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Anonymous #1
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Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable?
#13968893 - 02/15/11 05:05 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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I am a very sexual person to the point where I think it is interfering with my relationships. Even if I have little to no attraction to someone, sex is the first thing on my mind. Is there something that can be done to change this?
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I_was_the_walrus
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#13969078 - 02/15/11 05:42 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Chop your balls off
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Hakim0777
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Get laid more. Theres probably not anything you can do to fix this. Find a hobby and stay occupied. I have the same problem, I consider it a huge problem because I do it with people im not sexually attracted too. It makes shit like hugging and things awkward because I automatically start thinking sex.
Would you say you started feeling this before or after you hit puberty?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Hakim0777]
#14016830 - 02/23/11 10:09 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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After I guess... Come to think of it I had some odd experiences as a child and started exploring sexuality with others before I knew what it was or if I even liked it.
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koraks
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14018329 - 02/24/11 05:13 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Some people just have sex on their mind most of the time. There's nothing wrong with that. However, it does usually mean that relationships with people who are more 'normal' (hah, for lack of a better word...) tend to be problematic, so it's worthwhile looking for someone who shares your preoccupation. Or settle for an open relationship or frequent changes of partners. Anything goes, really.
The only thing that _doesn't_ work (and that's a guarantee) is believing you're abnormal or that there's something wrong with you. Enjoy your lust.
Btw, depending on your age, your sex drive is likely to wane a bit, but don't expect a huge change of character.
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Hakim0777
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14019050 - 02/24/11 09:54 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: After I guess... Come to think of it I had some odd experiences as a child and started exploring sexuality with others before I knew what it was or if I even liked it.
. yea your just hypersexualized. introduced young, you dont ever really get over with it you just deal with it
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koraks
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Hakim0777]
#14019059 - 02/24/11 09:58 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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introduced young, you dont ever really get over with it you just deal with it
I'm struggling with the direction of causality here. Does one become 'hypersexualized' because of early exposure, or is hypersexualized kid just likely to do some more exploration than others? Btw. many if not most little kids do some sexual exploration; most of them don't become sexually hyperactive.
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Re: Too Sexual? Or Maybe Just Uncomfortable? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14019212 - 02/24/11 10:35 AM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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masturbate,
constantly.
in all seriousness, i believe that castration isnt a valid option cause even without hormones the brain organ incubates your psychological libido
-------------------- my tax dollars going to more hits of acid for charles manson
Edited by Lallafa (02/24/11 10:40 AM)
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