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Need a womans advice
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Ladies, I can't say that I'm one to know what's going on in there, or even try to understand it, but I need some advice.

A little background: My girlfriend of 4 months, of which is perfect for me and vice verse, to the point of not even caring about getting pregnant because we knew it would work out (stupid mistake?) got a text tonight..

We'll call him "Matt", because it's easier than SWIH, and that's his real name.

We were laying down getting ready to sleep and she got a text. She always lets me hold her phone for her and I never bother reading her texts because I saw no point in it, I'll go to her inbox once in a while and look when she's right there, she does the same. We respect each others privacy.

Tonight she got a text from Matt, and this is how the conversation went:

(txt)Matt: Im gonna fuck you so hard
Me: Laying behind her, seeing her close her phone said "what was that about?"
Her: Nothing
Me: No, really, who was it?
Her: Just an old boyfriend
Me: ... Why did he say that? Do you care if I say "huh"?
Her: I don't know, he sends me texts like that when he finds out that I have a boyfriend to try to get us to break up. I don't want you to reply because it will get stuff started.
Me: Why does he do that?
Her: I don't know, he's just power hungry and obsessive like that.
Me: So why do you have him in your phone?
Her: Because he's a friend, and he's in iraq right now in the military
Me: Why can't I just reply with a simple "huh" to see what he says?
Her: I said I don't want to get anything started
Me: When did you date him?
Her: Like 5 years ago
Me: "oh." laying there for a minute.. she goes to sleep, I whisper I've gotta go now, good night. and left.

Then she sent a text saying I know you're mad, I deleted his number from my phone.

Didn't reply

She sent another saying I wanted to talk before you left but you seemed mad so I just let it go.


Thoughts? I'm going to give her another chance because I don't even know if she was telling the truth, and she may have been.

Thoughts from a woman's perspective? I'm mainly interested in why she wouldn't even let me text him back to say "huh" just to see what his reply was?

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
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To give her the benefit of the doubt, even if something was going on with Matt, it may have happened before you were involved (since you have only been with her 4 months).

She said she deleted his number it sucks, but what more could she do?  The question is whether YOU are going to get over it.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Dude if he was in iraq his cell most likely wouldn't work (known a few people over there)..... If she lets him send her texts and shit like that then find a new girlfriend because if she really was all perfect like you said then this would've come up before or she would've replied "cut the shit". Plus if she doesn't care about getting prego chances are the other dude doesn't like using condoms and she knows she can pawn it off on you if it does happen.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
Dude if he was in iraq his cell most likely wouldn't work (known a few people over there)..... If she lets him send her texts and shit like that then find a new girlfriend because if she really was all perfect like you said then this would've come up before or she would've replied "cut the shit". Plus if she doesn't care about getting prego chances are the other dude doesn't like using condoms and she knows she can pawn it off on you if it does happen.



LoL, bingo. That dude probally lives 15 min away and is waiting for you to leave. Then when you left he "fucked her so hard". Iraq ? lol better luck next time.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Hoe fo sho, sorry man

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Anonymous #4 said:
Anonymous #3 said:
Dude if he was in iraq his cell most likely wouldn't work (known a few people over there)..... If she lets him send her texts and shit like that then find a new girlfriend because if she really was all perfect like you said then this would've come up before or she would've replied "cut the shit". Plus if she doesn't care about getting prego chances are the other dude doesn't like using condoms and she knows she can pawn it off on you if it does happen.



LoL, bingo. That dude probally lives 15 min away and is waiting for you to leave. Then when you left he "fucked her so hard". Iraq ? lol better luck next time.


yeah sorry man

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Doesn't sound too good man. :shrug:

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
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iraq my ass,,,

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Quote:
Me: So why do you have him in your phone?
Her: Because he's a friend, and he's in iraq right now in the military



Yes I let anyone who is in iraq tell me they are going to fuck me.:confused: :wtf:

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #3]
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even though the dude's cell phone probably doesn't work in iraq, he can still get on the internet and text people using AIM or something like that. I have a friend over there that does that.

but hey, the asshole could be right down the street too...

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Re: Need a womans advice *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #10]
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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #11]
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drop her.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #12]
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drop it like it's hot

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #13]
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I would ignore her a long time, and see how long it takes her to give up.  If its more than a week, keep her.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
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One of my ex's did shit like this to me.
Seriously... what you just typed, word for word, is how it used to go down.


She was running around on me the entire time.


Slut.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #16]
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wow, sorry man you're fucked.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #15]
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Anonymous #15 said:
One of my ex's did shit like this to me.
Seriously... what you just typed, word for word, is how it used to go down.


She was running around on me the entire time.


Slut.



Yeah, and because your ex was doing this to you, it MUST mean that she's doing the same thing to him, now. :rolleyes:
You're just gay. :lol:

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #18]
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Anonymous #18 said:
Yeah, and because your ex was doing this to you, it MUST mean that she's doing the same thing to him, now. :rolleyes:
You're just gay. :lol:




Really?  Did I say that?  Was I one of the guys telling him to drop her or find a new girl?

No, I didn't say shit about his girl.  I just said that it had happened to me before, and it turned out the girl was cheating on me.  He's free to take that any way he wants.


So you're the fucking gay one.

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Re: Need a womans advice [Re: Anonymous #15]
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try shitting in her mouth

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