Ladies, I can't say that I'm one to know what's going on in there, or even try to understand it, but I need some advice.
A little background: My girlfriend of 4 months, of which is perfect for me and vice verse, to the point of not even caring about getting pregnant because we knew it would work out (stupid mistake?) got a text tonight..
We'll call him "Matt", because it's easier than SWIH, and that's his real name.
We were laying down getting ready to sleep and she got a text. She always lets me hold her phone for her and I never bother reading her texts because I saw no point in it, I'll go to her inbox once in a while and look when she's right there, she does the same. We respect each others privacy.
Tonight she got a text from Matt, and this is how the conversation went:
(txt)Matt: Im gonna fuck you so hard Me: Laying behind her, seeing her close her phone said "what was that about?" Her: Nothing Me: No, really, who was it? Her: Just an old boyfriend Me: ... Why did he say that? Do you care if I say "huh"? Her: I don't know, he sends me texts like that when he finds out that I have a boyfriend to try to get us to break up. I don't want you to reply because it will get stuff started. Me: Why does he do that? Her: I don't know, he's just power hungry and obsessive like that. Me: So why do you have him in your phone? Her: Because he's a friend, and he's in iraq right now in the military Me: Why can't I just reply with a simple "huh" to see what he says? Her: I said I don't want to get anything started Me: When did you date him? Her: Like 5 years ago Me: "oh." laying there for a minute.. she goes to sleep, I whisper I've gotta go now, good night. and left.
Then she sent a text saying I know you're mad, I deleted his number from my phone.
Didn't reply
She sent another saying I wanted to talk before you left but you seemed mad so I just let it go.
Thoughts? I'm going to give her another chance because I don't even know if she was telling the truth, and she may have been.
Thoughts from a woman's perspective? I'm mainly interested in why she wouldn't even let me text him back to say "huh" just to see what his reply was?
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