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Edited by Anonymous (10/09/11 12:30 PM)

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #10]
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Anonymous #10 said:
The shitty thing about a DNA test is you have to wait 9 months for the baby to be born and then three more months to get the results of the test back. thats a whole year of bull shit from a prego bitch.  Someone mentions that she will get in your face for wanting the test, she will do just that for 12 months straight. And by then you better pray tht its not your because if it is your life will be a living hell. Chances are she is a slut and its not yours.



they can do the test before the baby is born

at least the can here in a little po dunk town in USA

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Only one thing to do, fly out there and push her down a flight of stairs. dont bitch on some forum, be part of the solution not the problem.  :microwave: done is done

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
they can do the test before the baby is born


And test for a bunch of other stuff at the same time, win/win.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
well no one has the headline name "mamma mally" on myspace so I call BS


I'm not going to prove you wrong think what you want.

Stalker, LOL

Edited by Anonymous (12/17/09 10:41 PM)

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
Anonymous #1 said:
both about 20, I'm a moderately successful drug dealer and I am able to support myself


:facepalm:

Anonymous #1 said:
We used a condom the first time but the second time I came in her. I asked her if I should pull out and she said no.


:facepalm::facepalm:

Anonymous #1 said:
I came in my ex at least a dozen times and she never got prego


:facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:

Anonymous #1 said:
The only thing that makes me second guess all this is her mom and her said they REALLY liked me. I was talking to their mutual friend Danny and he said they were talking like "yea but how could it ever work out, he's so far away?"

Maybe this is all a ploy to get me to move out there and raise a kid that's not really mine but I just don't know.


:picard:

Well, this is one big pile of fucked up, isn't it?

Firstly, unless one member has something actively detrimentally wrong with their reproductive system, conception has little to do with fertility, son. Every time you blow your wad unshielded, you're rolling the dice. Period.

Firstly, is this chick even pregnant? How do you know? Because she just told you? This whole thing sounds pretty fucking fishy to me. I've known a girl or two in my time who've told their guys they were pregnant to reel them in nice and close, then they just "happened" to have miscarriages just about the time they'd start to show. Go figure. Some girls are so insecure they can get the CrAzY, big stylee.

Second, if she is pregnant, is it even yours? Any girl who was like "no, just cum in me" is not, imo, a model of fucking purity. Or is just a 'tard. If she's that cavalier about taking some baby gravy with you (a one nighter, you say?), then what the fuck makes you think she wasn't under a different guy the night before and the night after you? She doesn't exactly sound like the fidelitous  type...
If she is pregnant, you have every fucking right to make sure it's yours. Yeah, she may get all up in your face about not trusting her and being a bastard, but fuck it, this is your life and you have every right!

Third, what would you want to do? If this is worst case, would you be prepared to up and move 1500 miles and leave your life? Or have her come to you? Or be a distance dad? Or look after the kid yourself? Or just walk away altogether? A lot of people would say you have a responsibility-you did the fucking deed! but I won't preach to you here. It's your choice and you gotta make it.

From the sounds of all this, though, something does not ring true here. I'd listen to your suspicions if I were you, and check things out very. fucking. carefully.


with this in mind.. dont forget the std testing if u havent already done so

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
Firstly, is this chick even pregnant? How do you know? Because she just told you? This whole thing sounds pretty fucking fishy to me. I've known a girl or two in my time who've told their guys they were pregnant to reel them in nice and close, then they just "happened" to have miscarriages just about the time they'd start to show. Go figure. Some girls are so insecure they can get the CrAzY, big stylee.



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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #12]
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I recently got tested.. the results will be in soon.

anon 13: a very respectable, stand up guy, told me himself he saw the pregnancy test.

I know it all seems a little suspicious a bitch asking me to cum in her, then refusing to have an abortion. Then notifying me 2 maybe 3 weeks later she was pregnant.

I feel much better after reading this thread, thank you everybody.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Ok, well best of luck to you.

I just quoted that because it happened for someone to I knew for 3 months. He said he was thinking of crazy shit on what to do.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Dude you don't even have to listen to this bitch at all.

She CHOSE not to get an abortion, of her own free will. That choice means accepting all the consequences. There is no law saying that you have to come and father this child. If she is not going to get an abortion, she needs to be willing to accept the idea of being a single mother and supporting her child on her own.

It is NOT your fault man, especially if she told you to come inside of her. It sounds like she WANTS to have a baby. Well, ok cool then. Let her have a baby. You don't want it.

Its her problem. Not yours, at all.

You are only 20 years old????? You cant be expected to change your life around just because some dumb bitch is on a pregnancy power trip.

In a real relationship, both parents would sit down and decide if having a child is the best thing for them.

Some stupid broad can't just let herself get pregnant and then force her child on you. It was her decision to have the baby, therefore she bears all of the responsibility.

Tell her to enjoy being a single mom living out of a trailer home. Best wishes. See ya later alligator, after while crocodile. Don't forget to write.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #14]
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That is all very true and I think that frequently but in the back of my mind I don't want to be my father. Growing up without a father leaves a void in your life (for some people), some turn out gay, some develop mental disorders.

It's just a tough situation .. but I do side with you on what you said for sure, or at least I'm trying to.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #1]
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So would you be willing to change your whole life just so that a kid who isn't even born yet won't have to go without a father?

You aren't looking at all of the possible outcomes of that choice. You may decide to go help raise this child, but 3 or 4 years down the road find yourself in such terrible living circumstances that you want to abandon the family. Would it be better or worse for a child to never have a father, or to have a father walk out at the age of 4?

Or would it be better or worse to have a father that is continually depressed because a mistake he made years ago ruined his life?

I mean sure it could turn out all hunky doory and you might make a happy family and live happily ever after...but from the way you described this girl and how you feel about her, I don't see that likely as happening.

And just because you don't go out to be the childs father, doesn't mean she won't be able to find a different boyfriend who is willing (and possibly better able) to take on the task. Trust me there are plenty of single mom's out there and kids without fathers, they don't all turn out fucked up.

Its good that you care...really it is.

Before you make your choice you need to seriously sit down and consider all of the factors and weigh all of the pros and cons. Your life will take a drastically different course from anything you imagined if you choose to raise a child with a woman that you have no feelings for.

My vote is: FUCK THE BITCH. Forget it ever happened, move on. The kid will be ok.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #14]
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dude ya what you should do is get a dna test..but really dont get a abortion im sorry but putting your child up for adoption is always better than just plan out mudering your own flesh and blood its wrong abortions are just fucked up..But uh its its really your kid i dont know what you should do its all up to you buddy cause nobody but you can show you how to live

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #15]
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Its not his choice about the abortion....

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #14]
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Simple fact is if she slept with you on a one night stand and let you cum inside her ethen then she has done the same before.

Chances are she just Chose you as teh father as you were the best candidate.

Insist on a DNA test and dont pay a dime until its confirmed.

Also who earns more? If it is yours one should move and not nessisarily you.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #15]
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Anonymous #15 said:
dude ya what you should do is get a dna test..but really dont get a abortion im sorry but putting your child up for adoption is always better than just plan out mudering your own flesh and blood its wrong abortions are just fucked up..But uh its its really your kid i dont know what you should do its all up to you buddy cause nobody but you can show you how to live


Yeah, you are right.  Since this world is so under populated and since there is an over-abundance of resources and since there are so many well off and committed married couples willing to adopt babies produced from the sperm and eggs of meatheads and whores.  Yeah, I don't see any reason to have an abortion really.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #17]
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OP, there is an easy way to take care of this issue.

get yourself a coat hanger and a blow torch. perform a back alley abortion against her will, and do such a sloppy job that she'll be barren for the rest of her life.
this will ensure that she won't pull this shit with some other bloke.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #14]
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You know I also forgot to mention when she told me she was pregnant she said "I'm not saying you have to be with me, or raise the child or anything". She is willing to raise the child on her own.

It just seems unfair to me.. for her to say cum inside me than insist on having it.

and a big part of me thinks she really is pregnant because one of her friends use to live in my city, we knew her before she moved out there.. she is also a very nice and good person and is insisting it is my child and she is pregnant.

Two really good people that would have no reason to lie are saying it's mine.

I just pray to god somehow this is bs.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Two people who have no reason to lie listening to one person who has every reason to lie.

Since you said they are good people, that says to me that they would believe her lie and pass it on without thinking twice.

Listen to your gut man, this baby probably isn't yours.

She even said she didn't care if you were around to raise it? Thats pretty much admitting shes a worthless whore who doesn't even know the real dads last name. Then BAM you come along, show her a good time, prolly had some money to throw around. Connect the dots man.


So yeah, DNA before you do something dumb.

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Re: I need serious advice on something [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I impregnated a chick that lives on the other side of the country when I was on vacation and I feel absolutely horrible about it. She refuses to have an abortion and I fear I'm going to be a dead beat dad just like mine was, never there.

Do I just show up on holidays and birthdays? Forget about my child all together? Or give in to these continually growing urges to commit suicide?

I'm so depressed about all this.. I could really use some good advice.


This is pretty much how all deadbeat dads happen. Almost all of them. I guess you can try harder to talk her into an abortion, or impress on her that you won't be in the child's life if she goes through with it. Next time, just use a condom. Even though it might feel like pressuring to talk her into an abortion, it's the right decision for you and her.

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