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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: testtesttest] * 4
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My girl and i enjoy a similarly adventurous sexual interest.
Some people get it, some people mis-interpret aspects of it and some people just can't wrap their heads around it at all.
Keep doing your thing.  Don't waste your breath explaining the subjective nature of love and sex to those who refuse to acknowledge that sex is not merely defined by antiquated caricatures or biblical guidelines.
Cheers


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: locospacebean]
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I think its great that you are so open to this type of thing. You obviously love her. If it were me, i would likely have some jealousy issues... just because i tend to get a tad possessive w any girl im involved w... and ive been cheated on in the past. But being there during the only time it's happening would likely diffuse a great deal of that. Personally i would enjoy having the table turned at least once in a while, where theres another female in the mix, but thats just me. Again i think its great. Screw that other guy (who was giving youma hard time), do what works best for the both of you. On a Side note, she is very attractive and big lips are quite the treat. Youre a lucky man:super:


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Lipa Kreepa]
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I have this same issue, except its the other way around. She's into girls instead of other guys. I couldn't do it the other way around.


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: PsYcHoDoUgHbOy]
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It's really nice to see the openminded crowd chipping in!!


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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I’ve got a little bit of input on this
I first met my wife through a friend and found out that they supposedly had an open relationship,  although I had just met the couple and had partied with them a few times I could tell the girl was interested in me so I asked through my friend to take the woman out and I asked her husband
The night of our first date I pick her up at her house her husband let me in and said bye to us as we left we had a great time at the bar and afterwords I got some greatp head from her and then the week after that we went down to Vegas together

This turned out to be too much of a strain on the guy and he ended up beating her up putting her in the hospital and him getting sentenced to 15 years in prison because of it
Anyways he has still been trying to have discussions with her for the last eight years he can’t give anything up or except what has happened

Anyways I have never been married myself so it was just like dating on a new relationship not that I felt like I was cheating or anything like that

My wife and I are married now and we have been for six years and a sharing relationship has never been anything either of us would like although exhibition Has been a huge fetish in our relationship I love to have head in public places especially parking lots with the windows down...It really turns both of us on but it’s not like we try to get caught I don’t think either of us would like it if we did it’s just the thrill of the possibility

The point I’m trying to make is I think my exhibitionist is so close to you wanting to share your wife But knowing what the full commitment would bring him to our relationship is not worth it kind of like the difference between asalt and battery versus murder

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Uhm, maybe I'm just a little too high at the moment but i totally missed the point there...
I don't mean to be rude and I'm sorry if I'm misinterpreting but are you suggesting that her ex-husbands abusive behaviour was caused by their decision to have an open relationship?
Surely you're not trying to correlate assault and battery with a progressive sense of sexuality??


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: locospacebean]
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locospacebean said:
Uhm, maybe I'm just a little too high at the moment but i totally missed the point there...
I don't mean to be rude and I'm sorry if I'm misinterpreting but are you suggesting that her ex-husbands abusive behaviour was caused by their decision to have an open relationship?
Surely you're not trying to correlate assault and battery with a progressive sense of sexuality??


That’s exactly what I’m getting at as well as the point of being an exhibitionist while still having the cut off point of not having others in the relationship

They were never married but he was still too insecure with things while he would go out and have relationships with other men he couldn’t handle his wife doing the same thing


I do know several people that are pansexual and they always seem to have some little kink set up that way I’m sure there are people that can function in a shared relationship .... but I think they’re just  either Num or more evolved than the rest of us

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #3] * 2
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Well, i can tell you, as someone who's been in a long-term relationship that has involved various aspects of open sexuality and who has had the pleasure to meet other couples involved in the "scene", that i have never met 2 couples that had the same types of relationships.
Relationships are as unique as the individuals that create them.
Every couple we've ever met, be they swingers, or first-timers, all had different limits, different definitions, different levels of interest and different dynamics.

Some people are assholes, some people are abusive, some people are angry, insecure, jealous, vindictive, defensive... And that will contribute to the kinds of relationships they create.

In my opinion, a healthy relationship, with healthy minded people is more akin to an expedition than to a religion.
It's something you explore together, you expand your life experience together, you make mistakes together, you learn together. How many people would be ashamed to tell their spouse their fantasies? How many people feel like their spouse would even want to hear it?
The idea that a relationship needs to be bound by an unbending doctrine, defineable by such vague terms as "pansexual", "polyamorous", "swinger", etc is like saying the world is made up of only 3 colours, red, green and blue.  It may be accurate to a certain degree, but only explains a very small slice of the whole experience.

It's not unusual to want to simplify a complex phenomena down to an easily digestable definition but you're either right, and a sociology genius, or you're just trying to figure it all out like rest of us.

If i were to make a generalization based on my experience to date, i would say that some of the strongest and most loving relationships I've witnessed have been amongst people who don't quite fit within the boundaries of what most people might call a "traditional" relationship.

Just providing an alternate viewpoint here.

At the end of the day, it's all about cultivating a good life for you and your partner and the people you love, regardless of social expectation.


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: locospacebean]
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locospacebean said:
are you suggesting that her ex-husbands abusive behaviour was caused by their decision to have an open relationship?
Surely you're not trying to correlate assault and battery with a progressive sense of sexuality??


He's not saying there's a general correlation, just that they were linked in that particular guy's head. He was probably in some kind of relationship he couldn't deal with, or was initially happy with the idea of an open relationship before realising his wife could get it whenever and he couldn't. Or this type of relationship is not suitable for people who are jealous and violent because they will cause, yes cause, those violent and jealous tendencies to be manifested. 

locospacebean said:
Relationships are as unique as the individuals that create them.


This is correct, and it applies on the negative side as well as the positive side.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: testtesttest] * 1
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testtesttest said:
Or this type of relationship is not suitable for people who are jealous and violent because they will cause, yes cause, those violent and jealous tendencies to be manifested.



It's absolutely not something i would recommend to anyone, not because it may cause you to become an abusive maniac, but only because my personal belief is, and by no means is this true for all, that you need to be in a stable and honest relationship and you need to know how to explore and express your feelings.

That way you're able to navigate, able to not get left behind by those angry or jealous feelings that might be brewing.

I equate it in many ways to eating psilocybe mushrooms... The act of eating the mushrooms (or having sex with someone else) is actually not nearly as important as the repercussions of the experience... What it brings to your life, to your relationship. You've gotta regularly evaluate to see if it's something that was positive and should continue.

If someone asked me if they should try "swinging" or having a poly relationship, I'd say: probably not.


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locospacebean said:

Relationships are as unique as the individuals that create them.


This is correct, and it applies on the negative side as well as the positive side.


So i guess you just have to ask yourself at some point: am i creating my relationship, or is it creating me?

Some straight up Tony Robbins shit right there, huh?!  "Do you create your reality, or does it create you?"  LOL :grin:


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: locospacebean]
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Me and my wife are too Jelious to consider this a turn on. The whole dudes banging your wife while you watch thing. I'd love to see her mess around with another woman. She was appearantly gay with her roommate in college before we met. But she won't ever really tell me in detail. It was actually her roommate that was making obvious hints towards me about her sexuality. She played it off but a year or so later admitted she had "done stuff" with her. But she's never said what she did or how far she went. I mean did the make out!!! Or finger fuck each other !!!! I want to know, Now her ex roommate is 100% gay and married to a woman.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #4]
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most women have done things before you walked into the picture that they'll never talk about it.

also Ive never met a women that was'nt bisexual, Im also confident to say all women are bisexual or at least a couple of drinks away from being one.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #5] * 1
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If a chimp can be socialized to be sexually attracted to humans, I don't think it's that much of a stretch to assume humans could be socialized to be attracted to the same gender. I mean there are historical societies (e.g. the Macedonians) where bisexuality was the norm, so it seems to me that our sexuality is a lot more fluid than most people like to believe.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: turbulentflow]
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Cultural norms and behavioral conditioning are two very different things unless you think the first comes from the second...

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Revok]
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( A reply to anyone )

To each their own
Long as both parties are into it and truly like ( they aren’t just doing it for the other )
Than ya 🤷🏻‍♂️ Anything goes , life not long guys
Have fun

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Why am I anonymous ..?
Well it’s me Tripsten lol

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Anonymous #6]
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To each there own my buddy an his ex girlfriend used to do this. Well this one dude she met she enjoyed  a little to much an ended up preferring him sexually over my friend.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Mach z 800] * 1
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Sounds hot. Hope you guys find a good fuck buddy. I've thought about it plenty but never made it happen. The wife and I are pretty wild so I'm sure one day the right person will be there. I got to admit I hope it's a girl. But watching a guy with a big dick help me turn my wife into a puddle could be cool too.

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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: Superfungi]
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Superfungi said:
But it's been a long time. Here are some pictures of her.https://i.ibb.co/XFQ8Gq1/IMG-20190914-222453830-HDR.jpg https://ibb.co/R04GwYg



How long have you and your wife been married? were you into this from the beginning or was "sharing" something that you decided to try later on? do you two have any rules while doing this?


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Re: I like to share my wife [Re: 1uptoadstool]
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Cuck threads like this kind of piss me off. Only because it makes me think about someone else being with my girl which pissed me off and makes me feel an intense burning or jealousy. I suppose my love is possessive. To each their own.


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