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Unfolding Nature Shop: Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order

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Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD
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Okay I feel like one of the biggest losers typing this, but I need to get help with this.

I have really bad social anxiety I always have since I was a little child and I'm 19 now. I blush when I have to speak in front of a crowd of people I don't know, always. That's my first problem so I view myself as weird, quiet, and nervous when I'm around people I don't know or in a classroom setting.

My second problem is I have horrible OCD. And this might sound like the dumbest thing ever, but I think I am addicted to looking at my under eye fine lines in the mirror. They aren't bags or dark circles, just 2 or 3 lines under my eyes. I feel like this makes me look like a crackhead junkie or like I'm 30. So basically I have an addiction at looking at myself, which makes me feel like shit when I see those lines, so I think that's a big part of why I'm depressed. My eyes look like this picture should I be worried?

http://www.google.com/imgres?q=under+eye+fine+line&um=1&hl=en&sa=N&tbo=d&biw=1366&bih=667&tbm=isch&tbnid=_n4qlwUzPHzspM:&imgrefurl=http://www.lovelyish.com/698018452/all-about-your-eyes-dark-circles-puffiness-fine-lines/&docid=EW27yaLEyg3DbM&imgurl=http://fc81.deviantart.com/fs32/i/2008/201/1/6/My_Lovely_Eye_by_leash1994.jpg&w=400&h=394&ei=44cAUYW_Momw0AHKsYGABg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=163&vpy=103&dur=5490&hovh=223&hovw=226&tx=112&ty=91&sig=113133284225580076451&page=1&tbnh=120&tbnw=145&start=0&ndsp=31&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0,i:87


I know I don't find a person attractive when they have bags or lines under their eyes. I don't really care and I'd still treat them like an equal human, but I wouldn't date them or anything. Can you guys give me any advice or something on how to stop? I feel like I'm ruining my life. I'm constantly thinking about these lines when people are talking to me or around me. I feel really embarrassed by them. I don't know what I expect you guys to do, but I just really needed to get this out.

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Oh and also. I have this moisturizer that's supposed to make them go away, but they're still there.

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Stop seeing these lines as a flaw of your body. We are how we are and we can't help that, and we are beautiful because of these things. You are obsessing over something that only you notice or care about. No one gives a single ounce of care to the way you look. No one cares, and it's a good thing because that releases you from needing to worry about how people look at you.

It sounds like you think way too much about what other people are thinking. Each time you start to think about what someone is thinking about you STOP. Tell yourself "STOP", clear your mind and come back into consciousness. Another trick that might help is instead of thinking about what they are thinking , think about how they might be feeling or what they are thinking about themselves. People don't have an internal dialog of ridicule about you going on in their head. They are just like you, going through issues you face yourself.

Maybe try finding something to occupy yourself. Hobbies, school, job... just relax man :heart:

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #2]
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dude that is a normal feeling... that is a normal eye...

get over it and stop giving a fuck what other people think of you... because they dont give a fuck.

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #3]
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DUDE YOU HAVE CROWS FEET!!those lines will get worse and worse especially if yer white..pot causes wrinkles I don't care what anyone says even young..i got wrinkles starting at 15 from drugs pot

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Today is the first day I'm gonna stop. Is there any cure for them?

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #1]
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stop wasting your $ on moisturizers..plain old lotion will be fine..fluids and exercise will help but if its part of your genes then you must learn to accept them..oh yes!make sure you wear sunglasses and watch sun exposure..that could be your problem right there!! eureka that's it!! start a regiment of sunglasses, lotion,no caffeine,and water!!

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Thanks man

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #1]
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My eyes look worse than those. And I actually have a pimple under one eye that has been there for like 3 months. I'm starting to think it might be cancer. Good thing I don't give a shit

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Anonymous #5 said:
My eyes look worse than those. And I actually have a pimple under one eye that has been there for like 3 months. I'm starting to think it might be cancer. Good thing I don't give a shit



Not cancer, it's a stye.  Usually they are harmless.  I had one once and it went away on it's own.  The best thing to do for it is to wash your eyelids with johnson's baby shampoo before you go to bed.


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002004/

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #6]
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wow,really?a pimple under your eyer 3 months is more than just a pimple.it could be an abcess or premature MRSA..go to the doctor and get that looked at before you lose a chunk of your face or possible your eye..insist on it being "lanced" and and to be put antbiotics..if you don't have insurance id say hot needle that bitch:eek:

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Idk man the thing is pretty small. Doesn't look like its deadly at all. Just a really small pimple or mole

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Re: Under eye fine lines and social anxiety and OCD [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Your eyes are messed up homes, I'm 47 and my eyes still look younger than those.

When I was 19 my eyes looked as smooth as this:



See? No lines or nothing. Clearly you're not using enough moisturizer.
Now get in there and show me some REAL ocd. :warcry:

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