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I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend *DELETED*
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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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fuck that shit man she sounds psycho, would get away while you can mate..

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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: counter s]
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You gotta distance yourself from that one brother, this is spoken from a man (that was)in a very similar position and the best move I made was to cut contact and separate the paths we were taking in life.
People don't realize that you can be addicted to "love" and losing that "fix" will make some people want to take there life cause they are so emotionally dependent on said person to give them these feelings.
Hope all turns out well for you, and you might want to talk her into finding some kind of help with the cutting and stuff.
Cause that girl could have easily accidentally cut to deep and bleed out on your bathroom floor.

Cutting while emotional,let alone drunk, is dangerous and terrifying, especially when you come too where ever you are covered in your own blood and sliced to shit unknowning of exactly why.(speaking from personal experience) it is something that can seriously traumatize a person and mentally mess them up even more.
And Even more so when you realize just how much you've damaged and  how close you were to hitting vains and tendons/muscle tissue.


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: XnMe]
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Edited by Anonymous (03/06/19 11:50 AM)

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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I mean if she's pretty much outright telling you she's going to kill herself if you leave her, that's being emotionally manipulative. The alcohol abuse and "suicide attempt" is pretty frightening coupled with the fact she is cutting herself that's a serious sign of bad mental health.

What do you guys fight about?

I'm definitely leaning on the side that you should tell her parents what is going on and what happened. It sounds like she needs help.

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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Uzziel]
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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Any further words of advice or anyone that wants to play the other side of the card so to speak?
Love is hard

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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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No Comment. I'm outta here :breakout:

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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Plans don't count for shit. Bail now. Don't look back. You are in a place that you really don't want to be.


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: MadValley] * 1
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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Hopefully she'll get the help she needs and youll both find peace.:chugbeer:


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I got ahold of her. She's okay.
Sorry for repeatedly posting. I have a lot on my mind and it's making me feel better to share it somehow


Breakups are never fun and never easy. But you did the right thing. Her going after you personally was the tip off. You can now be like "Yeah, you were right. I could never let you be subjected to shit like that from an asshole like me." You now know what she really thinks and can pull out that card and play it if she starts wanting to try again.

Now's the time to stop. You gotta do it like ripping off a Band-Aid. Ouch! and done. You let her dad know what's up, you made sure she was okay. Those were both good things. Your work here is done. This is where you've got to back away from the whole ugly mess and let it all settle down.

Good luck as this heals. Amazing things await you.


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: MadValley]
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OP sounds like you did good.  You put boundaries in place for yourself and told someone so they can care for and check on her.  You can only control your own behavior man,  and you aren't responsible for managing her emotions.  Love doesn't matter shit if the relationship isn't healthy.  Have you thought about how much contact you will allow? Is a period of no contact at all warranted to let you both start to heal? If so do you need to communicate this to her? Guilt is normal dude. Means you don't like hurting someone, which is a good thing.  Let it be,  realise its part of you,  and let it go when you can.


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: Acuriousmycologist]
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Run, run, as fast as you can.


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Re: I feel like an asshole for considering leaving my girlfriend [Re: pinedownpioneer]
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Anonymous #1 said:
We've talked a couple of times since the break up and have said really nice things to each other.
I haven't said anything to her that gives us the idea that we'll get back together, but admittedly I miss her like hell.


It'll pass man. Remember you did this to get you in a better place, and her for that matter.  Feelings come,  let them come, then let them go

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