It has just been revealed that my brother-in-law has been having an affair on my sister for the past couple of months. They have been married for 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter together. They are getting a divorce and it looks like he is going to stick with this chick he was having an affair with
The thing is that yes, I am mad at the guy, more for hurting my niece than my sister, but I can't hate the guy like the rest of my family does.
He has been a great husband and father for eight years, and it is hard to judge him for a slip up after all that time. Plus, from a man on man point of view, I think he is fukt up in the head from the type of sex he hasnt experienced in years. I know my sister and my brother-in-law and I know without even hearing it said, he is unhappy with their sex life. I am sure my sister in not a freak in bed, and I know that is what he wants.
I am conflicted, I want to punch him in the face, I want to understand him in the way that love can fade, priorities can change, what we think we want one year (or day) can change.
What would you do?
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