Anonymous #1 said:

I already hide my dough (always have) and live a very frugal/non-conspicuous lifestyle.  I drive a car with 175K miles on it and it has been paid off for years.

I have always kept a low profile financially and have never told my wife how much I make.  She has nary a clue.

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Anonymous #1 said:

Over a decade ago when I met my wife she was wonderful.  She had a sense of humor and a trait for sexual filthiness like a guy does. She was never bitter, was in GREAT shape (she's gained 60+ pounds since then) and enjoyed life.

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Anonymous #1 said:

In all honesty I believe I should approach her about counseling.  We've never tried that and perhaps all marriages need a "tune up" every now and again.    I reckon I should give a try to fix things rather than just bailing. 

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Anonymous #8 said:

Well i have some fucking advice for you  my friend. This is going to be hard on you but trust my anonymous ass.

First let me say this is going to be very hard on you, accept that. You have to get a divorce.


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now for the real part...

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Before divorce is seriously in her sights you need to protect your wealth assuming your lawyer fails and you get fucking soaked by some bull dyke judge. you can do this by funneling your assets into an offshore account in grand cayman, Swissland, etc. This shit isnt just in the movies. Many americans do this, and reap a hefty reward, just be sure to do your homework.

    You can accomplish this feat without getting caught, you just need to confront the paper trail left by your cheque stubs, or other proof of income. Do this by saving receipts of anything you and her spend money on, but especially saving receipts of things SHE spends money on ( or the kid. ) Now convince her to only buy things using cash. ITs easily done, just leave her cash on hand all the time and if you can, try to "borrow" her credit and debit cards indefinitely. Just make sure she has tonnes of cash in her purse to spend on whatever she needs.
She wont wonder where her plastic money went. Now total the receipts you have saved and put an equal amount of money into your off shore account. Correspondence with the offshore institution should be done with a po box no one knows about and prepaid cell phones. Hide your tracks.

Get as much of YOUR money in this account as you can. Set a time table of three years or so and protect those receipts in a safety deposit box in a bank where you dont share accounts with her.

Now that you have an offshore account, your ready to start taking some trips to Vegas. Whatever excess cash you cant backup with receipts you have and want to be immune from divorce proceedings can be easily rescued by the wonders of LAS fucking Vegas. Go there, take out what ever excess cash you can ( like your whole fucking savings ) and get it into your off shore account via whatever means possible. Again, i cant tell you all my secrets, just do your homework and you can figure it out. Make it look like you lost your assets gambling.

Now stop making payments on your house. The goal is to have it go into foreclosure at about the time you are getting divorced. you need it to look like you lost your mind or had a nervous breakdown. This will provide a premise for divorce and will keep the wife/court from investigating where all the money really went. Liquidate all of your assets throught this process. You will come out ahead rather than going through a normal divorce.
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once your done getting divorced, you will need to start paying her.. this is almost inevitable as long as you are still making 125 k a year. Hopefully you have embezzled enough of your hard earned cash to live your life off your salary as you wish and use the hidden funds to make your payments to her.


meet a new girl. Try one from the mid west.

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Anonymous #1 said:

In all honesty I believe I should approach her about counseling.  We've never tried that and perhaps all marriages need a "tune up" every now and again.    I reckon I should give a try to fix things rather than just bailing.    Admittedly when I wrote my initial post I was madder than Hell but now I've slept on it and am more level-headed (and sober).

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Curious, could you elaborate on this??

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