Too much booze, or weed is not good for the erections. Getting out of your head and into the moment is another thing: get primal on it, realise the carnal urges and release them. change up positions if one isn't doing it for you, forcefully make them move to suit your mood. lift up a leg.. or two, roll them onto their front, some chicks love that too, move them into a position where they have to do more work if you need to, or even tell them to get on top! Getting your candle waxed is not an exact science, just go with the flow, control it physically, not mentally Don't smoke cigarettes directly beforehand. Fatty acidic diets can also have an effect on boners... protein and vitamins are good. Oh and reduce wanking like others have said.
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