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eligal
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Feelin agressive
#5530833 - 04/18/06 08:04 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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anyone else feel like knockin someone out?
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5531100 - 04/18/06 08:53 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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sometimes. Then I question why I'm angry in the first place. It's usually a stupid reason, and by the time I figure it out I'm not angry anymore.
Why are you angry
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5531166 - 04/18/06 09:03 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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many times.....probably because i hold my emotions back
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eligal
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im honestly not sure exactly why im angry. might just be stress workin its way up. stress from GE classes which i think are stupid, stress from insurance companies trying to wiggle their way out of paying the medical bills they are supposed to pay, stress from family, stress from friends, irregular sleeping patterns, and as bellylard said, holding back emotions. but who knows, maybe im just havin a testosterone boost. maybe memories of when i was kickboxing. maybe its this change in weather. maybe im just bored and need something to excite things. maybe i missed out on the fight i have been waiting for, and im getting impatient. maybe im just rambling.
hmm... too many maybes.
whatever i is, im getting really aggressive, and feel the need to fight with someone... i just wish someone on the street would say something stupid to me so that id have a reason to whoop his ass. or say something to my friend (he tends to stare at people alot, i keep hoping itll provoke someone to say something to him so i could step in and go mental).
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5532381 - 04/19/06 04:25 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hah. It sounds to me like you already know the root of the problem. All of those things are adding up inside of you and you need to find a solution to calm down and relax.
Exercise and meditation, my friend. =) Have fun in any way possible - just as long as it's not smashing someone's face.
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5532391 - 04/19/06 04:33 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Take out your aggressions at the gym on the large bag. Punch that sucker 'til you drop from exhaustion. Then go home and just think out your problems and try to straighten out the things that are annoying you so deeply.
Basically that same thing hobbitcg said.
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: TM]
#5532473 - 04/19/06 05:54 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah man the other day my mates got $165 worth of fines from the police outside our house because they were going to the shop with me to get a butter chicken pie.  They werent wearing helmets (on their push bikes) and were going walking pace with me on the footpath. Now that causes some anger -
SO we busted out some death metal real loud - and smashed up some old furniture from behind the shed with an iron bar. Worked wonders.
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: TM]
#5532529 - 04/19/06 06:34 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
TM said: Take out your aggressions at the gym on the large bag. Punch that sucker 'til you drop from exhaustion. Then go home and just think out your problems and try to straighten out the things that are annoying you so deeply.
Basically that same thing hobbitcg said.
Do that, or commit to learning a martial art. They're an awesome release, and you get to learn too!
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: blink]
#5532743 - 04/19/06 08:32 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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well my gym doesnt have a punching bag nor does it have a pool!!  and ive kickboxed for about 3 or 4 years, but i gave it up a while back, no time for training, nor the money.
Feelers... lol, got fines for not having a helmet on pushbikes...
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5532749 - 04/19/06 08:35 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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don't think of it as training, think of it as therapy.
take up grappling
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: blink]
#5532804 - 04/19/06 08:49 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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cant do grappling cause of my motorcycle injuries...
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5538784 - 04/20/06 06:47 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dude what about drumming, hiking? Anything that makes u feel better and releases energy will make the anger subside a little atleast. Taking a hammer to an old computer is pretty sweet too.
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5541999 - 04/21/06 07:21 PM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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eligal said: cant do grappling cause of my motorcycle injuries...
hahaha. injuries are not cool, but in this case they are. i'd like to be able to say that.
we went over a bunch of studies in my psychology class that said that taking your anger out on inanimate objects will make it worse in the long run. 'leads to increasing acts of of aggression in the future.
exercise is your best bet. i've been pissed as hell lately and whenever i go running it makes me feel a shit load better. nothing fancy -just run/jog until you can't anymore and take a shower.
unfortunately i'm lazy and don't go running nearly enough so i'm pretty angry right now. so yeah, exercise. exercise and pot.
Edited by hambone (04/21/06 07:24 PM)
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eligal
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: hambone]
#5543133 - 04/22/06 03:15 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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well, i cant really jog either cause of my motorcycle accidents... its really not cool...
and tonight was crazy! i actually composed myself, breathed all that bad energy out and hoped it would stay away for a while. then went to a party at my best friends house (best friends being two brothers), and they got wasted, started arguing, loud and agressively, and bascally the cops came cause we were too loud, and then we went another place, but they were so agressive that they killed the party...
huh, funny how that goes. i breath it out, they breath it in  but yea, i think all that energy i spent trying to keep them from physically attacking eachother while trying to talk to this chick ive been hitting it off with, well, im pooped... and i think the act of trying to keep away physical violence is making me keep it away from myself. violence isnt pretty.
but i know my violent streak will come back. i just dont know when... (and hopefully by then my body will be better healed so that if i do start a fight with someone i wont get my ass beat to shit cause my body was too weak to follow through... )
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Re: Feelin agressive [Re: eligal]
#5546651 - 04/23/06 04:13 AM (17 years, 9 months ago) |
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It doesn't have to come back. You are just feeling like that because you know yourself and you know that you need to be aware of this particular problem. I think that sometimes we are apt to give up on our goals against hard problems because we think "I worked so hard at it, I will just give in this one time." That is a mistake. That is like climbing up a mountain just to fall back down. You still have to go all the way back to the top now.
I hope that you can get a hold of yourself and control your anger. I'm happy to hear that you're already trying.
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