i taught myself all this stuff when i was like 13 and 14. i was a pervy little kid and i would spend hours on the internet reading about sex or swapping nudes with people. needless to say, i was pretty decent even my first time. never really had that feeling of being lost. i fucking love eating girls out. huge turn on for me.
but i'm done bragging now. these guys are right, rhythm is key. listen to her, pay attention to her cues. and don't forget to tease. tease like mad. light touches with fingertips and tongue all around that area before getting even close. stomach, hips, thighs, inner thighs, and skirt around the inside of the leg/thigh back up to the mons. tease tease tease.
and when you go at it, read her to know what sort of pressure to apply. some girls love for the guy to be forceful diving straight in, but most prefer a lighter touch, so don't overdo it. remember your tongue changes shape, thus uses. you've got multiple tongue functions at your disposal. utilize them all. i'm not really going to go into too much detail about the licking.. just try different things and find what works good. every girl is different, and even then every girl has different moods when she wants a different thing. just feel it out.
you've also got hands. sure, sometimes it's good to use them to pull her towards you with her thighs, but don't leave them there the whole time. explore her torso while you're going at it down south. belly, ribs, breasts. long, slow, light fingertips all the way down her sides.
and always enjoy it. she'll be more comfortable knowing you want to be down there.
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