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Help With my Girlfriend
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So my girlfriend and me dont get along. Im 19 and shes my second girlfriend ever. In fact i could say my First girlfriend cause the first relationship i had was more a "Warm up act". Me and this girl dont belong together. Its making me deppressed because i dont want this relationship anymore. However the problem (Maybe you can relate) is that we keep breaking up and getting back together.

Breakup 1- I broke up with her and she drank clorox and had to go to the hospital. I spent that night feeling like shit sitting there with her while she barfed up green shit.

Breakup 2- SHe left me after a bad incident with mushrooms where i freaked out and went to jail....we ended up back together 4 months later

Breakup 3- I broke up with her 1 month after being together again and felt like it wasnt working. While drunk i got convinced to get back together with her because i couldnt see my friends over the fact things were "Weird" When i saw her over there.

Breakup 4- She broke up with me while drunk as hell. It lasted a night and she pulled "I was drunk thing" So we got back together

Breakup 5- (Same incident as number 4)

Breakup 6- She broke up with me after big fight we had. She then called 4 days later hinting that she really wanted to be together and wanted me to give our relationship another shot......so i did.

Breakup 7- I told her all these breakups were fucking with my head and said we really shouldnt be together cause its LITERALLY driving me insane. HOwever on 4/20 She called me over and when i got there she was on acid in a thong. We ended up having sex and kinda just fell back into the relationship.







7 FUCKING TIMES. What do i do? Im afraid shes gonna kill herself or go crazy if i break up with her. All i want is to move on, However part of me is addicted to the relationship as well. Do you guys have any idea what its like to deal with a Bi-polar, drug addicted, PMSing girl? THe fights we have are intense. Im sick of her drug/alcohol dependance. I feel responsible for her and at the same time.....I dont give a shit.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said:
Breakup 1- I broke up with her and she drank clorox and had to go to the hospital. I spent that night feeling like shit sitting there with her while she barfed up green shit.


:ilold:

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I don't know man. Have you tried sitting down with her, both of you sober, and discussing everything on your mind? Maybe try writing your thoughts down first so you have an idea of what to say to explain why you want to break it off. If you're both only nineteen, you both should know that this relationship is very, very likely not to last forever. If she's already tried to kill herself once over you, then you may want to seek a counselor/therapist for her; she sounds like she needs help. Good luck man, sounds like a sticky situation.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #3]
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End it for good. If she wants to kill herself,let her.

I've been with lots of Psycho chicks, it's kinda a thing I guess. One Kept threatening to kill herself and acting all skitzo for months and months after we broke up. After a while you'll learn to not give a fuck what she does.

Don't let some crazy bitch fuck up your life.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Just make sure you get the breakup sex

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Sounds like love to me.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #6]
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OP, slowly re-read your entire post.

Does that look like a healthy relationship? I don't think so.

Seems to me that everytime you do something stupid she dumps your ass and everytime she does something stupid you get back together. She doesn't sound like the kind of supportive girl that will make your life better. Stay away from her and let her find some other schmuck to make miserable. Just tell her you're tired of her psycho shit and don't answer her calls.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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> and shes my second girlfriend ever.

As it is only your second GF, you haven't learned the most important rule when breaking up: A fast break is always better than a long drawn out break.

As it is only your second GF, you haven't learned that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Good luck.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Run away and change your phone number

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
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kill her:crankey:

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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tell her you wont have sex with her again until married. i bet your relationship doesnt last a month.

ps: dont marry her

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What is wrong with you?

Get the fuck out.

What, are you waiting until you get her pregnant before you realize this is never going to amount to anything good?

I'll say it again, get the fuck out.

She won't kill herself just because you break up with her. If she does, is that really someone you want to be with? It doesn't matter, other people are not your responsibility. Get some self-respect and start living your life before you fuck it up permanently.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #12]
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Relationships are about coexistence, not co dependence.

You're 19, don't share kids, and aren't married. You two owe eachother nothing.

You both obviously have a great degree of emotional issues to sort out. If you stay together, you'll both remain emotionally retarded for the rest of your
years, not to mention miserable.

If you can, go get some serious behavioral therapy and then get away from this abusive relationship.

Realize that most decisions made on the basis of emotions end up being a mistake, as evidenced by your cycling relationship.

If she kills herself, it's not your fault. Each person makes their own choices, and unless she's mentally disabled or under some freaky voodoo hex or something, killing herself will be her choice. You're not responsible for her emotional well-being, nor her life. While it might hurt if she kills herself, you won't be the one who made her do it and it really won't be your fault.

You know the answer, even if it's scary. You two can't be together, and it has to end. Be responsible, do the adult thing, and let go so that both of you can move on, grow up, and get out of this mess.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #13]
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Thank you so much guys. Im going to call her tonight and tell her im visiting my dad for a LONG time up north. Then i wont give her a call.

Its the only way. But seriously you all have great advice, I still would rather someone NOT take their own life over me being the "Final Straw".

Am i a bad person for Breaking up this way. Its better then cheating i guess.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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:thumbup:
You will gain a lot of insight on life and relationships over the next month.  Trust me.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #14]
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This is actually a form of abuse bub. Manipulating one with threats of violence whether agaist self (drinking clorox) or others is a seriously bad sign. Another is the lack of sober reasoning.

It is nice to chill and party and stuff, but take a break and get back to good headspace first or you will go crazy and bad shet will happen.

I would suggest getting away, maybe out of the area, no contact at all. Leave and don't look back. You can't stop her from hurting herself. It sounds like she would do this eventually even if you did stay. Maybe get her into recovery for a few months before you go to help ensure her safety. When she sobers up/starts taking therapy/meds/something she might wise up. But get out! You can't always save them! They have to want it. They will take you down with them.

Sorry man
Good luck
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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said:
Thank you so much guys. Im going to call her tonight and tell her im visiting my dad for a LONG time up north. Then i wont give her a call.

Its the only way. But seriously you all have great advice, I still would rather someone NOT take their own life over me being the "Final Straw".

Am i a bad person for Breaking up this way. Its better then cheating i guess.


so you're going to lie about moving with your dad or you are actually going to move? I personaly think you should grow a set and break up with her. the only way out isn't just moving away or lying that you're moving away.
seriously stop being a douch bag and learn how to face your problems.

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. [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Way to run away from your problems, pussy.

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Re: Help With my Girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #17]
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Anonymous said:
thongs on acid


my favorite part...

did she have acid to share?

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