So yeah, three females, three reactions to the situation. The one was very mellow about it, and seems very stable. One was a long term friend who blew up and said, "I doubt I will ever forgive you for this." She was quite stern, and seems true to her word considering she never kissed a guy and I told her about the other girls and was honest about everything. She wanted to hear it all, but didn't like it in the least.
The interesting one is the third one. I expected it to go like the second-big blow up. I mentioned something about polygamy and she started freaking out. She said "you didn't tell me you were married, let alone had multiple wives!" I was like "uh... I'm not married, I just am going out with 3 er well now 2 people." She had a face palm moment and mentioned that she dated multiple guys, and currently does, but no one is the actual boyfriend. So I was then asking how she wanted to proceed since clearly she is the same boat. Her response was quite forward, "you said you were going to fuck me for hours, cuddle, and sleep with me. You better keep your promise."
So... yeah this is weird. I lost a friend of 5 years over this whole issue (but I dunno she was flaky) and to cut to the chase have been given the order to fuck for hours or die trying. It is weird, she is like a penpal who wants to meet occasionally for romance/animal like sex.
The first gal I told though is clear girlfriend material, since her reaction seemed the least threatening in terms of the polar wanting my balls chopped off/wanting them in her mouth.
This is probably going to go badly 
I guess the best thing to do is talk it over with the cool one to see how she feels about it all. It would suck to lose her. Both are smart, and the penpal one wants something long term in spread out times that wouldn't take away from the other.
I'm at kind of a lose, as I didn't expect any of this a week ago.
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