Anonymous #12 said: Can anyone give me some real examples of girls being selfish in bed?
Anonymous #7 said:
Anonymous #5 said: 1 My friend went down on his girl for 20 minutes, she patted him on the head and rolled over giving him blue balls.
2 Another friend has a problem where he can only cum from jacking off. He satisfies his girlfriend fine, but she will not put up with him jacking off onto her tits or something when done because it "makes her feel unwanted." Result, blue balls and depressed guy.
Just two examples of stuff I know of. Most guys won't even talk about that stuff to other guys.
Some people actually like scenarios like your Example 1. It happens pretty frequently in my sex life because I asked her to. I love it. Of course, if it's not something one expects or likes then it is extremely bitchy/selfish.
Example 1 is fair, but Example 2 is less clear. If she's not cool with him jacking off while she is around that is pretty freaking selfish, but if he has to come on her I could understand her reluctance. It can be pretty degrading. The one time I came on a girl's face I felt terrible after because of her expression and subsequent emotional break down.
Anyway, the guy in Example 2 should probably stop jacking for a couple of days and teach the girl how to give a handjob.
More Examples of Selfishness:
1) Girl always lays on her back never moving during sex and expects him to do all of the work. Then she blames him for sex not being exciting enough...
2) Girl gets pissed off if the guy turns her down when he is tired/drunk. Guy wishing to make his lady happy/avoid confrontation sucks it up and does it anyway most of the time. But unless she's 100% in the mood won't even entertain the thought of any sexual activity. 
3) Girl rides guys face and he eats it like a champ for an hour, but she always gives up on a bj after 5 minutes. 
4) Girl refuses to give handjobs because it is weird. ORLY? So that's why you beg me to stick it inside of you, slap your face with it, and shove it down your throat? 
I could go on and on... All of that has happened to me and most of it with the same girl. Fortunately, we've managed to correct most of that behavior except for #2. To be fair though, I can think of equally as many scenarios with guys being selfish.
PS: Writing this makes me think why the hell did I put up with all of that. I guess it goes to show you that things can turn around and you can make people into better lovers if you try. Sexually inexperienced people are a lot of work though.
Some of those sound kind of specific but i've ran into them before.
But the most common is this one, and most you bitches are guilty of it.
Quote: 1) Girl always lays on her back never moving during sex and expects him to do all of the work.
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