Anonymous #1 said:
I am an 18 year old virgin. Yesterday, i asked my girlfriend, with whom I have had a relationship for about 3 weeks, wether I could have sex with her (we were making out at the time)
She initially said no, but later asked me to repeat the question. This time, she agreed. At this point however, due to excessive excitement, or due to me having sustained a boner for a very long time, i could not attain an erect penis. I told her I was a little tired at this point. Today she told me she had thought about it (why have women been given the ability to think, why!) and thought we should wait till a later point in our relationship. fuck my life.
Any thoughts or advice?
Women don't generally like to be ASKED. I mean, think about it for a second, would you want some chick to ASK you? Probably not. Many women prefer a fairly assertive approach, you make out with 'em a little and advance to heavy petting, and then gettin her clothes off(as well as your own), and then teasing her for a while (aka foreplay), after that there's not really much left except the deed itself. If a woman is uncomfortable with your approach, she will say so, or tell you to stop.
Sex is awesome, so don't ruin it for yourself by over analyzing it. Just go with the flow.
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......however should she show some resistance, just back off 
Kiss her and move on. Your making it a bigger deal then it needs to be. You have a cock, she has a vagina...its meant to happen bro
To make things worse if you DONT Get it up, girls are thinking something is wrong with them! Trust me, you not getting a hard on isnt causing her to question your ability to keep it up (shes seen you keep it up). By the time you loose your hard shes judging herself and thinking your not having sex with her because shes ugly or something. Ive had it happen twice where the girl will break down crying because she thinks your inability to get it up is because you think shes fat, or ugly, ect.