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Anonymous #1
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I need it....
#7924760 - 01/24/08 03:33 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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So I've been married for some years now. Sex with the ol' lady has declined over the ages. I guess to her, job, career and kid makes her a bit less energetic and ambitious to knock boots. I consider myself to be an average american male with a good healthy sex drive. But, this once or twice a month shit just ain't cuttin' it.
I'm supportive and self sacrificing, so when we discussed it, I just chalked it up to sex now being a casual occruence and nothing more. I agree with many others in the idea that sex is an important part of a balanced breakfast, but, when life throws you opportunity to fulfill, the best thing to do is run with it.
Anyway. I realized this week that I'm not happy with the amount of sex and intimacy that I recieve. It's affecting me, which in turn affects my wife and our relationship. I'm not one to cheat, but the idea can be quite enticing sometimes. I would like to think that I would not jeapordize a good family situation to get my rocks off, but the desire to get laid creeps in at the most opportune times.
There's this gal at work that's been doing the dance to get my attention, I don't even look her direction because I don't need the temptation.
In the past, I used to do this technique to get the temptation out of my mind. I would visualize myself sniffing the crotch of my adultress. The idea of my face being all up in someone's privatized areas smelling of genitalia and anus would be an ultimate turn off....
However, now I find myself so desperate, this doesn't work anymore....
I also refrained from watching porn and whacking it to try to re-sensitize myself to the idea of working towards creating a mood to get sex. No luck. Though I still refrained for some time.... I gave in last night and whacked it while watching some free pron on the web and DAMN what a relief. I blasted a massive wad and it was so plentiful I was dripping and oozing and running all over the place. I even filled the air with the smell of fresh semen.
Today, I'm no better. My act of giving in has made my situation seem even worse....
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Anonymous #2
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Porn is a valuable tool. FOR GOD'S SAKE, USE IT. IT WILL SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE. If God intended us not to masturbate, He wouldn't have given us hands so perfectly suited to the task. If you're some atheist who hates God, replace that word with "evolution." Trust me, not jerking off will only make your situation harder.
It puzzles me that so many people truly believe masturbation to be a negative, harmful habit. Get over yourself, it's an integral mechanism for coping with stress and sexual frustration, and will stop you from cheating the woman you love, who has given you her life and your children.
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Anonymous #3
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why not fuck your wife???
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous #6
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she won't let him, it seems
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Anonymous #4
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He should try to talk to her?
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Anonymous #2
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Yeah, it's important for couples to recognize each other's sexual needs. Even if she is tired, it can't be impossible to set aside a time at least every weekend for fuckin'. If it is, perhaps you should reconsider the way the two of you are living your lives.
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Anonymous #7
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Cheat on her, at the very least if you get caught it will get the point across to her.
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Such intelligence, such wisdom, all in a single person.
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Anonymous #8
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THere should be some sort of compromise here. If you really love her you need to tell her it's not ok the way things are. I don't think once or twice a month is fair to you.
My hubby and I have a weekly Fri night blow job. We have sex alot of other times but this one is engraved in stone. Some might say it takes the romance out but it really doesn't . If things have been too crazy all week we both know come Fri we are gonna have some fun.
All I can say about the chick at work is that if you do decide to cheat I strongly suggest you don't do it with someone at work. That can get very messy. Good luck.
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Anonymous #9
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At this stage you must start wife beating.
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Anonymous #1
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Well, she is off work Thurs, Friday and Saturdays, so yesterday was her first day off. I came home and planned on not doing anything. Had a couple of beers and smoked some green. And after the kid was in bed I turned off the TV. Started out talking and I started massaging her feet, then began kissing her ankles and sucking her toes... Once I did that,there was no way she could turn me down. We had some good sex for a couple of hours.... I'm already looking forward to next month.... LOL Who knows, maybe I will get lucky twice in the same week...
And to the person that mentioned Friday Night blowjobs. Thats an awesome idea.... Seriously. I mean, even when my wife is tired, she really doesn;t mind giving me a good blowjob. Because she knows how to do it in a way that I Cannot hold out on cumming. Do you get the favor returned on Friday night?
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Anonymous #8
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Unfortunately not as often as I'd like. But he's gotten better about returning the favor. When we first got together he wouldn't do that at all. He mentioned he had been with a girl or two and their's had turned him off from getting that close to it.(That's what he gets for running around with skanks )
I am very particular about hygiene so he's not so shy anymore. But alot of times when I blow him he uses his hands on me so yes I still get to enjoy it.
Sucking (clean) toes is sexy! Who would have thought there would be such erogenous zones in the big toe.
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