Anonymous #2 said:

It was probably just performance anxiety. Get her to sick your duck to get things loosened up.

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Anonymous #3 said:

If you're a virgin then it's totally understandable. That happened to me as well. The first girl I had a chance with was INSANELY hot and I would pop boners basically just by glancing at her. We did a lot of non-intercourse fooling around the first few times, I'd spank her and grind against her hard as a rock and it was all going pretty fucking great. She was thinnish than my usual preference but her ass was just how I like it: huge. But when she was ready to suck my dick it got scared and went into a coma. Worst fucking moment of my life.

Our sexual relationship fizzled pretty bad right after that. If your girl's response to your not getting it up for her is to suck your dick, I'd take it as a sign that she's either a very understanding person or into you enough to forgive you.

It got better after my first erectile failure. You'll probably be fine because I'm a very high-anxiety person and anxiety is what causes this to happen. Just try not to worry about it too much because that will only increase the likelihood of it happening again.

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Or you could be a fag.

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Anonymous #5 said:

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Or you could be a fag.

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This. When I was trying to fuck this girl once I just couldn't get hard even though she tried stimulating me. Took me a few years to realize that it was because I was into guys.

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Anonymous #8 said:

Just do some meth before you fuck next time and you'll be able to go for hours.

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Don't ever do meth, that shit is bad for you.

Anonymous #1 said:

I finally got to fuck. I was getting down to it and all and I was eating out, doing the whole thing. Sad thing? No matter what I did I just couldn't get hard. I felt like complete shit, still do. We couldn't fuck because of my stupid ass dick. I'm only 18 so it can't be ED. WTF man.

Am I a virgin? lol I got my dick sucked, I sucked a pussy, I sucked on her tits, the whole thing. Meh. FML

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Yes, you are still a virgin, although it sounds as if your girl would let you try again.

I recommend trying it again asap, no, for real, you need to get back on this horse asap, call her, go see her(it is real important that you play it cool at this point).

Maybe you should explore the possibility that it could have been her fault, and being the understanding guy that you are, you're willing to let her have another shot and willing to spend as much time that it may take to figure this out and get her the dicking that she deserves, she needs it man, are you an american?

Do your duty son!

Anonymous #3 said:

It only happened to me that first time and I get laid on a regular basis now.

Social anxiety is debilitating outside a sexual context, so how do you think a virgin with social anxiety would feel getting laid for the first time? Timid, perhaps? Concerned about his performance? Afraid that his size might be mocked? Worried that he might "blow it" and never get another chance? Uncertain of what moves he should make, what pace he should go at? I could spin off a never-ending litany of reasons why a virgin would be deeply anxious and even lost in his head during his first sexual encounter but I don't have enough time for such a massive undertaking. Our society puts sex on a towering pedestal like it's the holy grail, so when you finally get to have it, the sense of vertigo can be overwhelming. It's a fact that anxiety and arousal are mutually exclusive emotions which compete with each other for brainspace, hence it is perfectly logical for even a person who wants on every level to have sex not to be able to get it up.

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Anonymous #3 said:

If you're a virgin then it's totally understandable. That happened to me as well. The first girl I had a chance with was INSANELY hot and I would pop boners basically just by glancing at her. We did a lot of non-intercourse fooling around the first few times, I'd spank her and grind against her hard as a rock and it was all going pretty fucking great. She was thinnish than my usual preference but her ass was just how I like it: huge. But when she was ready to suck my dick it got scared and went into a coma. Worst fucking moment of my life.

Our sexual relationship fizzled pretty bad right after that. If your girl's response to your not getting it up for her is to suck your dick, I'd take it as a sign that she's either a very understanding person or into you enough to forgive you.

It got better after my first erectile failure. You'll probably be fine because I'm a very high-anxiety person and anxiety is what causes this to happen. Just try not to worry about it too much because that will only increase the likelihood of it happening again.

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Anonymous #1 said:

I'm only 18 so it can't be ED. WTF man.

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