empty space said:

Azure Essence said:

People saying you shouldnt hit women are the worst misogynists in ever lamer disguises. I mean fuck, why dont we just take away their right's to vote while we're at it? Let's take them out of the work force, and into the kitchen, because, CLEARLY, women arent equal to men and must be treated in a completely different fashion, much like little children who must be watched over by a guardian at all times.

If a fucking women deserves to be hit, she deserves to be hit. Not all women that ARE hit deserve it tho, no one said that before anyone tries to make me out to be an asshole. But people, PEOPLE are equals, and some PEOPLE deserve to be fucking slapped.

Again, you should probably assess your very low perception of women if you think that no matter what, having a vagina means you should never ever be hit. You CLEARLY havent met enough women.

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Men and women are equal. Yes. Why would you hit anybody unless that individual were trying to cause harm to you or your loved ones? If you can't solve conflict without violence, you are not man enough to face your problems head on.

The only times a woman deserves to be hit is if she asks for it in the bedroom or she is trying to kill you. Otherwise, you are a coward.

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empty space said:

Azure Essence said:

People saying you shouldnt hit women are the worst misogynists in ever lamer disguises. I mean fuck, why dont we just take away their right's to vote while we're at it? Let's take them out of the work force, and into the kitchen, because, CLEARLY, women arent equal to men and must be treated in a completely different fashion, much like little children who must be watched over by a guardian at all times.

If a fucking women deserves to be hit, she deserves to be hit. Not all women that ARE hit deserve it tho, no one said that before anyone tries to make me out to be an asshole. But people, PEOPLE are equals, and some PEOPLE deserve to be fucking slapped.

Again, you should probably assess your very low perception of women if you think that no matter what, having a vagina means you should never ever be hit. You CLEARLY havent met enough women.

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Men and women are equal. Yes. Why would you hit anybody unless that individual were trying to cause harm to you or your loved ones? If you can't solve conflict without violence, you are not man enough to face your problems head on.

The only times a woman deserves to be hit is if she asks for it in the bedroom or she is trying to kill you. Otherwise, you are a coward.

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Rikalabeats said:

empty space said:

Azure Essence said:

People saying you shouldnt hit women are the worst misogynists in ever lamer disguises. I mean fuck, why dont we just take away their right's to vote while we're at it? Let's take them out of the work force, and into the kitchen, because, CLEARLY, women arent equal to men and must be treated in a completely different fashion, much like little children who must be watched over by a guardian at all times.

If a fucking women deserves to be hit, she deserves to be hit. Not all women that ARE hit deserve it tho, no one said that before anyone tries to make me out to be an asshole. But people, PEOPLE are equals, and some PEOPLE deserve to be fucking slapped.

Again, you should probably assess your very low perception of women if you think that no matter what, having a vagina means you should never ever be hit. You CLEARLY havent met enough women.

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Men and women are equal. Yes. Why would you hit anybody unless that individual were trying to cause harm to you or your loved ones? If you can't solve conflict without violence, you are not man enough to face your problems head on.

The only times a woman deserves to be hit is if she asks for it in the bedroom or she is trying to kill you. Otherwise, you are a coward.

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Yeah,  women and men are equal--in so far as one is typically 75% of the size of the other, NOT A FAIR FIGHT. I'll agree if someone is causing or threatening to cause you physical harm you should be able to defend yourself. At the same time I can't recall one situation in my adult life where getting into a physical altercation actually solved one problem without creating a another one-- even in the scenario given. Do you not think it would have been more difficult for this chick to get a restraining order against the man if he didn't slap her in front of several witnesses for what was essentially flirting?

Do what you do, but in my book fist fights=kid shit.

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Acidic_Sloth said:

necro bumping threads is always a little weird.



bitches deserve to be slapped when they leave the kitchen for any reason other than to give pleasure to their man via oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse.

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Acidic_Sloth said:

i am a woman. >_>


but i was being facetious, obviously.

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no, you were actually correct. you seem to have beenb taught well

jim617 said:

Not trying to be funny here so no pimp jokes please, remember your mom is a woman.

I have never hit a girl and I am very much against it but my friend just called me and told me he slapped his girl. She lied to him and said that she was sleeping over her moms house but when she called she left the phone on, He could hear all these guys in the background and the voice of her slutty friend.
At 2am she calls again, this time by accident, he can hear her talking to guys and assumes that she is going to spend the night with them. 
He never told me how he found out exactl where she was at but he did show up, stormed in the house confronting her then slapped her in front of everyone.
She broke his trust. she was drunk, high and hitting on other men. My friend does everything for this girl , works 2 jobs to support her and buy her what she wants and he was betrayed. I couldnt feel bad for her after that.
needless to say they broke up after a few months because of the trust issue and she took off with ALL his belongings but was the slap justified?

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I think sometimes our emotions get the best of us, and this is what it sounds like happened. I think it would depend on the manner in which she was slapped, force, front or back handed. I know that sounds wrong of me but if I were in that situation I know I would do the same thing and because im a girl it would be more acceptable, but I don't see it. If it happened to me I'd be butthurt but I'd know I deserved it. I dk maybe this will make sense to someone

Azure Essence said:

I wasnt particularly responding to you, but I was infact not being facetious.

I believe men and women are equal in every right, and traditional gender roles are garbage.

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Ulfrick said:

I choose to be entirely non-sexist about things... we are all human after all, if a man deserves to be slapped for something why should a woman be exempt? if a woman deserves to be slapped for something why should a man be exempt?

End of the day I believe that physical repercussions are necessary as it is the simplest and clearest way to identify our boundaries and standards. now obviously this will vary according to the offense committed, and I think it should also vary according to the physical stature and mental development of the person involved. the older/bigger/stronger you are the more it will take to have the same effect on you.

for example, a 10 year old kid with a "girlfriend (or boyfriend)" caught kissing another girl on the playground... well sure he probably deserves a slap, but you wouldn't slap a 10 year old kid nearly as hard as you would slap a 25 year old?

Similarly if I caught my second to last girlfriend cheating on me who weighed all of 100 lbs when wet (I didn't by the way this is entirely theoretical) then yeah, she might deserve a bit of a slap, which would probably have sent her spinning since i'm 220 lbs of pretty solid muscle.)

but my last girlfriend who was 180 lbs and built like a brick (she could beat me at arm wrestling without even thinking about it) well even the strongest slap I could give would probably not even register, so for someone like her maybe a punch might be in order to get across the full message. (again purely theoretical and never actually happened)

TLDR: yes sometimes a woman does deserve to get slapped, as do men if it is the appropriate reaction to their actions but relative size and strength should be taken into account.

P.S. I am a pacifist and have been so for many years and have always taken the stance that violence is NEVER the best option, however it is still AN option, and this post was ment to highlight my views on if and when it COULD be used not if it SHOULD be used.

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lilhippiegirl said:

Ulfrick said:

I choose to be entirely non-sexist about things... we are all human after all, if a man deserves to be slapped for something why should a woman be exempt? if a woman deserves to be slapped for something why should a man be exempt?

End of the day I believe that physical repercussions are necessary as it is the simplest and clearest way to identify our boundaries and standards. now obviously this will vary according to the offense committed, and I think it should also vary according to the physical stature and mental development of the person involved. the older/bigger/stronger you are the more it will take to have the same effect on you.

for example, a 10 year old kid with a "girlfriend (or boyfriend)" caught kissing another girl on the playground... well sure he probably deserves a slap, but you wouldn't slap a 10 year old kid nearly as hard as you would slap a 25 year old?

Similarly if I caught my second to last girlfriend cheating on me who weighed all of 100 lbs when wet (I didn't by the way this is entirely theoretical) then yeah, she might deserve a bit of a slap, which would probably have sent her spinning since i'm 220 lbs of pretty solid muscle.)

but my last girlfriend who was 180 lbs and built like a brick (she could beat me at arm wrestling without even thinking about it) well even the strongest slap I could give would probably not even register, so for someone like her maybe a punch might be in order to get across the full message. (again purely theoretical and never actually happened)

TLDR: yes sometimes a woman does deserve to get slapped, as do men if it is the appropriate reaction to their actions but relative size and strength should be taken into account.

P.S. I am a pacifist and have been so for many years and have always taken the stance that violence is NEVER the best option, however it is still AN option, and this post was ment to highlight my views on if and when it COULD be used not if it SHOULD be used.

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I couldn't agree with you more

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awesome, lets make babies... or at least practice
and I promise I will only hit you if you REALLY deserve it and to do so with the appropriate amount of force... we could be like the perfect fairy tale couple :p

Ulfrick said:

lilhippiegirl said:

Ulfrick said:

I choose to be entirely non-sexist about things... we are all human after all, if a man deserves to be slapped for something why should a woman be exempt? if a woman deserves to be slapped for something why should a man be exempt?

End of the day I believe that physical repercussions are necessary as it is the simplest and clearest way to identify our boundaries and standards. now obviously this will vary according to the offense committed, and I think it should also vary according to the physical stature and mental development of the person involved. the older/bigger/stronger you are the more it will take to have the same effect on you.

for example, a 10 year old kid with a "girlfriend (or boyfriend)" caught kissing another girl on the playground... well sure he probably deserves a slap, but you wouldn't slap a 10 year old kid nearly as hard as you would slap a 25 year old?

Similarly if I caught my second to last girlfriend cheating on me who weighed all of 100 lbs when wet (I didn't by the way this is entirely theoretical) then yeah, she might deserve a bit of a slap, which would probably have sent her spinning since i'm 220 lbs of pretty solid muscle.)

but my last girlfriend who was 180 lbs and built like a brick (she could beat me at arm wrestling without even thinking about it) well even the strongest slap I could give would probably not even register, so for someone like her maybe a punch might be in order to get across the full message. (again purely theoretical and never actually happened)

TLDR: yes sometimes a woman does deserve to get slapped, as do men if it is the appropriate reaction to their actions but relative size and strength should be taken into account.

P.S. I am a pacifist and have been so for many years and have always taken the stance that violence is NEVER the best option, however it is still AN option, and this post was ment to highlight my views on if and when it COULD be used not if it SHOULD be used.

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I couldn't agree with you more

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awesome, lets make babies... or at least practice
and I promise I will only hit you if you REALLY deserve it and to do so with the appropriate amount of force... we could be like the perfect fairy tale couple :p

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Anonymous said:

I deff regret it, but it's in the past now. I NEVER saw myself laying my hands on a woman and in retrospect I wish I would have handled it differently.

That guilt is hard to overcome even if the male wasn't ultimately in the wrong, in my opinion...

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