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Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence!
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So, here's the deal. This week I have had a lot of crap coming my way, my girlfriend has been really busy, so I haven't been able to see her all week.

I have also been a little depressed, thinking I have irrepairably screwed up my school-life, and that my girlfriend leaving me is very imminent. This depression is probably partly caused by life events, partly by mdma hangover.

So this week in which I haven't been able to see my girl I have repeatedly sent my girlfriend text messages telling her how terribly much I love her (which I really really do) to which she has responded.

Up untill yesterday, when I was talking to her on an online messaging program, and at some point I sent her a video of her when she was like 14 or something, doing some stupid shit. Accompanying it I sent her the message "You were fucking annoying when you were 14... *pauze* " :P " "

She didn't respond well. Since then she has been VERY slow responding to my text messages, sometimes not responding at all. I called her this afternoon to ask her to meet up tonight, and she responded a little coolly, and wasn't very apologetic for not answering my texts.

So in my mind, she either

* Want's to punish me in some way for insulting her.

* Is seriously pissed off.









Please spare me the initial troll posts "dshsb" "she's fucking someone else bro" etc.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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it sounds to me like she's pissed off AND wants to "punish" you for insulting her. But anyway, so? Whats the discussion at hand?

Are you asking a random group of anonymous people what we think about her/her reaction?
If you really love her as much as you say you do then you know her, and I assure you you know her better than anyone that will reply to this.

Any opinions about this would be just random guessing OR those stupid troll posts you are talking about.

You are just describing a very normal situation. You've been depressed and feel like you need her attention, you blew that by saying something stupid. Now she is upset because of it and you gotta fix it somehow. Once again, we dont know her, you SHOULD. There for, you SHOULD know what to do to "redeem" yourself, or at least you should have a better idea on how to start or how to approach this situation than random people who know nothing about her would.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #2]
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could be that she wants to 'punish' you. which is abuse.

could be that she is just done and doesn't have the ovaries to come out with it.

you should get yourself someone to talk to, a counselor. and once you have your head on straight you can judge your relationship more objectively... if it isn't over by then.

they come and they go dude. but you have to love yourself first.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Ok she's purposefully treating me like crap now. What to do? I love her too much to leave her, but I can't just accept this crap from her.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Err tell her she's hurting you.  Be honest.  If she doesn't stop...well...you know your choices.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Ok she's purposefully treating me like crap now. What to do? I love her too much to leave her, but I can't just accept this crap from her.


you are a co dependent. you should read up on it. she doesn't love you, if she did she wouldn't be treating you this way. she's abusing you. see a counselor for your own good. the way you let her treat you makes me think that you really don't love yourself. man, its all good. see a counselor.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #4 said:
Err tell her she's hurting you.  Be honest.  If she doesn't stop...well...you know your choices.


Anonymous #3 said:
Anonymous #1 said:
Ok she's purposefully treating me like crap now. What to do? I love her too much to leave her, but I can't just accept this crap from her.


you are a co dependent. you should read up on it. she doesn't love you, if she did she wouldn't be treating you this way. she's abusing you. see a counselor for your own good. the way you let her treat you makes me think that you really don't love yourself. man, its all good. see a counselor.


fuck, it's just that I want to see her so fucking bad. It's like I'm burning up without her.

And generally she's sweeter than anything, it's just every now and then she just seems to wanna see how far she can fucking push me!

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i understand. you have to understand that your happiness doesn't depend on her at all. she may be a sweet little something in your life. but your happiness ought to be more important than holding on to an abuser. please see a counselor, for your own good, it'll make a better world for everyone.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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duuude... im not sure if it's her or Me thats fucking with my head but it's bad. just had her on the phone and she laughed when I told her I missed her really bad...! Then she was really vague about meeting up tonight, and she would call me back later...

I know it sounds like I'm this chump in an obviously abusive relationship, but just a couple of days ago she was telling me how insecure she felt about her body (which is something like a fourteen year old's, but hawt) and I told her that people who weren't attracted to her just because she has small breasts weren't worth her time anyway, and she actually cried because she felt so touched. I don't know what the fucks come into her....

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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maybe you just need to show her that both of you need work to make it. if she doesn't want to, it's hopeless. you should really consider counseling.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Dude FUCK counceling, she's just my girlfriend I'm 18 she's 16, if we can't make it on our own we just gonna break up.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Not seeing her till saturday night. I want to die.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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ok fine fuck counseling... i thought you came here for advice?

this pattern is going to show up in every single romantic relationship you'll ever be a part of until you clear up your emotional issues.

no counseling? lol good luck with life, buddy!

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I can deal with shit myself without counselling. I'll make mistakes. I'll learn from them.

Besides I was in a weak position earlier, but I'm not taking any more crap of this bitch.

You see the reason I don't want to leave her is

1 I love her

2 she assures me of sex every weekend

I'd rather be in an abusive relationship in which I have hawt sex every weekend than not be in a relationship tbh. Besides, even when she is being a bitch she is charming.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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you can tell yourself whatever you want, kiddo. just please remember this thread 10 years from now.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Why are you so certain that I can't just live and learn from my mistakes, but need counselling? :confused:

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Someone already said it, but the whole time I was reading this I was thinking co-dependence problems. It happens to the best of us. Do some reading up on it and fix that shit. It can be overcome.

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Yeah, OP, you don't want to "need her."

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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you'll always be attracted to people with emotional issues. thats just how it goes man. and these problems will come up, in one form or another, whether you're the abuser or the abusee, in all of these relationships. that is, until you deal with the underlying cause. you are co dependent, your posts yell it out loud. but another problem i see is that you're fucking a kid. there is a lot of life experience and physiological development, especially in the brain, that happens in that two year gap. just another thing to consider... you don't need her to be happy. you don't need sex to be happy either. the way you talk about it, you sound like a drug addict. just sayin'...

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Re: Minor Relationship Issue, Too Complicated To Sysopsize In One Sentence! [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I'm sorry you feel this way :ooo:
I'm just a kid myself you fool.

Sounds to me you have let yourself be influenced too much by the law system in your country.

I mean, according to your logic it is also unethical to fuck plain stupid girls?

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