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Alone always * 1
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Recently went back to college to finish out my degree

I haven't had a relationship in 5 years or had any sexual interaction

There are a few girls I wouldn't mind getting to know in some of my classes but I have no idea how to go about even talking to them

We sit on small classrooms, get lectures and everyone leaves quickly. 

I don't have any contact for parties and not really comfortable in bars which are always dead around here anyway

If I didnt have Xbox live I could literally go multiple days without opening mouth

Networking and making the initial contact jas never been a strong suit for me

Just sick of being alone all the time and need se advice

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Re: Alone always [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Just introduce your self, what’s the worst that could happen? Rejection? Rejection isn’t that bad. If she denies you move to the next girl. Meanwhile, work on your body language. Often time girls won’t view a man as a possibility if he doesn’t carry himself with respect or confidence

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Re: Alone always [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Get a part time job at a restaurant at night.  There are always cute chicks working to get to know, and maybe some patrons too. 

Work makes you interact with them and you will have extra cash to spend.

Always be talking about some concert you are planning on going to and always have an extra ticket to offer someone you are interested in.

Just a couple ideas,
Gnome


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Re: Alone always [Re: Phegnomeanon]
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Wow I wish I was in your position. I go to college too but have no women or girls in anyone my classes and no shit all the ones I meet in my building are married and I'm not going to try and steal a girl from marriage. Also wouldnt don't have parties,  people are actually afraid of throwing any because so many people show up and the cops show up.  Yeah I am part of the party crowed and am the guy that started the party scene.

Consider yourself lucky you even get all those opportunities. I don't even get a 1/4 of the opportunities you do.

On that note,  go up and talk to them.  I litterallly use the same copy and paste line because it's the only one that I don't throw up half way threw saying.

"hey,  I'm *insert name* and I've seen you a few times and think you look like a pretty nice person to get to know. Whats your name? "

Then from there it's a matter of talking to them like another person, I'll assume you may have. Anxiety still because of the whole girl thing so just pretend she's a guy friend or buddy. (don't forget she's a girl though) 
Also make sure you get her number then or the second time you two talk other wise she will think you just wanna be friends and will find zero interest in you.

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Re: Alone always [Re: RaRaRasputin] * 2
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Meetup.com might be a good start! You can practice social skills and it could lead to meeting a girl with the same interests as you!  You should look into it but you can join or make groups for different activities and you’ll feel more comfortable doing activities you already enjoy which could lead to making good connections with women or making new guy friends!

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Re: Alone always [Re: Thesunbeam]
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Just start going to shows and talking with people, get adopted into a crew, go from there, things will work themselves out, especially if it’s a bass heavy scene, we’re all poly in that scene anymore. :lol:

If you’re not into bass... :shrug:


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Re: Alone always [Re: SARAtonin]
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If you’re a loner like me, you may have avoidant insecure attachment which makes it hard to keep and maintain friendships and relationships because of deep seated trust issues related to your upbringing. In which case, no amount of pep talks to just get out on the scene will help and you should get a therapist....or you might be some other kind of loner.

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