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abusive alcoholic last night
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Last night I was well aware that a friend of mine was very drunk and beating his girlfriend. She actually messaged me asking/begging/ for help, for me to come over.

I was stoned.
I didn't give a fuck.
I didn't help her.

I was going to write a few paragraphs trying to justify my actions for not helping (which I actually did.. but deleted)

I'll just leave it at that.

I will confront my friend about his drinking. I doubt it will do much.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Poor girl.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #2]
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beat him till he fucking understands.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I agree, thats fucked up. and stoned or not, you should of helped.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #3]
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why didn't the girl call the police? were drugs or other illegal activity involved?

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #1]
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several years ago i had a neighbor in the same apartment building who starting beating his wife, we could hear it through the walls. I went to his door one night when i heard it start, he answered the door looking like some kind of a sheepish dick.
the following day my friend and i smoked a bowl and decided it would be a good idea to break into their apartment when they were gone. So we did... and smashed up his super nintendo game collection and stole a few belongings that obviously belonged to him.
shortly there after he moved out and the lady and i become good friends... i got to take over her lease when she decided to move a year later (it was a two bedroom with really cool vaulted ceilings).... yeah... that was in the 90s... i miss the 90s

so the moral to the story... don't be friends with drunken abusive assholes... steal and or break their shit, it's one of the few ways you can bolster your karma by engaging in destructive criminal acts.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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no it still gives you bad karma bud.. the guy moved and went and raped and abused other people and got away with it. where you could of got him thrown in jail where his kind dont get treated very well by other inmates.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #3]
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ahhh you might be right... come to think of it, my partner in crime from that day is dead now.... hmmm... i wonder if that means i'm going to *gulp* die some day too

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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ok... it's all coming back to me now (like i said, it was in the 90s, the memory is a bit fuzzy) i tried to convince her to press charges however nothing came of it... the cops were involved however.
damn that was close... the cold taste of mortality was setting in

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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good job asshole, now becasue of you the dea is going to tell us that marijuana leads to domestic violence.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #6]
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good! the more implausible their claims the better.
I hate smoking marijuana at this point in my life anyway, but still strongly support measures to legalize it and have worked to that end on many levels.
yay for marijuana, yay for you and me

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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you know that once it's legal red stripe will immediately go into the weed business.

i can't wait for those commercials.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #1]
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To be honest I don't know if you should have stepped in or not.

I was in an abusive relationship for a few years. Cops would show up and I'd lie to them. Why? I don't know. Friends would try to help and I'd let them, move out and a week later be back.

No one can help if she stays. Not really. Until she's ready to go it could just cause the problems to escalate. But they'll do that anyway. I'd definitely lose the friend tho. Men who abuse women (whether drunk or sober) are usually cowards who take out their problems on the weakest person around.

I hope the girl leaves him.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Don't feel too bad.

Women who stay with abusive boyfriends can only help themselves. 

Confront your friend, tell his girlfriend to GTFO while she can.

It probably won't help. :frown:

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Anonymous said:
To be honest I don't know if you should have stepped in or not.

I was in an abusive relationship for a few years.  Cops would show up and I'd lie to them.  Why?  I don't know.  Friends would try to help and I'd let them, move out and a week later be back.

No one can help if she stays. Not really.  Until she's ready to go it could just cause the problems to escalate.  But they'll do that anyway.  I'd definitely lose the friend tho.  Men who abuse women (whether drunk or sober) are usually cowards who take out their problems on the weakest person around.

I hope the girl leaves him.


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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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(original poster here)

The cops actually did show up that night (she pleaded help to one of her other friends and her friend called the cops to their residence). She told me that when the cops showed up she lied to them, said he didn't hit her. I'm very surprised the police didn't do anything that night.

She says she won't get police involved because
a) he's on probation, would go back to jail
b) if he went to jail, she would be stuck with all the bills
c) they have a 7 month old daughter together
d) she loves him...


again, the whole time she was on the phone with me she was piss drunk as well.. and in the middle of her pleading me to come over, saying how scared she is-- she just stops and starts going on about her pack of smokes. I kind of raised the eyebrow ... leads me to believe she is making drama where there shouldn't be.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Anonymous said:
several years ago i had a neighbor in the same apartment building who starting beating his wife, we could hear it through the walls. I went to his door one night when i heard it start, he answered the door looking like some kind of a sheepish dick.
the following day my friend and i smoked a bowl and decided it would be a good idea to break into their apartment when they were gone. So we did... and smashed up his super nintendo game collection and stole a few belongings that obviously belonged to him.
shortly there after he moved out and the lady and i become good friends... i got to take over her lease when she decided to move a year later (it was a two bedroom with really cool vaulted ceilings).... yeah... that was in the 90s... i miss the 90s

so the moral to the story... don't be friends with drunken abusive assholes... steal and or break their shit, it's one of the few ways you can bolster your karma by engaging in destructive criminal acts.


how do you know he was beating her? I mean maybe she just liked rough kinky sex like that, you know? I've met some strange women in my time.

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Re: abusive alcoholic last night [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Anonymous said:
several years ago i had a neighbor in the same apartment building who starting beating his wife, we could hear it through the walls. I went to his door one night when i heard it start, he answered the door looking like some kind of a sheepish dick.
the following day my friend and i smoked a bowl and decided it would be a good idea to break into their apartment when they were gone. So we did... and smashed up his super nintendo game collection and stole a few belongings that obviously belonged to him.
shortly there after he moved out and the lady and i become good friends... i got to take over her lease when she decided to move a year later (it was a two bedroom with really cool vaulted ceilings).... yeah... that was in the 90s... i miss the 90s

so the moral to the story... don't be friends with drunken abusive assholes... steal and or break their shit, it's one of the few ways you can bolster your karma by engaging in destructive criminal acts.


how did that help her?

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