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Colonel Kurtz Ph.D
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It hurts so bad
#5374497 - 03/07/06 02:36 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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So my ex and I decided that it would be best to stop talking about getting together and stop calling eachother for a while...
And fuck do I miss her. Today I called just to compliment her on some pics she sent me and she told me not to call her for that. She was with a ladyfriend and two of my best friends...

Now I feel like I've missed my only chance to be with such an amazing woman and completely alone. I have no hopes for the future except for finishing my album... I have no studies, I have no job, I have only a few friends left, and I lost the woman I whised for my entire life. I just see nothing to strive for anymore 
Anyway, just venting a little bit...
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baraka



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It sucks man....
but!
there are more women out there, some of which will treat you even better.
have a smoke with me
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CaRnAgECaNdY
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Sorry hun. Losing the one you love is never easy. I'm sorry your heart is hurting.
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stefan
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that sucks..
but like baraka said, there are more nice women out there too bad you lost this one though, we all know the feeling
good luck
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Rono
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We've all been there bro...some more than others.
Anything I say will just sound like a worn out cliche', but you'll be fine. You just need to weather this little shit storm and move on.
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LiveByFreedom
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Re: It hurts so bad [Re: Rono]
#5374571 - 03/07/06 02:52 PM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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There's lots to strive for brother, but i do understand the feeling, it hurts like no other.
There's so many beautiful things and happenings on Mama Earth, she's so abundant! There's a place for you in paradise, and it's here & now. There's so much love on these here forums for you. I'm sure there are many thousands of things on here to brighten your day. Happy Spring! Blessings!
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Tattoo
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Sorry bout the girl bro, I know the feeling, there are other ladies out there. You'll bag a better woman in time
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Deadmaker
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I know the feeling man. It'll hurt for a while. There's not much that you can do about that. Just don't do anything stupid or get out of control with drinking or drugs. Hopefully you've got people to talk to when you need it.
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Liz
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I'm sorry....these situations are always hard. She's right though, if you're taking a break, you need to actually take a break, and not look for every logical excuse in the world to call her. Because I know that's what you're doing....I've been in the same situation, doing the same thing. As hard as it is, do not pick up that phone. It will be hard for a while, but it's for the best for both of you.
She is not the only woman who can make you happy. It might feel that way right now, but she's not. Maybe things will work out with her down the road, maybe they wont.
The bottom line is, your relationship with her cannot dictate your happiness in life. You will be happy again, with or without her.
Call some friends, hang out, and do things for yourself. Immerse yourself in things you love, and leave it alone for a while.
Good Luck
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silver22
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Deepman said: So my ex and I decided that it would be best to stop talking about getting together and stop calling eachother for a while...
I've heard this saying, "everything happens for a reason." This is your chance to learn whatever you can from it. Remember this other saying--"if you love something, set it free; if it comes back to you --it was meant to be." Remember, take one breath at a time and continue living. As each day passes, you'll begin to notice, you'll be able to function a-okay. peace and love
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Penguarky Tunguin
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If you love someone, set them free, if they return, set them on fire. 
Been going through the same thing you are as well, Deepman. Lost a girl I thought might be the one. And I'm slowly losing my friends as they know I'm moving away to go to school. It's always how it happens with me, I leave and my friends don't follow. Just remember that you will move on, and you will meet the people you need to meet, who will teach you what you're supposed to learn next...
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The_Red_Crayon
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dont worry their is more parasites in the lower intestine.
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silver22
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McKennaDMT said: And I'm slowly losing my friends as they know I'm moving away to go to school. It's always how it happens with me, I leave and my friends don't follow.
Were they really your friends or were they acquaintances your thought were your friends? To me, a true friend will stick with you through thick and thin.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: It hurts so bad [Re: silver22]
#5379914 - 03/09/06 12:41 AM (17 years, 10 months ago) |
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Good point. Probably just co-worker acquaintences. Didn't take that much effort to keep the "friendship" going when I saw them 40 hours a week. I know one co-worker who I can truely call my friend though. He even volunteered to help me move. The others didn't.
Oh well, I have the ability to cut off loose ends if need be. I think I'll be doing that soon. Too bad. But I think I've learned all I needed to from them.
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Jim


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I am going through almost the exact same thing.
My girl just doesn;t want me to pressure her into getting back together. I am a fool who can not wait though, and always open my mouth when i shouldn't.
We both agree that things will work out, but I don't know if by work out she means the same thing.
She is too stressed out to do anything... and it sucks for me.
I do not know if I have ever been in love before this girl. I trusted her, and I have never trusted anyone.
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