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Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her......
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I haven't punched anyone in a very long time.....and my brother is so close to getting decked....and then of course he would twist me into a pretzel.....so I was kinda thinking about dosing his beer one night ( he's never tripped )....


About 3 months ago he got his girlfriend pregnant....then after 2 months started fucking someone else....but not discreetly.....like " Fuck you bitch look what I got" all over facebook....making comments about how he hopes she falls down stairs, and "is it too late for an abortion?" kinda shit.......


My little sister has actually been taking her to her ultrasounds as of recent....


I feel like as an older brother it's my duty to deck him?  I know that's cliche stupid macho shit....but what the hell do you do?  I mean I don't want to see my brother be some miserable drunk that can't handle taking care of his children....I'm not exactly stable, but I've never got a girl pregnant......and if I did....pussy would be the last thing on my mind.....


I guess it's pent up rage from my dad ditching?  Pent up rage for alcoholics?


I guess violence is never the answer to anything....so puddle his ass?......


Or just let him live his life and know my brother is a shit head, and my neice/nephew is fucked?



Bah. 

I think I'm mainly venting.....I'll probably just keep watching and judging.  What would you do?

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago]
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Sorry man, thats shitty. :frown:


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago] * 1
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If you gotta check him for his own good then check him :shrug:


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Sham87]
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I'm with you on the random dosing man.  He needs a good reflection in the mirror, make sure to give him wayyyyy too much


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: The Doobie Dude] * 1
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vandago said:
About 3 months ago he got his girlfriend pregnant....then after 2 months started fucking someone else....but not discreetly.....like " Fuck you bitch look what I got" all over facebook....making comments about how he hopes she falls down stairs, and "is it too late for an abortion?" kinda shit.......



Maybe it was one of those accidental pregnancy type things. I'm of the unpopular opinion that it should require the consent of two adults for a new child to be brought into the world otherwise abortion becomes mandatory, but that's not the topic of this thread.

The point is, he might not have intended to get her preggers and now he's faced with the possibility of having to pay child support to a woman he doesn't even like, for some bastard child that he never wanted, that was brought into the world against his will. I can sympathize with that.

vandago said:
I feel like as an older brother it's my duty to deck him?


I dunno man. You might knock some sense into him but you may end up making things worse. I wouldn't recommend violence. Maybe have a talk with him about it and let him know why his personal affairs make you so uncomfortable. Maybe you'll both learn something.

The Doobie Dude said:
I'm with you on the random dosing man.  He needs a good reflection in the mirror, make sure to give him wayyyyy too much


Giving people drugs without their knowledge is pretty fucked up. I don't suggest it.


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Dawks] * 1
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I personally think getting somewhat pregnant and not stepping up to your fatherly duties is even more fucked up


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: The Doobie Dude] * 1
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I will never understand the fanatical religious nonsense that leads people to think- 'Unplanned pregnancy out of wedlock that they can't afford and don't want, great idea!' I think getting someone pregnant and not being entirely clear and honest about how you feel about the situation is cowardly.

I don't know about mandatory abortion, but I agree with the sentiment Dawks.
Sounds like he doesn't want a kid, and is getting forced into it. I can totally understand how that would send him running into the arms of another woman.

It sounds like he's scared shitless, in a situation that he doesn't want to be in, and could use the loving support of his family. If he doesn't want to be with his ex, no one can make him. But if she is in fact having his baby, he could probably use some help figuring out how to deal with that.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Lynnch] * 2
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Brothers are aloud to punch each other in the face when they're being retarded. But chemical warfare is just uncool.

You need to talk to him like a man.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: larry.fisherman]
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I find myself kind of agreeing with Dawks, aside from the mandatory abortions.

Having a kid you don't want with someone you don't want to be with would be absolutely awful. Just talk to him and definitely don't dose him that's fucked up. I wouldn't suggest violence either.


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Dawks] * 1
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Dawks said:
Maybe it was one of those accidental pregnancy type things. I'm of the unpopular opinion that it should require the consent of two adults for a new child to be brought into the world otherwise abortion becomes mandatory, but that's not the topic of this thread.


The government mandating forced abortions with consent forms sounds like a terrible idea. With that said, while I personally would have gotten an abortion if I was in her shoes, I can also understand that some women feel an instantaneous bond and are unable to abort their fetus, especially if they had an emotional connection to the father at one point. Doing this against their instinct would essentially traumatize them.

I don't think you truly know the emotional turmoil women go through when they have an abortion. I've seen even women who even WANTED an abortion, and got one, then cried hysterically about their choice for months later on. They know it's for the best and are doing it for rational reasons, but it really fucks you up mentally, because as a mother your first instinct is to protect her.

I know many women who are also pro-choice, but they say, "They simply couldn't and didn't have the heart to do it themselves."



With that said, this guy's behavior is over the top though. He's deliberately trying to hurt her, which is terrible emotions to have during a pregnancy. He's DELIBERATELY trying to show off how much of a jackass and asshole he can be.

Don't dose him blindly. Convince him to take it for fun together, convince him it'll be fun. You will pretend to take some too but yours will be placebo so you can stay sober and talk it out with him. Give him a good 2-3 tabs for a real trip, depending on how weak the acid is there.

He, being the stupid idiot he is, will probably fall for this trick, and when his subconscious starts dreaming he will start guilt-tripping hardcore.

Otherwise just talk it out with him. Find out why he's acting that way, is he afraid of becoming a father or what. 




Typically this is not the norm for single motherhood cases. I will admit my guilty pleasure is watching the 16 and Pregnant series, and reading the single mother forums online (among numerous other forums). In very very few cases does the guy actually say he doesn't want the baby and wants an abortion first-hand. Your brother is kind of a unique case, actually.

Usually what happens is, when a guy founds out his girl is pregnant, he acts super happy and says he will be there for her. In many cases he even manages to convince the mother to adopt his last name to the baby. Then, once the baby is born, the guy typically loses interest after the first day, or after they find out how hard and inconvenient it is to raise an infant with their lifestyle, or loses interest because his girlfriend has gotten fat and has stretch marks.

Even fathers who are "interested" in their baby only come around every few weeks and don't help out (physically or financially), they simply come to play with them every now and then. Then the mothers are often left alone with this burden to sacrifice themselves for, and are left with nothing but empty promises from the father.  I find that this accounts for a majority of cases among single mothers, this is pretty much your typical single motherhood sob story.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Crystal G]
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dr. phil is the only person that can put an end to things like this


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago] * 2
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vandago said:
About 3 months ago he got his girlfriend pregnant....then after 2 months started fucking someone else....but not discreetly.....like " Fuck you bitch look what I got" all over facebook....making comments about how he hopes she falls down stairs, and "is it too late for an abortion?" kinda shit.......



Your brother sounds like a terrible human being.


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Sheekle]
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shitty sitch, vandango.  i dont know what i'd do.  much love man :heart:









vent all you need.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: memes]
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Don't dose him... psychedelics are a choice...
but you could ask him sooooo nicely to go on a trip with you! y'know, just a merry stroll along a certain trail.

perhaps a psychedelic voyage would help to open up his barred and locked heart

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: Chakra Shock]
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I've asked him to trip countless times......


Him in everyone else in my family are psycho.....they make me look absolutely normal....he's a gun toting maniac 6'7 and wears nothing but camo and huge belt buckles....works on the pipe line.....wrecks his trucks on purpose but doesn't know how to take care of a horse or a farm.....just an all around white trash kinda guy....


Him and I have an awful relationship that turned into him demanding 10 gran from me because he thought he deserved it....so I gave him 11.....and now he doesn't talk to me except when he is shit faced drunk at 3 am.


I decided against punching him or dosing him....tried to talk to him....and he instantly hung up on me......he told me if I ever call him, text him, or approach him he will call the cops on me and file a restraining order and harassment charges.......


So pretty much I lost a brother on fathers day.  Fuck life.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago]
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Don't fret over it man, you don't need such a shit person in your life. Some people just don't change. There is nothing you can do but except it and move on. He obviously doesn't care about his actions, so why let it effect you? Sometimes the harder decision is the better one. :shrug:


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: sjfrockerdude]
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I say castration is the best course of action.
You kicking his ass should be the least of his concerns.


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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: SARAtonin]
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He just makes me sick.  His go to for EVERYTHING is the police.  His dad ( my ex step father ) is an ex cop, and his older brother ( my ex step brother ) is a cop who raped me when I was younger.


I am only his half brother....same mom different dad....my moms a left wing liberal anti gun nut....and he's a conservative gun toting redneck from hell.....I couldn't kick his ass if I want too anyways....he's got me by 60 pounds, an extra inch, a pistol, and way more endurance.


It seems I'm losing my entire family.....every root this tree has is being removed....I can't even figure out how to stand anymore.....


I am pretty sure I'm sterile from complications with my testicles at birth....some hooker tried to lie and say I got her pregnant....and even thinking she was lying I still manned up and got a job and started giving her cash....little did I know that's a common hustle among prostitutes......losing the hard way sucks.


I take a lot of pride into a child being born....especially close to me....I'm very pro choice anymore, and I believe in a responsible birth if one is going to reproduce.....He was with her for 6 months before the pregnancy...this wasn't a broken condom on a one night stand....


And fuck if you are not planning on being with her fine......but being a dead beat about it....making my sister go to planned parenthood with her....I mean my mom is helping her still because it's my moms grandchild....I don't see how my brother thinks he can motherfuck me, bang a whore in spite, and tell her to fuck off, while his family that's already struggling does the work. Murica'


blablabla......sorry for being negative....I just don't even....

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago]
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To be honest, you seem pretty weird yourself. So you gave him 11,000 dollars because he wanted 10 grands from you out of the blue?
And that hooker story, what the fuck.
Can you give me like 5,000? I think I deserve it
You may keep 200 of it to get your nuts checked for functionality.

Also I'm sorry for your fucked up family, I'm afraid you can't do that much about it.

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Re: Getting a woman pregnant and then leaving her...... [Re: vandago]
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vandago said:
He just makes me sick.  His go to for EVERYTHING is the police.  His dad ( my ex step father ) is an ex cop, and his older brother ( my ex step brother ) is a cop who raped me when I was younger.


I am only his half brother....same mom different dad....my moms a left wing liberal anti gun nut....and he's a conservative gun toting redneck from hell.....I couldn't kick his ass if I want too anyways....he's got me by 60 pounds, an extra inch, a pistol, and way more endurance.


It seems I'm losing my entire family.....every root this tree has is being removed....I can't even figure out how to stand anymore.....


I am pretty sure I'm sterile from complications with my testicles at birth....some hooker tried to lie and say I got her pregnant....and even thinking she was lying I still manned up and got a job and started giving her cash....little did I know that's a common hustle among prostitutes......losing the hard way sucks.


I take a lot of pride into a child being born....especially close to me....I'm very pro choice anymore, and I believe in a responsible birth if one is going to reproduce.....He was with her for 6 months before the pregnancy...this wasn't a broken condom on a one night stand....


And fuck if you are not planning on being with her fine......but being a dead beat about it....making my sister go to planned parenthood with her....I mean my mom is helping her still because it's my moms grandchild....I don't see how my brother thinks he can motherfuck me, bang a whore in spite, and tell her to fuck off, while his family that's already struggling does the work. Murica'


blablabla......sorry for being negative....I just don't even....


Don't apologize for having emotions, this is healthy for you.


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