I urge you to talk more to your girl about it, and try really hard not to make any unthinking moves. If you take this bloke on badly prepared, if he's got pals and is known for settling matters with his hands, he'll likely have the upper hand. You have to be smarter than that. Most of all, what does the girl want, and what are her reasons? Given time, she'll begin to see she can completely trust you (she could well be scared of revenge, or making the situation worse), and you can face this man as a united team. Hope your situation improves.
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