i've had a lady friend for two years. we've had our ups and downs but we've identified them and have been working toward correcting them and 'making it'. i thought all was well. i started treating her the way she deserves. she started showing me affection. basically we've been a couple again for the first time in 4 months.
then today happened.
i come up to her to ask her a question from behind, i see that she is texting someone, and as soon as she is aware of me she quickly hides her phone... i've never seen her so nervous... long story short; she's flirting with some dude that though he lives in the same state, is a hundred or so miles away... when i confront her.. she denies it. she tells me it was a simple question she was asking him. then she shows me her phone and it's apparent that the two have had a long drawn conversation (weeks; since she's been to some conference)... fucking great...
this is all after i've been very honest with her and told her what i need from her in terms of what i need from her in this relationship. just yesterday i told her that whenever she feels the need she can do whatever the hell she wants as long as she is honest with me (in terms of toying around with other men). i told her; if it compromises the relationship, so be it. if not, then we're totally honest and satisfied with the way things are. she looks at me like i'm crazy and tells me she could never see anything in another man.
i've told her everything with respect to current different sex relationships that she ought to know about (closer than just colleagues basically). and she lied to me. i feel so betrayed it's a bit annoying... especially considering what sacrifices i've made and strange sexy pussy i've denied for her.
god damn
/rant
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