Anonymous #1 said:
I socialize as much as possible and I get laid like once every other year. My only reason for living is to see what this fucked up lottery we call life holds for me. tomorrow may be the day Ive waited for, though it never is. I am starting to question why im here, what is my purpose. I try to stay positive, I do try not to whine and complain. Unfortunatley Ive just hit a streak where everything I do is wrong and I keep falling further behind. I could deal with being poor if I got laid, I could deal with not getting laid if I was rich; but being poor and not getting laid does make a guy rather moody.
Ok some people here might disagree with this, but ONLY laziness is the reason for not getting laid. Not lack of money, not lack of a car, not your face, voice or studies in school or anything else.
If you're too lazy or disinterested to learn the skill, you won't know it and you won't get laid. Hell you won't even know that there is a skill to learn, and what exactly you're doing wrong. Now it's true some people are naturals, in the sense that they happened to grow up in groups of friends, or had sisters or whatever, that put them in the situation to naturally learn without much active seeking on their part.
For the rest of us, the stuff is out there, learnable, for free, but we do have to show up and learn it. We have to google it and put in the time learning and doing it.
Looking back at my own life, the amount of girls I banged in one month or year in no way correlates with the amount of money I made during that period. True it's harder if you're a complete bum, but after basic survival is taken care of, it's all on you to get bangin'. I mean on your skills and habits, that either you've developed or you haven't.
Do you have interesting stuff to talk about? Do you have interesting skills or hobbies?
If you're not getting into some of this stuff, it's a negative spiral. You're not motivated to improve your work/income because you have nothing to look forward to, on any given day. Apathy follows, and mild depression. Feeling blah. Then from that lack of motivation comes poor nutrition, poor exercise habits, etc.
On the other hand even with a shitty job, if you get in some relationships or even try to pick up a few, that will push you to improve. You'll expect more things from yourself that you aren't expecting from yourself right now.
Anyway what I'm saying is learn what you can, given the current amount of money you have coming in. Youtube is free. Shroomery is free. Exercise is free. Just get on it.
The reasons why you're telling yourself (in your head) that you can't get shit done, will generally not stand well under scrutiny. There are people more poor, more stupid, old or ugly, that still get some. If they can do it, you can do it. Get going 
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