.  Are you supposed to lick his ass or what?

As far as who to choose....if you are having problems finding another guy to bang your gf, then that should say something about her (in addition to the fact your gf wants it from someone else in addition to you).

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i never mentioned that this somebody i could possibly be bringing into the bedroom was a male..

perhaps some subconscious desires are seeping through?



but, i'll leave you to your thoughts of licking ass.

Anonymous #8 said:

Are you talking about bringing in a guy or a girl?

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a gal..

i think she's more open to the idea of another girl.

but, to be honest, i'm also curious about what it's like to be with a guy.  men occasionally make their way into some of my more kinky sexual fantasies, but i'm not sure if it's actually something i'd pursue in real life.

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Then there's the issue of what you're supposed to do while he's doing it.  Are you supposed to lick his ass or what?

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Anonymous #4 said:

Craigslist.

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This website is the BIGGEST waste of time if you're trying for a threesome. Every girl on it who wants a threesome wants another girl for her and her boyfriend.

they have a term on craigslist for a single woman who is open for a threesome with a couple: The Unicorn. Because they don't exist.

However, your girlfriend would probably be better off meeting someone in real life anyways. Thought about trying swingers groups? A lot of times they'll have what's called a "soft swap" which is where the women play with each other but the men stick with their respective women, a good idea if you're not hung up on seeing dicks in the bedroom. Also, plenty of single women join swinger groups just to get in on the action, most allow this and turn away single men, so you know the ratio will probably be good. Swinger groups seem to be primarily female-ran...

Also, don't write off the idea of someone you may already know. You'd be surprised. I sure was when my GF brought one of our co-workers home, especially since they'd planned everything and told me nothing about it

Keep trying. It's a long process, but the fruits are worth the efforts, for everyone involved. My GF always gets this supernaturally good mood after a threesome, it lasts for weeks. You're gonna love that part, especially if you live together...

Anonymous #10 said:

Anonymous #4 said:

Craigslist.

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This website is the BIGGEST waste of time if you're trying for a threesome. Every girl on it who wants a threesome wants another girl for her and her boyfriend.

they have a term on craigslist for a single woman who is open for a threesome with a couple: The Unicorn. Because they don't exist.

However, your girlfriend would probably be better off meeting someone in real life anyways. Thought about trying swingers groups? A lot of times they'll have what's called a "soft swap" which is where the women play with each other but the men stick with their respective women, a good idea if you're not hung up on seeing dicks in the bedroom. Also, plenty of single women join swinger groups just to get in on the action, most allow this and turn away single men, so you know the ratio will probably be good. Swinger groups seem to be primarily female-ran...

Also, don't write off the idea of someone you may already know. You'd be surprised. I sure was when my GF brought one of our co-workers home, especially since they'd planned everything and told me nothing about it

Keep trying. It's a long process, but the fruits are worth the efforts, for everyone involved. My GF always gets this supernaturally good mood after a threesome, it lasts for weeks. You're gonna love that part, especially if you live together...

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interesting...

nice to hear from someone with experience.

how would one go about finding a local swinger group?

i could see how this sort of experience would elevate the mood (among other things)... relationships tend to stagnate and i suppose that could be because they become less and less exciting overtime and more and more predictable.

and i think the both of us are at a point in our relationship where we could do something like this and be ok... maybe even feel closer with each other afterward, because it'd be something that we went into together just for fun.  a gift from us to us.  we already have each other for our other needs and they are well satisfied. 

we all have desires and urges to be with other people sexually even while we are in committed relationships.  this is an interesting approach to addressing that urge honestly.  no need to lie and hide the feeling, or go off and cheat.  everything is out in the open and i think there is some beauty in that.

Anonymous #1 said:

perhaps some subconscious desires are seeping through?

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Anonymous #1 said:but, to be honest, i'm also curious about what it's like to be with a guy.  men occasionally make their way into some of my more kinky sexual fantasies, but i'm not sure if it's actually something i'd pursue in real life.

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Yeah, I think some of your subconscious desires are seeping through.

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A lot of these posts start with the same bullshit: "I'm so open minded and free, my gf and I are so understanding, we are so trusting and I am so secure blah blah blah".

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are there really that many posts about individuals potentially seeking out a threesome?

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But when the idea of another guy comes in its usually immediately dismissed.  So much for open mindedness.

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