Anonymous #1 said:

I wish! I'm really not that bad looking but when it comes to talking to new girls, or new anyone for that matter, I freeze. I wish I didn't. I could really do with some female companionship about now. I'm not even just  talkingaboutfucking, just someone there.

All the girls profiles i read on pof say 'don't message me just saying hi or I probably won't respond'... Well how the fuck are you supposed to start chatting to someone? Declare Jihad on their families or something!

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Anonymous #12 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

I wish! I'm really not that bad looking but when it comes to talking to new girls, or new anyone for that matter, I freeze. I wish I didn't. I could really do with some female companionship about now. I'm not even just  talkingaboutfucking, just someone there.

All the girls profiles i read on pof say 'don't message me just saying hi or I probably won't respond'... Well how the fuck are you supposed to start chatting to someone? Declare Jihad on their families or something!

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lulwat. there is a time in your life where you need to leave your comfort zone. don't be such a fucking pussy. go out and start talking. talk to girls you don't find attractive. start random convos with guys, even. just practice socialisng in everywhere.
please don't be another one of those guys who blames there problems on being anti-social or having anxiety cause really, they are weak humans. it's time to man the fuck up and break your boundaries. i don't give a shit if you were abused as a child, had a terrible childhood, bullied at school or still get picked on, do not fucking falter. you want something, go fucking get it.

and yeh chances are, you'll get girls that just like all the messages they get too make themselves better. just send messages to hundreds of girls with copy and pastes.

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Anonymous #1 said:

All the girls profiles i read on pof say 'don't message me just saying hi or I probably won't respond'... Well how the fuck are you supposed to start chatting to someone? Declare Jihad on their families or something!

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Ask them a question about something towards the end of their profile so it looks like you took the time to read it. If they think you're cute they'll respond. For fucks sake, don't pick the one sexual thing in their profile to talk about, if they talk about sex before having it with you, they feel like whores and get scared off.



I agree with other guy too, step out of your comfort zone. IRL you should talk about pop culture or music or something to let them know you aren't "weird" or a serial killer when you first start talking. Then ask a question but don't interview her. Repeat until she asks you a question (she's interested). Talk for a minute, then make a dumb joke. If she laughs you're in. Talk about TV shows and "normal" shit until she's flirting with you, then tell her about this really cool new thing you bought that's back at your house, and then ask her to come over and see it, but don't break your state of mind, if she senses any hesitation or disbelief that she'll come, she won't do it. You'd be amazed by how well this works.

Anonymous #11 said:

You could try meeting girls IRL.

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Anonymous #13 said:

There should be a website that is completely the opposite. Ya know, for people who want to share their drugs and their genitals.

And then the world would be a wonderful place

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Anonymous #11 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

All the girls profiles i read on pof say 'don't message me just saying hi or I probably won't respond'... Well how the fuck are you supposed to start chatting to someone? Declare Jihad on their families or something!

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Ask them a question about something towards the end of their profile so it looks like you took the time to read it. If they think you're cute they'll respond. For fucks sake, don't pick the one sexual thing in their profile to talk about, if they talk about sex before having it with you, they feel like whores and get scared off.



I agree with other guy too, step out of your comfort zone. IRL you should talk about pop culture or music or something to let them know you aren't "weird" or a serial killer when you first start talking. Then ask a question but don't interview her. Repeat until she asks you a question (she's interested). Talk for a minute, then make a dumb joke. If she laughs you're in. Talk about TV shows and "normal" shit until she's flirting with you, then tell her about this really cool new thing you bought that's back at your house, and then ask her to come over and see it, but don't break your state of mind, if she senses any hesitation or disbelief that she'll come, she won't do it. You'd be amazed by how well this works.

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Haha pop culture...my grasp of this is negligible! Better start learning!