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how to date when you hate the apps
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I work standard 40 hour weeks, I am bored with the mundane conversation, I have seen and experienced too much for the simple but crave simplicity.

Apps suck, going to the bar is not my thing.


how the fuck do I find someone to fuck if I am not into the apps and don't want to spend my money drinking at the bar to bar trap?

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Church. You need a lot of work done but I’m sure God will bless you with a wife if you tighten up.


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Shiithead] * 2
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There is an entire world happening outside of bars and dating apps. Whole groups full of both sexes dedicated to things like... hobbies.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I work standard 40 hour weeks, I am bored with the mundane conversation, I have seen and experienced too much for the simple but crave simplicity.

Apps suck, going to the bar is not my thing.


how the fuck do I find someone to fuck if I am not into the apps and don't want to spend my money drinking at the bar to bar trap?


Time machine, make sure you retain contact with people who have siblings of your preferred sex so they can introduce you to their friends.

If you're busy and not into Apps or bars t's genuinely the only way to get quality people that isn't gonna get you accused of joining an activity for ulterior motives.

It's genuinely rough out there.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: nuds]
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nuds said:
There is an entire world happening outside of bars and dating apps. Whole groups full of both sexes dedicated to things like... hobbies.


This is hilariously disingenuous. Did you lose your way to reddit?

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Im not sure what is disingenuous about it. OP‘s problem is very clearly a meeting people problem. There are other ways to meet other real life humans outside of the bar.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
nuds said:
There is an entire world happening outside of bars and dating apps. Whole groups full of both sexes dedicated to things like... hobbies.


This is hilariously disingenuous. Did you lose your way to reddit?


Poor take
I have met plenty of people in shared hobby spaces. Be it enm/poly/kink (some shit people), or at trivia.

Also have become friends with my friends friends.


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: ellamush] * 1
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ellamush said:
Anonymous #2 said:
nuds said:
There is an entire world happening outside of bars and dating apps. Whole groups full of both sexes dedicated to things like... hobbies.


This is hilariously disingenuous. Did you lose your way to reddit?


Poor take
I have met plenty of people in shared hobby spaces. Be it enm/poly/kink (some shit people), or at trivia.

Also have become friends with my friends friends.


It's different for women. As men we have all been maced while saying hi to people public.  Polls have shown most women would rather not deal with men out in public at all as they find it creepy.


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: vicepope]
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It's not different for anyone. It's easy to meet people, make friends with your friends friends, and build a social circle that almost inevitably leads to friends/partners/sexual partners as long as you're a normal person that keeps in moderately decent shape with a bit of personality r.e hobbies.

Let's use an example here. Let's say I like to play football (soccer). I join a Wednesday night indoor football competition, and am placed into a random mixed team. It's not creepy to talk to anyone in that team. It's not creepy to talk to anyone in the other teams. I don't meet anyone I don't click with, so what? I enjoy football, I've made some friends (and also meeting their friends), and now have a hobby I can talk about to people I meet, that as an added bonus, helps keep me fit, and thus more attractive to potential sexual partners.

Ding Ding Ding!!!

Now copy and paste this blueprint into other things in life. Literally anywhere else that isn't a bar or a dating app. Art classes. Community groups. Hobby sports. Ad infitium.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: ellamush]
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vicepope said:
It's different for women. As men we have all been maced while saying hi to people public.  Polls have shown most women would rather not deal with men out in public at all as they find it creepy.


Bingo.
ellamush said:
Poor take
I have met plenty of people in shared hobby spaces. Be it enm/poly/kink (some shit people), or at trivia.

Also have become friends with my friends friends.


Case in point. Of course people who are already having or intending to have sex with you will be friendly.

Again I'm sure you and the kraut think they mean well but that's still hilariously unaware and dishonest advice

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Whatever mate, stay jaded and bitter. OP asked a question and received answers from people doing other stuff that works. You are not even confident enough in your own advice to stick your name on it.

Edited by nuds (02/22/26 01:22 PM)

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
vicepope said:
It's different for women. As men we have all been maced while saying hi to people public.  Polls have shown most women would rather not deal with men out in public at all as they find it creepy.


Bingo.
ellamush said:
Poor take
I have met plenty of people in shared hobby spaces. Be it enm/poly/kink (some shit people), or at trivia.

Also have become friends with my friends friends.


Case in point. Of course people who are already having or intending to have sex with you will be friendly.

Again I'm sure you and the kraut think they mean well but that's still hilariously unaware and dishonest advice


Sure... It's not like anyone actually DATES people in the enm space. It's not like anyone becomes good friends with the people they meet...

Oh wait, I'm seeing my friend tonight, who I met in the enm space, who I've only hung out with five times over two years. But someone who I connect with authentically.

Hmmmm... Maybe you need a rethink?


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: ellamush]
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How are you able to decide if I'm being dishonest? Is your experience the only experience in the world, anonymous 2?

Lol


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: nuds] * 1
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nuds said:
Whatever mate, stay jaded and bitter. OP asked a question and received answers from people doing other stuff that works. You are not even confident enough in your own advice to stick your name on it.


Haha. I like you nuds.


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: ellamush]
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nuds said:
Whatever mate, stay jaded and bitter. OP asked a question and received answers from people doing other stuff that works. You are not even confident enough in your own advice to stick your name on it.



ellamush said:
How are you able to decide if I'm being dishonest? Is your experience the only experience in the world, anonymous 2?

Lol


Name-calling logged.
Concessions accepted.
Thanks for playing.
Cheers.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Name calling would be if I called you a dick, which I didn't. Lol


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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: vicepope]
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vicepope said:
Polls have shown most women would rather not deal with men out in public at all as they find it creepy.


Yet is there a single man who'd be offended by being approached by a woman in public?

I think women have a lot to learn from men!

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
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The privilege being displayed in this thread is quite entertaining. Just join the ENM kink communities bro, they love average straight cis dudes in those places!

:facepalm:

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Ssssh you're not allowed to point that out.

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Re: how to date when you hate the apps [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Leave the US. Go date in literally any non-muslim non-US country and it's better. Leave the western continent. American women are cooked through and through. Don't even bother with them, dont waste your time. Travel to date.  Be a passport bro, discover the light, my brothers.

You dont have to go to church or bars or fake interest in hobbies, no dirty ENM filth, no kink psychos. Outside the US you can talk to hot attractive women in public and they'll wanna date you: the American guy / the cool foreigner

Once you experience the other side you will never look at Ameican women the same


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Edited by trees (02/28/26 06:49 AM)

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