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Balancing your life as a bisexual
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So, i have great great girlfriend. Shes super awesome inside and out. The only problem is that im also attracted to trannies.
I had a fuck buddy relationship with a tranny for a few months. It was also great  but i quickly grew bored of the dick and needed some pussy again.  So fast forward a few years and ive still been with the same girl. But every so often, like every few months, ill get strong urges to message my old tranny friend hook up. I know that its wrong and i dont think my girl would allow me to casually hook up with a tranny every so often. I know that i like her and like her pussy and everything but every so often i get these urges. And i wouldn't even think of cheating on her... its easier said than done :lol: but im a faithful guy.
She knows that i like trannies and basically only watch tranny porn, which hes okay with.
So how could i convince my girlfriend to let me casually hook up with one? If she definitely won't let me, how healthy is it  to ignore my urges? It really sucks because i feel that i need a girlfriend to happy but also to be happy i need to play with a dick every so often

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What about a stapon? Maybe a threeway?

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Thesunbeam]
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Find a girly tom boy.

Trannies are very confused people that think they know what they want.  I've known a fairly real one not sure if he/she ever had the change.  It seems they get involved in a lot of dark societal areas.

To protect yourself I advise only jerking off and getting stoned on weed for a long long time until you realize how much you hate sexuality in a prison of the body.

Being informed at our status at death is a terrible waste of a life.

Sexuality is a sacred experience between man and woman.  All other else is pretty much deviant behavior because we don't know and are not sure how we became so confused about what our sexuality may or may not be or even become.

It's a very gross thing (the body).


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"in sterquiliniis invenitur in stercore invenitur"

In filth it will be found in dung it will be found

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Morel Guy]
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Yea, basically im a deviant and if there was pill i could take to be completely attracted to girls only, i would take it. And for the record im repulsed by guys, i have absolutely no attraction towards them. I like a female figure, so i like my girls with pussies or dicks lol


Well idk if a strap on would satisfy me, and i hinted about a threesome with a tranny before.. basically she doesn't like trannies or gays.. and she's the type of person who wants things to be fair... so if i got to have sex with a tranny she would want to have sex with another guy. And if that was my only option i would rather fuck no one but her... i would never let another man touch her

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Maybe you just need to spice up your sex life with your gal. Set up something really hot.

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Morel Guy] * 1
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Morel Guy said:
Find a girly tom boy.

Trannies are very confused people that think they know what they want.  I've known a fairly real one not sure if he/she ever had the change.  It seems they get involved in a lot of dark societal areas.

To protect yourself I advise only jerking off and getting stoned on weed for a long long time until you realize how much you hate sexuality in a prison of the body.

Being informed at our status at death is a terrible waste of a life.

Sexuality is a sacred experience between man and woman.  All other else is pretty much deviant behavior because we don't know and are not sure how we became so confused about what our sexuality may or may not be or even become.

It's a very gross thing (the body).


Wow. You have serious issues and probably shouldn’t be giving advice on sexual topics. Were you raised Catholic or in a very religious family? It’s a serious question. The only people I’ve come across with your level of sexual hangups got that way through religious indoctrination


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Anonymous #1 said:
Yea, basically im a deviant and if there was pill i could take to be completely attracted to girls only, i would take it. And for the record im repulsed by guys, i have absolutely no attraction towards them. I like a female figure, so i like my girls with pussies or dicks lol


Well idk if a strap on would satisfy me, and i hinted about a threesome with a tranny before.. basically she doesn't like trannies or gays.. and she's the type of person who wants things to be fair... so if i got to have sex with a tranny she would want to have sex with another guy. And if that was my only option i would rather fuck no one but her... i would never let another man touch her


You’re not a deviant. I’ve come to realize over the years that almost everyone has kinks and fetishes. I think your attraction to trannies can be considered a fetish. The question is whether it is something you can give up. Everyone makes sacrifices when they are in a committed relationship. If you don’t think giving up the occasional dick, then you need to be fair to your girlfriend. Either open up the relationship and allow her the same freedom you want, or leave her. It’s not fair to string her along if you are pretty sure you’re gonna cheat on her at some point. Find a girl who is more open minded or be single.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: koods]
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Thank you koods, far to many give there insight to people who are to impressionable/vulnerable which can cause a lot of confusion/possibly self hatred. Anon1 I totally know what you mean, in my case I felt very similar until I realized I had to admitt that I do like the thought of the d, but after the big o I slightly have a “wtf am I doing moment” but all the way up until that point I feel like the sexiest person alive lol. Think a lot of the has to do with self reflection within society and trying to fit in to just that, which if you ask me is no fun because you are denying yourself the many facets of pleasure. I’ve been in relationship for almost 6 years now, and I think after year 3 I decided to tell her what I rnjoy and how I enjoy it and things got progressively better because in reality most women have at least thought/fantasized about a bisexual encounter themselves and would be total hypocrites to deny you the same exploration. Now this is where reality comes in as I said before I love the thought of these encounters, but the feeling after the o makes me weary of involving anyone else due to the fact I don’t want to reject them or be weird afterwards so I’ve never really acted on it, but I can’t imagine going through life without giving it a go. At least to kill the curiosity, it also helps if your wife is bi as well, at least they will be more understanding of what you are looking to explore.

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: koods]
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koods said:
Anonymous #1 said:
Yea, basically im a deviant and if there was pill i could take to be completely attracted to girls only, i would take it. And for the record im repulsed by guys, i have absolutely no attraction towards them. I like a female figure, so i like my girls with pussies or dicks lol


Well idk if a strap on would satisfy me, and i hinted about a threesome with a tranny before.. basically she doesn't like trannies or gays.. and she's the type of person who wants things to be fair... so if i got to have sex with a tranny she would want to have sex with another guy. And if that was my only option i would rather fuck no one but her... i would never let another man touch her


You’re not a deviant. I’ve come to realize over the years that almost everyone has kinks and fetishes. I think your attraction to trannies can be considered a fetish. The question is whether it is something you can give up. Everyone makes sacrifices when they are in a committed relationship. If you don’t think giving up the occasional dick, then you need to be fair to your girlfriend. Either open up the relationship and allow her the same freedom you want, or leave her. It’s not fair to string her along if you are pretty sure you’re gonna cheat on her at some point. Find a girl who is more open minded or be single.


Well i feel like she is great for me, i wouldn't leave her forever to suck some trannys dick hahaha
I think the point was that i wouldn't ever cheat on her and its been a few years sinse my last one and i still get urges for them when im super horny.  So it seems these feelings aren't going away and im wondering if its healthy to never experience it again to stay with her. Like if i want a girl 80% of the time and a tranny 20% it doesn't make sense to lose her over this

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1]
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And you also think my attraction to trannies doesn't mean that i am bi? Im absolutely repulsed by real guys, they have no attractive qualities to me.. but on the othe hand i think i girl with a dick is really hot... so due to the dick factor and that i like sucking them and getting fucked by them, i only concluded that i had to have been at the least bi

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Personally I wouldn't consider you as a bisexual. Most of the trans women in porn look like passable attractive women. Gay men like facial hair, muscles and all of that other manly shit. There's a reason why trans porn is listed on sites for straight men. This is the problem with porn. You start out as a kid watching  soft porn on the movie channels. That TV porn stops working so you start looking at porn on the internet. As the years go by the porn you watch gets crazier and crazier.  After a while you no longer recognize yourself. It's a addiction. 95% of Trans women dont look like that in real life. It's all a fantasy that doesn't exist in the real world!  Real trans women are suicidal and hate having a penis. Dude I've been there and it sucks. Stop watching porn! It might take a year or 2 but you'll go back to normal..

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Shenmue]
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it's not healthy or unhealthy

lots of people go through life never having sex with anything that truly turns them on, and are healthy happy people

lots of people marry someone that lacks a trait that really turns them on, like marrying someone with an A-cup when you have a big boob fetish

you'll never fulfill all your desires, and once you do you'll just crave something more extreme. Give yourself up to the person you want to cuddle with and talk to after you finish, they have desires that you don't fill as well.

it's not a bad thing to leave some urges unsatisfied, especially if they're detrimental to something that makes you happy in the long term

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: feevers]
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Yeah but watching trans porn isn't helping his relationship. Like I said 95% of trans women aren't actually like that. Most of them look like men. I'm not trying to sound like a dick but it's true...

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Shenmue]
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I know they don't look good irl lol... in the op i mentioned that i have already hooked up with one several times in real life a few years ago. He was like 95% passable. The only non pass features were no boobs and voice. Plus he was comfortable enough around me to let me use his dick lol

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Anonymous #1]
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So what I gather is you’re probably emotionally straight but you just wanna to get plowed in the ass every once in a while. Do you like sucking dick as well? But, I also think your attitude about trannies is pretty disrespectful, and you may be more bi and just having a hard time dealing with that in a more healthy way. Idk. You could definitely try to accept your nature and embrace it as opposed to pathologizing it and your partners with dicks.

Do you get turned on by dicks in straight porn? Maybe you and your gf could share a more masculine bisexual man :shrug:


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: koods]
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Quote:
Real trans women are suicidal and hate having a penis.


That’s a really unhelpful generalization. Trans people are perfectly capable of being happy and some quite like having a dick.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: koods]
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I told you I was raised catholic.  I just don't like ugly girls.

There are no cute trannies to me or cute gay guys.  Sorry but not being gay is not a hang up.


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In filth it will be found in dung it will be found

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Morel Guy]
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Oh ya and I was raped at age 5 by a gay swim coach.  So that leaves a strong opinion.


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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: Morel Guy]
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Well I was mainly talking about this:

Quote:
It's a very gross thing (the body).



I don’t think any force aside from religion can damage someone enough to believe that.


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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”

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Re: Balancing your life being bisexual [Re: koods]
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Go to Google and type in trans suicide rate. Its EXTREMELY high! Unhelpful but true for the most part. The study's prove that.

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