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Being treated like I'm incapable...
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Of doing anything because I'm pregnant. 3 days before a show I'm told I don't need to go because my SO "won't be able to make it to the stage" because I'm pregnant and if I get that close I'll be squished up against people... does this sound like a genuine concern or an excuse to be selfish and go without me because I sure feel like I'm just not welcome to even stand beside him. Am I being unreasonable or rightfully pissed?

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What does him making it to the stage have to do with you going to a show? He can go to the stage and you can hang back and just meet up after. It's not a big deal.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Exactly

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Is music that loud good for the baby?

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
Is music that loud good for the baby?



Depending on the volume it can lead to a stillbirth. Going to a concert while pregnant is hella irresponsible

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #4]
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It is not harmful, I've asked my doctor. The suggestion that it causes stillbirth is preposterous.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What would be stopping you from going regardless?

If it's safe for you and your unborn child, than you should be able to go no matter what anyone says, right?

I understand that such decisions can complicate a relationship, and that in relationships there are many compromises to keep both parties happy, but you are still a free human.

Good luck #24558064 , I hope you find a solution.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #5]
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The fact that he sold my ticket just so I couldn't go at this point. Hope he's having a great time.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Oh...

I suppose I would be frustrated as well.

I wish I had some advice, anyway, I wish you the best in your situation #24558064.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Stay the fuck home, a preggo chick shouldn't be at a concert with drunks, second hand smoke and people moshing and shit, and loud music. Why would you be trying to cockblock on your bf's good time enjoying a concert? It sounds like your being unreasonable. you need to realize your single and child less unpregnant friends can do shit that you can't. it's part of being a parent. deal with it OP. You sound like your trying to continue a lifestyle that you don't have the freedom to lead now that you have more important responsibilities.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #6]
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I haven't been anywhere in years because I'm a parent. This was my one vacation in that long and I'm only 3 months pregnant. You wouldn't know unless I told you, you sound like another person stuck in the 50's thinking pregnant women are fucking handicapped.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You should have bought another ticket with his credit card and went yourself. Then again, I wouldn't have a problem bringing a 3 month pregnant girlfriend. I wouldn't want you in the mosh pit, that's about it really if its that kind of show. But what do I know?

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Anonymous #1 said:
I haven't been anywhere in years because I'm a parent. This was my one vacation in that long and I'm only 3 months pregnant. You wouldn't know unless I told you, you sound like another person stuck in the 50's thinking pregnant women are fucking handicapped.



You sound like a shitty trashy mother that would rather be at a concert while 3 months pregnant than think about the health & welfare of her unborn child.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Dude..some babies are born addicted to crack. How can you think she is crazy for wanting to go to a concert while she still can?
The chances of OP getting hurt are pretty slim I am sure she would not stand in center of a mosh pit.

OP I am sorry but he sounds like he just doesn't want you to go for whatever reason. If you were farther along then I would understand the concern. Even still selling someone's ticket without reasoning behind it is a pretty passive aggressive move.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #8]
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crack cocaine doesn't cause deformities though
tobbacco and alcohol most certainly do

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous #6 said:
Anonymous #1 said:
I haven't been anywhere in years because I'm a parent. This was my one vacation in that long and I'm only 3 months pregnant. You wouldn't know unless I told you, you sound like another person stuck in the 50's thinking pregnant women are fucking handicapped.



You sound like a shitty trashy mother that would rather be at a concert while 3 months pregnant than think about the health & welfare of her unborn child.



How dare you call someone trashy while having little comprehension or experience. If you have either than you're not very bright. She's a mother, do you not think she knows the limits of being pregnant? 3 months pregnant isn't shit. Yeah, maybe not a mosh pit or thick, tight crowds, but other than that there's no reason she couldn't go. You're being a dick.


OP, I'm with the other guy. He doesn't want you to go because he either wants time alone before the baby or maybe he just wants to get really fucked up in public without having to worry about his pregnant girlfriend. If I were tripping for instance, that might really influence my time. That being said he is being selfish, but selfish isn't inherently bad. It's just bad for you. Just don't make a big deal of it ok? Then a few months from now when the baby is screaming all night you can make him give you some time for yourself. LOL

Remember that time you went to a concert without me? Enjoy :smile: :lol:

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
crack cocaine doesn't cause deformities though
tobbacco and alcohol most certainly do



You've never heard of a crack-baby? They're usually pre-term and born with circulation problems, and god know what kind of psychological issues. Make sure you never breed.

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #11]
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crack babies grow up to be perfectly capable adults

tobbacco and alcohol babies are usually deformed in the face and have irregular heart beats and circulation, i don't know what you're talking about my dad was near tobbacco and he's all sorts of fucked up
most of the retarded people i know have parents that smoke tobbacco and I'm not talking 'I don't want to go to school" i mean bouncing off the fucking walls bonkers 24/7 so much so that they can't even learn something new

Edited by Anonymous (08/22/17 11:04 AM)

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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
crack babies grow up to be perfectly capable adults






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Re: Being treated like I'm incapable... [Re: Anonymous #12]
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if you smoke crack before cumming yeah they could be fucked up
but it's the same with a lot of other drugs

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