I realize this is a horrible place to ask for advice but I like you guys and perhaps this thread will contain a bit of something useful or make me laugh somehow.
So I'm a girl and I've been sweating this guy I met online for like 3 years. Not joking, it has literally been just short of three years right now.
Things never really happened between us other than in their online sense I guess. We used to chat all the time, phone calls with hot hot phone sex, etc. I did invite him to come visit a few times, and also offered to go there to visit with nothing ever coming of it even though he also spoke of visiting me a few times himself.
Anyway I'm not even sure what happened but over the past year we stopped talking as much, I don't know if it was life that got in the way or what. Every so often though we would both be around and talk like we used to. I guess because of this and my own selfish feelings this has given me hope that maybe there is still a chance that him and I will work out into something real, or at least have a chance at developing a relationship like that.
Flash forward to a few days ago when I contact him via text for a simple what's up because he hasn't been online for a month and none of our mutual friends seemed to notice he was MIA too. Anyway I find out he has actually moved across the country to kind of move in with some chick. As soon as he said that I just stopped texting, I was taken aback, confused and a bit hurt but mostly I figured I'd just leave him alone. Through the night though he calls me for a few moments, then later on texts me about his girl trippin on him for talking to me which she overheard. I offer to stop texting and he says don't and a few other things that allude to him being annoyed she was tripping and him maybe not sticking around where he moved to and also a few things about visiting me where I live.
It's been a few days though, since we both passed out that night we haven't texted or talked since. I don't know if it really is actually appropriate for me to continue to contact him in this case or just finally say goodbye to him and let him do his thing with the chick. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't jealous of the fact he's with her and that I have feelings for him which probably influence how I feel about the whole situation and desire for it's potential outcome too.
Anyway I've been staring at my phone trying to not call him or text him, I've almost tried both a few times, but still haven't decided what is appropriate.
If anyone actually read this and can throw some advice or words out that might help me I would much appreciate it. I am actually horrible at the dating thing, and I haven't even been laid in almost three years since pretty much this whole ordeal began. It's pretty fail.
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