Anonymous #3 said:

Yeah I wasn't really trying to include the OP in my revulsion. If you are open with people about whats up, then do your thing. It's just my experience that a lot of nasty shit lurks around under the banner of ENM.

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No worries, I didn't take it that way.

Moreover, all her guys also know that she has my blessing and that I'm aware of everything.

She mostly dates solo, so I don't usually interact with her guys directly, but I've met or hung out with a couple of them, and we've done a little bit of (hetero) group sexytime.

^^ once was with a couple of guys she didn't know.  I 'knew' them from the forum we frequent.  She knew I was taking her blindfolded to a hotel to fuck a stranger (she wanted to try that) but she wasn't expecting 2 of them.  It was a fun surprise.

I left her with them for about an hour (having a drink with one of their wives, who apparently really wanted to fuck me ) and then I went and joined in.  Then all of us went out looking for a place to have dinner.

andymc said:

Tomorrow night - first date with a new guy she met on Ashley Madison.

Friday she announced "it's been a long time since I've fucked a new guy" as she showed me his pics (tall, muscular, white guy).  In reality it's only been a few months, but I appreciate her attitude.

If drinks go well she's planning to go back to his hotel and get some.  If that goes well, she'll probably meet him again next week.

For lots of partners I'm sure this sounds like a waking nightmare.  But I love it when my sexy wife is bad.  I also love "silky seconds", so that's something to look forward to.

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Holy shit

andymc said:

Tomorrow night - first date with a new guy she met on Ashley Madison.

Friday she announced "it's been a long time since I've fucked a new guy" as she showed me his pics (tall, muscular, white guy).  In reality it's only been a few months, but I appreciate her attitude.

If drinks go well she's planning to go back to his hotel and get some.  If that goes well, she'll probably meet him again next week.

For lots of partners I'm sure this sounds like a waking nightmare.  But I love it when my sexy wife is bad.  I also love "silky seconds", so that's something to look forward to.

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fugazi32 said:

Gotta admit, sloppy seconds is a massive fantasy of mine too.

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It's so hot - naughty - I love it.  My wife loves it too.

The first thing I do when she comes home freshly fucked, is lick her pussy - creampie or not.

When you imagine it, is it with your lady?  Or just kind of an imaginary fantasy woman?

... or with my wife?   You don't live so far from us

fugazi32 said:

Alongside spitroast and double vaginal penetration.

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Spit roast is also a lot of fun!  You kinda need to get into a rhythm with the other fella, and whomever is in the back shouldn't pound too hard, otherwise the front gets a bit hit-and-miss

I'd love to try DVP myself.  People rave about it.

I asked the former porn star Stoya about DP and DVP here: https://slate.com/advice/2025/07/marriage-advice-sex-bucket-list-wife.html

[ if you can get past the paywall; I can with a Firefox private window and some combination of restrictive cookie/privacy settings ]

[ Stoya is an old favourite of mine, since she has the same body type as my wife, and also always looked like she was actually having fun ]

BGrin said:

I read every post, every hateful misunderstanding comment and Andymc responded in a mature, experienced way. Having enjoyed this lifestyle for nearly 15 years with my own wife, I can assure you his marriage is better than most- because my marriage is better than most. If you haven't traveled this road, you can't give directions. Way to go bro!

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