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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Colbadol] * 1
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Colbadol said:
makaveli8x8 said:
if we turn this around....it would be like saying you couldn't read smut novels....or watch "romantic" movies...its the same dam thing.


some double standard huh. when girls read their erotica it's soooo much more innocent than guys and their pron.
i say the erotica is way worse. you get way more involved, and there's character development, etc. way worse than video porn.
so the girls not only want a guy with that described body but also with every perfect personality trait and attitude....and these books are always written by women.


Although... you don't know that she reads smut novels.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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My intuitive wife has always said that if your man isn't looking at porn/pussy then you know something is wrong.

The wisdom of Chimpy is oh so clear.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Himejime said:
should i just brush it off, or confront him with the decision on the relationship or porn, which will it be? help!!!


Fuck ultimatums.


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Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake.

-Erik Davis

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Guys never stop looking at porn, just ask him to hide it better.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Cowgold]
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Just look at his porn watching as a way in which he will ultimately be a better lover to you.

Geez, hate to state the obvious.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Left Nut City]
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I had a girlfriend who didn't like me looking at porn. The key operator in that sentence being had. She was much too controlling, and tried to compensate for her insecurity by having copious amounts of sex all the time. In the end I still broke up with her, and am dating someone I enjoy having around and is not at all controlling. Sex life sorta died down though lately =(

Least I still have my porn!

Edited by karn09 (02/23/07 10:09 AM)

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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you should stop being such a prude and accept the fact that males will watch porn regardless.

you should watch it with him, maybe you can learn something.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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watch porn with him.


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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Himejime said:
it just makes me a little uncomfortable, cant you guys understand...mabey not because ur not girls, but if i was takling to girls, i would get the same kind of responses just as i posted.


There was a time early on in my sex life (high school) where I became jealous of my girlfriend's vibrator.  Looking back on the whole thing I feel exceptionally foolish to have been so insecure.  I mean come on-- it's not like this girl was going to fall in love and run away with her vibrator!  Take a little more stock in your confidence and recognize that whether or not your partner masturbates, does not inherently indicate that they are no longer interested in you.  That type of thinkin' is just crazy and will only serve to drive you insane.  If you are not happy with the way you and your partner are relating, that is certainly something that needs to be addressed through open communication.. but don't freak out just because your boy wants to wank it or your girl wants to buzz it.  Let 'em have their fun!

:doggystyle:

About three months into my current relationship I was helpin' my girlfriend move her computer over to my place and happened upon some pornography.  She was extremely embarassed and wanted to delete the file right away.  I told her it's no big deal, hell when the video started I started to think it would be kind of cool to catch a glimpse of my girl in an ol' homemade sex tape :wink: .. unfortunately, it was just a closeup on some dude's cock-stroking :doh:

So to all those people who insist on freakin' themselves out about sex - you're not alone, but please..
get ahold of yourself for fucks sake!


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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: geokills]
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Quote:
...mabey not because ur not girls, but if i was takling to girls, i would get the same kind of responses just as i posted...i dunno..


I'm a lady, and my boyfriend and I look at porn together!

its no biggie, i wouldnt feel insicure over his fanistys

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Himejime said:
hello fellow people...OK heres the deal, I'm a pretty hot girl, and i have this really cute boyfriend, and he was a virgin before me and he looked at porn for the majority of his "jacking" life. Well when we first started going out he was still looking at it and i would get really upset at him. Then he said he wouldn't do it again, and a few weeks he did it again, i don't know what the problem is, we have a great sex life, we do it once and maybe 3 times a day. what should i tell him, and what should i do? should i just brush it off, or confront him with the decision on the relationship or porn, which will it be? help!!!


I dont have time to go through 70 replies, but are you serious? The only time "porn" becomes a problem, is if said porn starts to interfere or take the place of your sex life. Some time guys just like to rub one out and not go through the whole process of sex.

Now, if your BF was saying "No, I'm not in the mood", then sneaking off to jerk one off, and your sex life was starting to take a nose dive - then yes, that would be a problem. But, let me say..

IF YOU HAVE A FAIRLY ACTIVE AND HEALTHY SEX LIFE, AND YOUR BOYFRIEND STILL LOOKS AT PORN - IT IS NOT A PROBLEM, IT IS 100% NORMAL, DO NOT BE ALARMED

If you make a big deal out of porn, and show that your upset for him looking at porn - it makes him feel like he NEEDS to hide his porn, and thus starts making him become secrative about it.

As a FEMALE friend of mine said (we had this conversation awhile ago) - next time you walk in and he's watching porn, you should get down on all 4s and face the TV so you can watch it also.

Hell, I probably jerk off more / look at more porn when my sex-life is active, as the more active my sexlife is - the hornier I am, and the more I need to hrmm, 'release' -- and I don't always have the time/energy/effort/whatever to go full-on sex.

Hell, the other day I probably jacked off 2 times waiting for my BF to get up, then pounced him once he woke up and had a shower .. was just one of those days :P

If you have a problem with it, you should work on your OWN issues which makes you feel insecure about it. IMO - you should give watching porn with your partner a chance. Dont make him feel like it's something he has to hide/lie about/be ashamed over, and it'll be healthier for your relationship in the long run.

Edited by kaniz (02/23/07 11:00 AM)

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: kaniz]
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Face it, you're all a bunch of masturbation addicts.

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Viveka]
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And...

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Himejime said:
hello fellow people...OK heres the deal, I'm a pretty hot girl, and i have this really cute boyfriend, and he was a virgin before me and he looked at porn for the majority of his "jacking" life. Well when we first started going out he was still looking at it and i would get really upset at him. Then he said he wouldn't do it again, and a few weeks he did it again, i don't know what the problem is, we have a great sex life, we do it once and maybe 3 times a day. what should i tell him, and what should i do? should i just brush it off, or confront him with the decision on the relationship or porn, which will it be? help!!!


so where is the problem? you have a boyfriend who does normal shit. stop being an ass about it.. he's going to jack off and hes probably going to do it to porn regardless

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Cowgold]
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You're probably right :ohwell:


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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Himejime]
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Himejime said:
hello fellow people...OK heres the deal, I'm a pretty hot girl, and i have this really cute boyfriend, and he was a virgin before me and he looked at porn for the majority of his "jacking" life. Well when we first started going out he was still looking at it and i would get really upset at him. Then he said he wouldn't do it again, and a few weeks he did it again, i don't know what the problem is, we have a great sex life, we do it once and maybe 3 times a day. what should i tell him, and what should i do? should i just brush it off, or confront him with the decision on the relationship or porn, which will it be? help!!!



The only reason I could conceivably see you being upset about him watching porn is if he was jerking off to porn and not having sex with you.  If you're having sex every day, sometimes multiple times a day, the only reason I can see you being upset is your own insecurities.  You need to get over those on your own, because there is nothing wrong with a guy watching porn, as long as he's still satisfying his partner :shrug:  Why don't you try watching WITH him?  He'd probably think that was great, and you'd feel more included, and less jealous of the situation.


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The gunpowder treason and plot.
I see no reason why gunpowder treason
Should ever be forgot.


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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Cowgold]
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Quote:
And...


You're sapping your precious bodily fluids!

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Viveka]
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If you don't like what he does, let him know, once you got to that point, never try to change another person to be something else. If he likes porn, thats who HE is. Sounds like your both young as hell too. People need to be free spirits.


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So, wash it well afterwards & DON'T tell them..."  -Agar

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Liz]
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Liz said:
Himejime said:
hello fellow people...OK heres the deal, I'm a pretty hot girl, and i have this really cute boyfriend, and he was a virgin before me and he looked at porn for the majority of his "jacking" life. Well when we first started going out he was still looking at it and i would get really upset at him. Then he said he wouldn't do it again, and a few weeks he did it again, i don't know what the problem is, we have a great sex life, we do it once and maybe 3 times a day. what should i tell him, and what should i do? should i just brush it off, or confront him with the decision on the relationship or porn, which will it be? help!!!



The only reason I could conceivably see you being upset about him watching porn is if he was jerking off to porn and not having sex with you.  If you're having sex every day, sometimes multiple times a day, the only reason I can see you being upset is your own insecurities.  You need to get over those on your own, because there is nothing wrong with a guy watching porn, as long as he's still satisfying his partner :shrug:  Why don't you try watching WITH him?  He'd probably think that was great, and you'd feel more included, and less jealous of the situation.


Smart lady.  :yesnod:

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Re: boyfriend and porn? help! [Re: Cowgold]
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Why thank you!  :sun:


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The gunpowder treason and plot.
I see no reason why gunpowder treason
Should ever be forgot.


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