How we doing shroomery?
Been a while but I've been smoking weed more lately and have a little conundrum, so I thought why not ask the shroomery.
First for context I am about to be a 37 y.o man of relatively average attractiveness with a fairly decent salary job. Over the past 20 or so years, while I haven't been wildly successful with women, I've had my fair share of dates and multiple week to multiple month flings, but the longest relationship I had was roughly 6mo. I want to get married and have a family, at this point I am hoping the next girl I date would be a girl I would be proposing to in 1-2 years.
Anyway, about 2 weeks ago I matched with Tara and we just had our third date. Tara is 30 and has no kids but wants a family too. She is definitely attractive, I would rate her about 7/10 for her looks and body, but not necessarily a knockout or anything. We agree on a lot of political and social issues and both love dogs. And possibly the best part she likes outdoors/camping and has been getting into golf which I have also been playing for the past ~7 years.
Then literally a few days after I matched with Tara (and before our first date) I matched with Bethany who I also have had 3 dates with as of two days ago. Bethany is 38 and has 1 son who is turning 10 this year, her and her sons dad are pretty much cordially co-parenting so he does see his dad a lot but they are 100% done romantically. She is also open to having more children. Bethany I cannot deny I am very much attracted too. I would rate her almost a 9/10, short with a curvy body and very beautiful face/smile. We also agree on most things politically and socially and she is really sweet.
So to this point like I said I've seen both of them 3 times and have been texting both daily. I don't know what to do and this is where things are a little more complicated. Tara things are moving much slower, I only kissed her once on our last date and have been pretty platonic in texting but she seems into me, is quick to respond and ask me questions, ect. Bethany things have been moving considerably faster, we've been sexting and I fucked her on our third date and she is coming over tomorrow again now.
I honestly see a potential for long term with both and I really don't want to hurt either of these girls, but it's getting the point I feel bad fucking Bethany while also dating and progressing with Tara. I think the toughest part for me is when I look at it on paper it seems semi-obvious that I should pick Tara. She is younger and doesn't have any kids, and the fact she plays golf is so cool to me. Bethany already having a son and being older would put a lot more pressure to commit and have children. However with that being said I am getting closer with Bethany much faster and my dick is shouting to choose her. I also feel like she would be more hurt than Tara would be if I had to end it with one or the other right now. I've debated just straight up telling them that I like them but am dating another girl too, which would make my conscience feel better but could also backfire completely. Any insight or advice would be appreciated!
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and in the end that's how it turned out to be...
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