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What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck
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i don't seem to have anything in commen with any of the women i meet anymore...

They all seem to be interested in shitty commercial music, fast cars, themselves and fucking.

So apart from the fucking bit, i'm having difficulty finding anything to talk with them about???

i asked my friends and they mainly have the same problem, even the ones that are not far off married with children!!! They said some shit like 'oh she likes my music now i've converted her' but should it be my job to change a women into an interesting women? i don't think so...

i spose i don't meet many as it is but the ones that i do just seem to have nothing to say other than to sing their own praises or talk about shit like TV soaps.

Whats with that anyway? Why watch a soap, don't they have real lives? i hate all that fake drama and would never have the time to sit there watching that crap - i'd rather read a book anyday.

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: Ego Death]
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I agree with you that it's stupid to just go out with someone, even though you KNOW you have absolutely nothing in common. In some cases, it might work, but when the differences are so vast, it can kill the whole thing (not that I have much experience with women :P ).
If someone you date has nothing in common, move on and try dating someone else. Eventually you'll find someone that actually interests you. Sometimes it's better to be a little bit lonely than to end up marrying someone just because you couldn't bear to be alone.

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: Ego Death]
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hahahahahaha


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHa


oh man.


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"Shmokin' weed, Shmokin' wizz, doin' coke, drinkin' beers.  Drinkin' beers beers beers, rollin' fatties, smokin' blunts.  Who smokes tha blunts?  We smoke the blunts" - Jay and Silent Bob strike Back

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: Ego Death]
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Some sacred secrets are hiding in your words young man.

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They said some shit like 'oh she likes my music now i've converted her' but should it be my job to change a women into an interesting women? i don't think so...



Not your job to change the woman,
but your whole existance is affecting everybody all the time, non stop.Woman included, so in a way you ARE converting everything and everyone you see or touch simply by adding your point of view/perception each time.

So in fact you do change the woman you meet and date, thats the coolness of it....
But of course......finding your soul mate ready and rolling with the same ideas fully compatible with you is awesome......but if you take a closer look, the massive effort made from both ends to bridge the differences is so romantic that it seems hard to think of love without it...

Very often, people with almost identical brain/thought structure and beliefs, tend to have the biggest disagreements of all times, and thats because the individuals become competitive ,when other non compatible couples fill each other gaps, each one with his own ,unique characteristics.

My advice is, stop looking for it. Almost always it comes looking for you...


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The Source Of The Force
Is The Power Of The Mind

"if you don't like what you're doing, you can always pick up your needle and move to another groove." - timothy leary"
Anno: "-I can do anything with those clouds!"
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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: Ego Death]
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I have a friend in a somewhat similar situation.


But I've learned that to a certain extent, the correct approach can really pay off.

Putting in time to invest with the other person, enjoying the simplicities of just being in a relationship at the certain time and place, and not creating too many complicated expectations has all lead to what seems to be a harmonious relationship.


At the same time, looking from a third person perspective, I can see that there are certain compromises and sacrifices that have been made on my friend's part.


I guess what I'm saying is it all really depends on what you look for in a relationship.


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"Shmokin' weed, Shmokin' wizz, doin' coke, drinkin' beers.  Drinkin' beers beers beers, rollin' fatties, smokin' blunts.  Who smokes tha blunts?  We smoke the blunts" - Jay and Silent Bob strike Back

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: LiquidSmoke]
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i feel like relationships are mostly ultimatums. obviously you're partner isn't going to be the person you have so much in common with and what not (that's what friends are for!)

but over time, you'll start to appreciate more and more about that person. you can't look for someone you would be "friends" with, but someone you see as good for a "relationship"

different concepts in my opinion


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soft silly music is meaningful, magical :heartpump:

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: razmablues]
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I don't know when I see my girl she just makes me smiles makes me feel not so alone in the world. I swear we were met to be just by the way our bodys fit together when I hold her, Really me and my girlfriend dont have much in common at all, Just the fact that we care for each other and want to spend the rest of our lives with each other.


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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: LiquidSmoke]
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LiquidSmoke said:
Putting in time to invest with the other person, enjoying the simplicities of just being in a relationship at the certain time and place, and not creating too many complicated expectations has all lead to what seems to be a harmonious relationship.





Thats my situation. We started out together as practically just.. physical attraction. Now, we share many interests; Organic food, bikes, nature, photography, cooking, ketamine (:S), learning and loving, She's even converted and become a member of the shroomery!

It's been about a year, and it took awhile till we fell in love, and now we spend all our time together. We've come to the point of almost having "one mind" and one point of view.. we compliment each other in everyway, rarely argue, and generally have a good time always being together.


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GO OUTSIDE.

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: PDU]
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i think its great when people with not alot in common with eachother, (minus physical attraction), can make a relationship work. But, its important to have a fun and healthy relationship outside of the sexual one.
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Thats my situation. We started out together as practically just.. physical attraction. Now, we share many interests; Organic food, bikes, nature, photography, cooking, ketamine (:S), learning and loving, She's even converted and become a member of the shroomery!

It's been about a year, and it took awhile till we fell in love, and now we spend all our time together. We've come to the point of almost having "one mind" and one point of view.. we compliment each other in everyway, rarely argue, and generally have a good time always being together.


there you go!

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: serendipitythenot]
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niki420 said:
if you go to the gym, how about the girls there. or the library, you say you like books .


1. I agree
2. be carefull, Girls at the gym will not hesitate to kick youre ass and take youre name.
3. theres some real uhh.. foxy chicks at librarys..

ssssshhh... we cant be too loud!!  :humpme:  :69:  :blowjob:


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When i cut the stem, it turned blue fast. Is this normal?
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GET DOWN WITH THE NOOB TEK!
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=6607835&page=0&vc=&PHPSESSID=#Post6607835

Edited by I8thesh400m (02/11/07 05:54 AM)

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: I8thesh400m]
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Look For someone that you share uncommon interests in, and common disinterest as well, So, Youlle have alot in common, and, will have some disagreements, come to an agreement with youre partner, or put her in time out and paddle her/him.
On that note.. yes there are silk cuffs on all 4 bedposts of my bed.


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When i cut the stem, it turned blue fast. Is this normal?
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GET DOWN WITH THE NOOB TEK!
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=6607835&page=0&vc=&PHPSESSID=#Post6607835

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: I8thesh400m]
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What did I have in common with my girlfriend (before we broke up)?
-nothing.

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Re: What do you have in common with your partner? Apart from the fact you fuck [Re: Ego Death]
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There are probably some really cool girls floating around you that you're not noticing.

Do you have a 'type?' Physically speaking? Maybe try getting to know someone outside of your comfort zone. A girl who looks kind of plain and dorky might have tons to say.

I'm making a ton of assumptions here. I apologize if I'm off the mark, it's just crazy for me to read this as I find it next to impossible to find guys to really engage me. They either just want to fuck or don't even realize I exist. :confused:


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