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Girlfriends grandma is dying
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My girlfriend and her grandma are extremely close, she just found out doctors gave her grandma 2 days-2 weeks to live,I have never been in a situation like this and wat to do something to help her but feel completely helpless

my girlfried is also very emotional im worried this will all affect her very badly

i dont know what to do here shroomery!

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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When my Grandpa died my girlfriend bitched me out for not talking to her enough.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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People die, just don't overthink it.

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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Embrace the feeling of helplessness.

Be patient with her in the coming weeks.

It sounds like you really love this girl.

You'll be fine.

Shit sucks man.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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that sucks dude, just have to be there for her. i know what your goin threw though. my girl was devastated for years after her grandma died. after 4 years she still cries when she hears a song that reminds her of her or around holidays.its gonna be a real shitty couple of months for you and the little lady. right around the holidays to, man that really sucks. hope the best for you and her

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Swyfty Swyf]
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and as well as this good advice... do your best to move with her, try to be close, to physically comfort her, if she moves a way give her the space... but you have to WANT to give her the space, because everybody can feel anything on some level, MOVE with her

you can feel a breeze when your palm is held open, you can feel its coolness its benefits, but if our trying to clench your fist and grasp the breeze it disapeers

just move with her, shes gonna be going from "place to place" stay wit hher, be her companion. be aware and witness it all

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: psilocybesam]
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Thanks to everyone for their support:mushroom2:

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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Two weeks from today is Christmas Eve.

:facepalm:

I have (had?) a few family members that died around the holidays. Be there for them, she's going to need it to the nth degree. Whatever she needs, just do it, and god bless you for being there.

On Christmas Day a few years ago my great aunt said her head hurt and died instantly from an aneurysm. :sad: Her presents just sat there for weeks.. weird..



2 days to 2 weeks? Can she still do anything, or is she bedridden? Bucket list...?




:mushroom2::heart::mushroom2:

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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Just be there for your girlfriend.  Remember that when people are grief stricken, they tend to lash out towards others.  If your girl does happen to lose her temper with you at any time, just remember that she is going through some very rough times right now.

Maybe suggest to your girlfriend to make a gift or something nice for her grandma like a collage of pictures.  Have them reminisce and talk about their favorite times together.  Also you can suggest to you girlfriend to maybe have pictures of her and her grandma taken together before she passes, that way she'll have pictures.

Or even celebrate Christmas early, that way they can have one last holiday together.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Adden]
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Dystopia said:
Two weeks from today is Christmas Eve.

:facepalm:

I have (had?) a few family members that died around the holidays. Be there for them, she's going to need it to the nth degree. Whatever she needs, just do it, and god bless you for being there.

On Christmas Day a few years ago my great aunt said her head hurt and died instantly from an aneurysm. :sad: Her presents just sat there for weeks.. weird..



2 days to 2 weeks? Can she still do anything, or is she bedridden? Bucket list...?




:mushroom2::heart::mushroom2:



She was fine up  until last week, spent a week in the hospital and she seems fine now,aside from the spreading liver cancer.

if they didnt tell you she had two weeks to live you wouldnt know

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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My ex gf's grandma died on wednesday.. and we're pretty much best friends so thats weird coincidence. I also had to go to my aunties funeral on Wednesday so its pretty depressing : /


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: samba_lightning]
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Hang in there... :hug:

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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Adden]
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:cheers: Well that was probaly to the RP but i'll take it, i tend to be a bit sad but celebrate their life and the happiness they brought, rather than dwell in the unhappiness that they're gone. RP tell your GF that when she passes.

edit* RP goddamnit


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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just be kind and accepting, and help her out, and don't try to tell her you know how she feels...because you don't.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: starfire_xes]
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my last relationship ended becase of this...

i tried to be tehre for here as much as i could, but she wanted space..and I just didnt give it to her and than we broke up :frown:

I was only trying to comfort her


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Fort Mushroom]
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I've been in similar situations. My grandfather died the first year I wasn't home for the holidays my Freshman year in college. I was devastated. My grades were fucked, too.


Best Advice:
Be there for her. Listen to her. And be ready to understand that sometimes death cannot be rationalized to one who isn't ready to rationalize it. Time will only cure the pain. Just be her shoulder to cry on.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: meatcakeman]
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but most importantly...give her space...sometimes they just dont want everyone to be smothering her


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: nowwhoutthink]
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Oh yeah the worst thing about my ex-gf grandma dying is shes chinese...so apparently she isn't allowed in anyone elses house for 100 days because that will give them bad luck... thats like A 1/3 OF A YEAR! i doubt she will follow it though...shes a banana....yellow on the outside, white on the inside haha.


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: samba_lightning]
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I just found out one of my good friends ive known all my life, her mom has lung cancer and its spread throughout her whole body. She most likely isnt going to make it or will have to get a lung removed.

They havent told her yet and i feel soo bad that shes going to learn about this coming home from university for the holidays :sad:


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Re: Girlfriends grandma is dying [Re: Tedwilto]
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when my granma died in april my mom was a wreck for a while i gave her her space but was also there for support you just gotta give her  her space and time and be there for support she will soon get better after everything is done within about a month or so try to do fun things in the mean time or just relax with her in her house or at the hospital with her grandma or were ever her grandma is just listen to her and help her out


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