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Girlfriend can't Orgasm *DELETED*
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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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Can she give herself an orgasm?

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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Energy blockage. Possibly emotional trauma. Was she sexually abused? Is she self-conscious about sex and her body. Etc...


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: Black_Sunset]
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Some girls just don't cum. I dated a girl that never came before.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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Maybe she's not into you :shrug:


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: Sham87]
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Believe me, every healthy girl is equipped with the right nerve endings and body chemistry in order to have an orgasm. It's just not every girl has been taught what they like and respond to.

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: OsculateOfDemise]
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:whathesaid:
Shes had to have had one before?
Maybe she holding back on you OP.
Girls u really gotta get them into "the moment" guys are ready to go no matter what.
But with females it seems you really gotta work them up and get them "in the mood".
Are you somehow making things akward OP?
Akwardness can quickly kill the moment.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: Black_Sunset]
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Black_Sunset said:
Energy blockage. Possibly emotional trauma. Was she sexually abused? Is she self-conscious about sex and her body. Etc...


My thoughts exactly..

We are madly in love. She is definitely in to me. We have dated 7 months today.

She used to cut.. If that has anything to do with it.. She is self conscious about her body and looks obviously and has been deeply depressed before we started dating. But ever since we have dated her depression has diminished very much. She has a thyroid disorder too if that has anything to do with it.

She gets extremely loud and moans insanely loud, like she is definitely at the point of cumming.. Explains it to me as the urge to pee.

But she tells me it tickles too much and she gives up.
She doesn't like masturbating although has before. She has never had an orgasm but has cummed before. Not ejaculating though but her pussy gives out a thick milky white substance which isn't the same as normal pussy juice.

My question is if she is why she gets to the point of orgasm then it just stops.

To me it is definitely an energy blockage! I feel the energy being blocked, Idk its hard to explain.

Please help. How to unblock this energy?


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: Mental Taco]
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Mental Taco said:
:whathesaid:
Shes had to have had one before?
Maybe she holding back on you OP.
Girls u really gotta get them into "the moment" guys are ready to go no matter what.
But with females it seems you really gotta work them up and get them "in the mood".
Are you somehow making things akward OP?
Akwardness can quickly kill the moment.


No none of that. She is definitely in the moment with me. But I feel like maybe depression or self consciousness gets in the way. She enjoys BDSM which I have tried as well. Gets her extremely wet (dripping/puddles) but no orgasm. She has never had an orgasm.

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore] * 1
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I'd honestly try a little cannabis beforehand.  Try and focus on the act rather than the orgasm,  it'll take a lot more pressure off you and her.  I mean let's face it I'm sure she can sense your insecurity and vice versa.  Take a page out of the tantrics' book and just focus on the act. 

If that doesn't help I'd honestly try LSD and a few hours of slow lovin.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: TheGreenArrow]
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I know a super slutty girl that has never had an orgasm.  She's freaky as fuck, but its just for attention.  Not sure why she can't, but i know she's fucked in just about every way possible (lesbian shit, group shit, toys, marathon fuck sessions, etc)  oh, but she doesn't masturbate. never has. claims its "weird"

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: ballsalsa]
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ballsalsa said:
I know a super slutty girl that has never had an orgasm.  She's freaky as fuck, but its just for attention.  Not sure why she can't, but i know she's fucked in just about every way possible (lesbian shit, group shit, toys, marathon fuck sessions, etc)  oh, but she doesn't masturbate. never has. claims its "weird"


See that just makes no sense to me. How can masturbating in order to feel good be weirder then fucking random guys for attention. Ugh

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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DubSpore said:
Black_Sunset said:
Energy blockage. Possibly emotional trauma. Was she sexually abused? Is she self-conscious about sex and her body. Etc...


My thoughts exactly..

We are madly in love. She is definitely in to me. We have dated 7 months today.

She used to cut.. If that has anything to do with it.. She is self conscious about her body and looks obviously and has been deeply depressed before we started dating. But ever since we have dated her depression has diminished very much. She has a thyroid disorder too if that has anything to do with it.

She gets extremely loud and moans insanely loud, like she is definitely at the point of cumming.. Explains it to me as the urge to pee.

But she tells me it tickles too much and she gives up.
She doesn't like masturbating although has before. She has never had an orgasm but has cummed before. Not ejaculating though but her pussy gives out a thick milky white substance which isn't the same as normal pussy juice.

My question is if she is why she gets to the point of orgasm then it just stops.

To me it is definitely an energy blockage! I feel the energy being blocked, Idk its hard to explain.

Please help. How to unblock this energy?


Ha reminds me of my ex with the 'pee' thing. Tell her to just try it, try peeing on you when she gets to that point. To reassure her have a towel underneath yall and some baby wipes at hand so she can clean up.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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DubSpore said:
Black_Sunset said:
Energy blockage. Possibly emotional trauma. Was she sexually abused? Is she self-conscious about sex and her body. Etc...


My thoughts exactly..

We are madly in love. She is definitely in to me. We have dated 7 months today.

She used to cut.. If that has anything to do with it.. She is self conscious about her body and looks obviously and has been deeply depressed before we started dating. But ever since we have dated her depression has diminished very much. She has a thyroid disorder too if that has anything to do with it.

She gets extremely loud and moans insanely loud, like she is definitely at the point of cumming.. Explains it to me as the urge to pee.

But she tells me it tickles too much and she gives up.
She doesn't like masturbating although has before. She has never had an orgasm but has cummed before. Not ejaculating though but her pussy gives out a thick milky white substance which isn't the same as normal pussy juice.

My question is if she is why she gets to the point of orgasm then it just stops.

To me it is definitely an energy blockage! I feel the energy being blocked, Idk its hard to explain.

Please help. How to unblock this energy?


find a different forum besides the shroomery. Something related to sex therapy and stuff. Find a sex therapist. I think at the same time though you don't want to pressure her too much about it unless she is looking to change.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: Black_Sunset]
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Anal!


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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Does she take antidepressants? They can completely destroy the ability to reach orgasm in both men and women. If this is the case there are some medications that can be taken in conjunction with antidepressants to lessen the sexual side effects. Also, with a history of cutting it might suggest that there are deep set emotional trauma that she is not able to get beyond. If this is the case, she likely can physically achieve orgasm but there is a mental block preventing her from doing so.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: pslyke]
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You said she used to cut. Is she on psych meds? SSRIs like Zoloft inhibit orgasm. Other meds can inhibit orgams as well. What about other substances? Alcohol? Weed, Shrooms? Abstain from all of the above. Can she get off by herself? Try mutual masturbation?

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: CeanGale]
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She doesn't masturbate. And no she is no longer taking anti-depressants. I believe it is a mental block... I was thinking about sex while tripping. And i am going to try mutual masturbation. She doesn't get high on weed either. It's the weirdest thing.

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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: DubSpore]
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I have trouble orgasming. I take gabapentin though. It's almost like a sex pill.


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Re: Help. Girlfriend CANNOT Orgasm [Re: JustForToday]
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Last girl I was with couldn't orgasm either. She actually hated it when men tried to get her there because it felt like they were trying "to fix her." Osculate you are wrong on this one, there are absolutely women who cannot orgasm. Its a medical condition called anorgasmia and whether or not its a physical inability or a mental one, its likely she won't get there naturally. Google that word and do some research. From what Ive read its probably fixable but she had better trust you a lot and be comfortable enough to be honest and open about it all. I'm not sure 7 months is long enough for that level of trust but if you care for her its worth a try


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