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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: koraks]
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I agree with everything you said. I can't bring myself to walk away from her. The relationship may likely fail but I will not be the one who walks away. I love her. I realize I am 20 and naive as can be. I truely love her and will let her make her own decision. thanks for the advice:hug:
It would probably take a month to recover from this and be somewhat ok. Idk I'll try to be positive, I feel like this is going to just spiral out of control:shrug:

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: ButteredToast]
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ButteredToast said:
Cow poo, it seems you and I have a lot in common. Recently heartbroken, college, work, stress, anxiety, and we're the same age.

I was in a funk for a couple months after my girl broke it off with me. The best thing to do is to just get out there and meet some new girls. Easier said than done right after a breakup, but the sooner the better, trust me!

Good luck bud, there's plenty of beautiful girls out there.


:hugitout:


Thanks dude. I know it'll get better, you are right she is not the only one out there. Much love brother from another mother:hug:

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: rodfarva]
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Damn OP I feel your pain and I'm still trying to work through my heartbreak.

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I suggest leaving her, you have already begged for her and that is not good, women do no like needy men, they don't respect men that act like you.

I say have a little ego and take control, tell her you are done with the relationship.

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: qman]
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sure it hurt. you'll get over that. and just be prepared, because in life you will get over a lot worse than some chick. 
i do agree w/a couple of posters so far, in that you are coming off needy/clingie.  but since you are gonna work this thing with this chick here's my advice.  Treat her like a friend. not like someone that holds your heart.

i hate to be dark, but it sounds like she was positioning for something that didn't work out an now she is stepping back in to your familiar shoes till something sparks her interest again.

(virginity aint shit to get all teared up about.)

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: funegi]
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Damn thats an enticing theory. Idk I wish this relationship would work, but realistically I think her job and me being in college is going to fuck our love up without mercy.
I think in the long run our life goals are very different. She wants to be a Firefighter in KY for the rest of her life and I want to live off the grid in Colorado.
Guess I'm ready for the funeral.

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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Just curious OP, how long have you been in a relationship with her?

:strokebeard:


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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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Chop that ho mayne.




Break that beezy - cut'er off.




In all seriousness I'm glad I'm finally old enough and experienced enough to know what this is about.  Shit happens man.  this shit is going to happen again.  As Saul Goodman said to Walter White about this very subject - "It's a cruel World Walt.  Grow up."


There will be others.  How you choose to handle this is on you.  I can tell you right now that doctor approved medication is for the most part bullshit, but do what you want with your life. 


The Physical Fitness and Well Being section of The Shroomery is where you need to be right now.  Common recommendations at this time are to start doing some physical activities, get a kettlebell, spend more time on yourself figuring out who you are and what you need.  Stop taking so many drugs (first and foremost doctor-prescribed meds that have ANYTHING to do with psychiatry or your mental state), or find a drug that aids you particularly well.  For me this is cannabis.


I'd highly recommend against drinking alone but going out with your friends (if you have them) and drinking at parties, bars, clubs, small get-togethers, whatever you do could be quite beneficial.






Don't make this a bigger deal than it is.  Some kid lost arms and legs on the same day you lost a woman.  This woman, relative to your life, means *nothing*.  You will understand this in time.













BIG HELPER - www.okcupid.com



Trust me on this.  Make an account, find girls that you like and who you think will like you.  Focus on profiles and not pictures.  Focus on writing witty, intelligent and most importantly ORIGINAL messages to these girls.  Don't tell them you think they look good EVER, but rather compliment the CHOICES they have made in regards to clothing, music, personality, thought, etc. etc.




In other news: I'm pescetarian and had a dream I ate beef.  I tasted it so thoroughly and subtly.  Interesting how that works, eh?


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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: Everlong]
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I've been with her 3 months. Not that long I know. Guess its hard to find a girl that isn't flakey as fuck and likes to go hiking:shrug: Thats why I like her so much.
Humility me and my girl me on okcupid! HOW CRAZY IS THAT!:rofl:

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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Half the battle is done, you know the power of okcupid.



I FUCKING LOVE MY GIRL TO DEATH.


But sometimes I long for the okcupid days.  Talking to dozens of girls at a time, having multiple scheduled meetings per week, sometimes multiple scheduled meetings per day, being able to cruise around different areas (I drive a bike so I've got distance without having to worry about gas, like 120  miles easy round trip is well within my riding distance) and run into women who are interested in sex and fun.


It's really fun shit.  I've found something better for me, but it's a fun thing to do and you should be grateful.  GET BACK OUT THERE!


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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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I've been with her 3 months.


:facepalm:


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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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i like cow poo said:
She said she loved me
I gave her my virginity and my heart
She still says she loves me
But that we must forever be apart
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I can't make sense of it. She shattered my heart with the composition of one text message.
"The truth is I love you but it will never work because I am too positive and I can't be with someone waiting for something to go wrong. You taught me many wonderful things but I can't be with you anymore."
Me:
"I'm starting to take medication. It made you happy. Why can't you give me a chance to be more positive?"
K:
"I am way too busy and focused for you and I can't afford to lose focus."
Me:
"Don't tell someone you love them and then rip there fucking heart out of there chest. I'm not threatening your career at all. Well this is officially the shittiest day of my life."
K:
" I love you but I don't want to be with anyone right now."
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She gets offended because I say she is tired of life.
Last text.
Me:
"I am sorry for how I acted. Not but two weeks ago you said you wanted to spend the rest of your life with me. My heart is shattered and I cried like I have never before in my life. There will be a brighter day and I will be a happier person. If you ever wish to pursue a relationship again I will be a more positive man. Alas, our paths are not the same. Goodbye K and I love you."
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Goddamn I've cried for like an hour straight. I just want to leave all this shit behind drop out of my shitty college and run away to a commune in hawaii:sad:




you must realize that in this situation, THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE.  just live with that new found knowledge.  if she stayed and continue to be your lover she is a keeper, which is obviously another  better girls job


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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: itchmynipple]
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Yeah I'm going to be ok. It wasn't meant to be. She puts a lot of time into firefighting/emt. I don't want to be married to a woman working 2 jobs. Plus she wanted to live close to her parents the rest of her life :bored:
I love her and her personality, just not the life she wants to live. She doesn't believe in compromising either.
I hate to say it but perhaps its best this happened now before I managed to bust a condom and get her pregnant or married.
Its crazy how a few days of recovering from a loss can change your perspective.:strokebeard:
I sound like a dick but I'm just trying to put some things in perspective. She is doing a great thing...Saving peoples lives...However, I need more attention and time then she had. I love her and always will; but our dreams have lead us down different paths:hug:
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I will miss that look she gave me especially :trollhide:

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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^^^
That right there is why it sucks so bad to break up.  Missing 'looks' or situations like that.

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Re: My heart has been shattered [Re: i like cow poo]
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i like cow poo said:
She said she loved me
I gave her my virginity and my heart
She still says she loves me
But that we must forever be apart
..
I can't make sense of it. She shattered my heart with the composition of one text message.
"The truth is I love you but it will never work because I am too positive and I can't be with someone waiting for something to go wrong. You taught me many wonderful things but I can't be with you anymore."
Me:
"I'm starting to take medication. It made you happy. Why can't you give me a chance to be more positive?"
K:
"I am way too busy and focused for you and I can't afford to lose focus."
Me:
"Don't tell someone you love them and then rip there fucking heart out of there chest. I'm not threatening your career at all. Well this is officially the shittiest day of my life."
K:
" I love you but I don't want to be with anyone right now."
.....
She gets offended because I say she is tired of life.
Last text.
Me:
"I am sorry for how I acted. Not but two weeks ago you said you wanted to spend the rest of your life with me. My heart is shattered and I cried like I have never before in my life. There will be a brighter day and I will be a happier person. If you ever wish to pursue a relationship again I will be a more positive man. Alas, our paths are not the same. Goodbye K and I love you."
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Goddamn I've cried for like an hour straight. I just want to leave all this shit behind drop out of my shitty college and run away to a commune in hawaii:sad:



sounds like a fucking bitch dude, fuck her :lol: don't waste your time feeling bad or apologizing or thinking "what if"... fuck her man, move on. in the words of my grandma, "she isn't good enough for you".


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