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Suddenly mistrustful of men
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I feel like they only want one thing.  Are any men interested in emotional/mental/spiritual connection more then sexual connection?  Or are they only focused on sex first and foremost?

I'm single for the first time in forever and realized that I dont know anythin about this type of thing.  I want a sensitive sweet guy but Im not sure they're out there after browsing recent options

would I be better off becoming a lesbo?

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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If you take it up the butt you shouldn't have a problem finding a sweet guy

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #2]
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ya we want a connection with your anus.

if you're into that then finding a good man should be no problem.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I feel like they only want one thing.  Are any men interested in emotional/mental/spiritual connection more then sexual connection?  Or are they only focused on sex first and foremost?

I'm single for the first time in forever and realized that I dont know anythin about this type of thing.  I want a sensitive sweet guy but Im not sure they're out there after browsing recent options

would I be better off becoming a lesbo?


You see, women claim to want this kind of guy, but as one of these guys, I don't think it's actually true. I am completely looking for this kind of thing with a girl, but as an introvert, it is completely impossible for me to actually find a girl. All girls go straight for the extroverted douchebags.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Not at all.

All the cocky dipshits that talk to you in the bar are only after one thing - you need a nice quiet guy.

Then again if you're walking around in tight jeans showing off your cleavage what else could you possibly expect?

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Are any men interested in emotional/mental/spiritual connection more then sexual connection?


no

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #6]
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I want a sensitive sweet guy but Im not sure they're out there after browsing recent options


Sensitive sweet guys are shy, so you're going to have to go after them.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Exactly - women always go for these in your face confident assholes then wonder why the asshole shits on them.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Thanks for the responses I really appreciate the feedback, I admit I am naive and have no idea how to approach dating.

Anonymous #5 said:
Not at all.

All the cocky dipshits that talk to you in the bar are only after one thing - you need a nice quiet guy.

Then again if you're walking around in tight jeans showing off your cleavage what else could you possibly expect?


No I dress cute but not real sexy, and I prefer comfy clothes because that's what feels best, I also am a fan of going on in public with my pajamas on tho I doubt that's very attractive to the men.  I do like to dress up on occasion just for fun but I never look like a skank when I go out, just well dressed.

I don't go out to clubs or anything that frequently

Just not sure where to find these sweet sensitive dudes!  at the library?? 

Is this a situation where I have to be more aggressive and pursue the shy guy?  I never thought of it that way before, I have never before asked a guy out but maybe I will now

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #5]
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The problem is not men. The problem is your awful taste in men and your horrible sexual naivety.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Thanks for the responses I really appreciate the feedback, I admit I am naive and have no idea how to approach dating.

Anonymous #5 said:
Not at all.

All the cocky dipshits that talk to you in the bar are only after one thing - you need a nice quiet guy.

Then again if you're walking around in tight jeans showing off your cleavage what else could you possibly expect?


No I dress cute but not real sexy, and I prefer comfy clothes because that's what feels best, I also am a fan of going on in public with my pajamas on tho I doubt that's very attractive to the men.  I do like to dress up on occasion just for fun but I never look like a skank when I go out, just well dressed.

I don't go out to clubs or anything that frequently

Just not sure where to find these sweet sensitive dudes!  at the library?? 

Is this a situation where I have to be more aggressive and pursue the shy guy?  I never thought of it that way before, I have never before asked a guy out but maybe I will now


As a heavy introvert I can absolutely say the kind of guy you're after will respond very positively to you making the first move.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #8]
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what's wrong with my taste in men?

Is it unrealistic?

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Naw. It's good to have standards. Just be patient and you'll find the right guy.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I feel like they only want one thing.  Are any men interested in emotional/mental/spiritual connection more then sexual connection?  Or are they only focused on sex first and foremost?

I'm single for the first time in forever and realized that I dont know anythin about this type of thing.  I want a sensitive sweet guy but Im not sure they're out there after browsing recent options

would I be better off becoming a lesbo?


That's not true. I'm a sensitive sweet guy. I want plenty of things, but I would also like to fuck you. (slight generalization since I don't know who you are but statistically very likely) Now this is kind of a sensitive subject so people spend inordinate amounts of time and thought on it. In the end everybody is hung up about it and it has become this huge thing.

Just because a guy is interested in you sexually doesn't mean that he isn't interested in many of your other qualities. Unless sex is all you have to offer.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Is this a situation where I have to be more aggressive and pursue the shy guy?  I never thought of it that way before, I have never before asked a guy out but maybe I will now


Exactly.  Find a nice one and ask him out.  Don't wait for some douche to pursue you.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I feel like they only want one thing.  Are any men interested in eI'm single for the first time in forever and realized that I dont know anythin about this type of thing.


Since this is your first time being single "in forever", why don't you just try being alone for a bit of time... you know, learn about yourself and all of that?  Try setting some standards and learn patience.  Good things come to those who wait.

If you want a decent man to take you seriously you need to prove that you can refrain from penis for a few weeks.

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #11]
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Anonymous #11 said:
Anonymous #1 said:
I feel like they only want one thing.  Are any men interested in eI'm single for the first time in forever and realized that I dont know anythin about this type of thing.


Since this is your first time being single "in forever", why don't you just try being alone for a bit of time... you know, learn about yourself and all of that?  Try setting some standards and learn patience.  Good things come to those who wait.

If you want a decent man to take you seriously you need to prove that you can refrain from penis for a few weeks.



I know you're right and that's what I intend on doing, just focusing on my own self for a while

the main reason why I made this thread is because I had a vivid dream last night about a nice guy who I was totally into in the dream and it just got me thinking about relationships again and if this type of guy actually exists

thanks again for the responses, this is the only place I can go to ask a large demographic of males these questions

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #1]
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:girl:

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #12]
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:lolocaust:

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Re: Suddenly mistrustful of men [Re: Anonymous #13]
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Anonymous #13 said:
:lolocaust:


That is one fucked up smiley

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